Imagine this: It's 2 am, you're comfortably tucked into bed, and suddenly, the doorbell rings. You're not expecting anyone, but you have a hunch about who it might be. It's your friend, who has a knack for showing up unannounced, even at ungodly hours. Despite your repeated pleas for some heads up, the pattern continues. Now, you're left wondering: are you wrong for not answering the door? Or is your friend crossing a line? Let's dive into this late-night saga. 🌙🚪
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The Late-Night Drama: Friend or Foe? 🌙🚪
In a saga of late-night visits, a woman finds herself at odds with her close friend who has a habit of showing up unannounced. The friend, who lives two hours away and is not on good terms with his brother, often finds refuge at her apartment. Despite her pleas for advance notice, the unexpected visits continue, even at 2 am. She's left questioning: Is she wrong for not answering the door? Or is her friend crossing a line? The drama unfolds as she grapples with setting boundaries and maintaining her friendship. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...🌐💬
"NTA. Showing up unannounced is super rude. Talk to your friend and let him know it's unacceptable. Your friend doesn't live there, and he's not entitled to use your apartment as a crash pad." 🚪
chickenfightyourmom | chickenfightyourmom
NTA, set boundaries with unannounced visits. Communicate clearly and consistently.
CAgirl17 | CAgirl17
Don't be a midnight intruder! Give a heads-up, people! 🚫
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"NTA. He's taking advantage of your kindness because you're his only friend. He knows if he lets you know ahead of time that he wants to come, you might say no and then he's stuck. So he shows up and hopes you'll have pity and let him in. Telling him to call ahead and ask hasn't worked for this reason. Don't let him in if you don't feel like it. He needs to figure out that you are not his second home. He needs to stop this behavior." 😤💔
No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628
Setting boundaries: live them and don't let him in! 🚪
dck133 | dck133
Setting boundaries with a friend who overstays their welcome 🚫
00Lisa00 | 00Lisa00
Confusion over friend's frequent late-night visits and recent behavior 😔
idkwhattoputhere2319 | idkwhattoputhere2319
Friend drops by unannounced, sparks debate about home security 🚪
Okredditornot | Okredditornot
NTA. Enforce boundaries! Communicate plan to avoid future surprises. 🚪
czechtheboxes | czechtheboxes
NTA: Irresponsible friend needs to learn train schedules and boundaries 🚪
-im-tryin- | -im-tryin-
Setting boundaries and enforcing consequences. NTA, tough but fair. 🚩
SonuvaGunderson | SonuvaGunderson
Set boundaries with your friend to avoid unexpected visits. 🚪
Skippy2716 | Skippy2716
Setting boundaries: Don't let him in next time! 🚫
AceyAceyAcey | AceyAceyAcey
Friend or Foe? NTA. Entitled friend wants your apartment key. 🚫🔑
lonnielee3 | lonnielee3
Stand your ground and set boundaries with your friend 🚪
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FWB gone wrong: NTA wants respect, not just orgasms. 🙄
SnooPeppers1641 | SnooPeppers1641
Beware of the leech! This 'friend' is taking advantage of you. 🚡
DrDiarrhea | DrDiarrhea
Late night surprise: friend or foe? You're definitely NTA! 😊
thicklover | thicklover
Unwelcome guest? No respect, just looking for a free ride. 🚫
truthisthebest | truthisthebest
NTA. Suggesting hotels for friend's better sleepover etiquette 👯
ProudBoomer | ProudBoomer
Set boundaries, be respected, and maintain a healthy relationship. 👍
ThrowAwayGoddess6 | ThrowAwayGoddess6
NTA. Late-night surprise teaches him a valuable planning lesson. 🌙
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
NTA. Boundaries, abuse signs, and being a doormat. Take care!
FirebirdWriter | FirebirdWriter
NTA, it's common courtesy to give proper notice 🚪
Panda_coffee | Panda_coffee
"NTA: Set boundaries and don't be a free motel. 🚪"
Psychological-Pie938 | Psychological-Pie938
Late-night visitors beware! This person means business after 10pm. 🚨
LisaW481 | LisaW481
Set boundaries and don't let him in unannounced. You deserve better. 🚪
Djhinnwe | Djhinnwe
Ungrateful freeloader crashing on your couch? Definitely NTA! 🙄
Sunshine2080 | Sunshine2080
"No emergency on their part, no favors on your part" 🚪
canadianwhimsy | canadianwhimsy
Showing up unannounced is rude 🚫 Knocking doesn't mean you have to answer 🙏
KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild
NTA: He intentionally showed up without asking, he knew better.
Queen_Sized_Beauty | Queen_Sized_Beauty
Transportation and job questions for frequent visitor. 🚧
expanding_crystal | expanding_crystal
Late night surprise? No way! NTA for ignoring unexpected visitors! 🚪
ClockWeasel | ClockWeasel
Unannounced 2 am visit? NTA! Set boundaries for future stays. 🚫
FlippingPossum | FlippingPossum
Unwanted surprise visits? Set boundaries and avoid rude interruptions! 🚫
Gullible_Chocolate40 | Gullible_Chocolate40
Setting boundaries and teaching friends to respect your time 👍
hybridhearts | hybridhearts
Set boundaries and stick to them to avoid bad habits. 🙌
Kazvicious | Kazvicious
Setting boundaries: Don't let him barge in uninvited! 🚫
Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964
Unannounced 2 AM visit? NTA. No respect! Sleep on street! 🚪
Beabandit | Beabandit
Compassionate perspective on a troubled individual in need of help.
CitizenDane27 | CitizenDane27
ESH. Establish boundaries before ignoring late night doorbells. 🚪
frauleinsteve | frauleinsteve
Set boundaries and never answer unannounced visitors. 🚫
canvasshoes2 | canvasshoes2
Late night surprise: friend knocks, OP not the a**hole. 🌙🚪
ItsMassenillo1 | ItsMassenillo1
NTA. Uninvited friend is like a stray cat. Get a cat! 🐱
Errvalunia | Errvalunia
NTA!! Rinse and repeat until he learns his lesson. 🚪
pogum1 | pogum1
Miscommunication leads to unexpected visitor. 🚪
MUNKEIJUNKEI | MUNKEIJUNKEI
Safety first! NTA for not opening the door to strangers 🙌
Violet351 | Violet351
Set clear boundaries and stick to them to avoid manipulation. 🙌
Medievalmoomin | Medievalmoomin
Put your foot down and set boundaries with your friend. 🚪
ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586
Setting boundaries: NTA, it's rude to show up unannounced 🚫
DaniCapsFan | DaniCapsFan
NTA: Set boundaries and enforce them to avoid unexpected guests 🚪
nolechica | nolechica
NTA. Friend's manners are worse than a barn animal. Grow up!
cpcfax1 | cpcfax1
Heartfelt longing for a late friend's 2am phone calls. 💜
Pouperscouper | Pouperscouper
Cutting off toxic friends: should you do it? 🤔
ConsistentCheesecake | ConsistentCheesecake
Setting boundaries with a homeless friend 🚪
Navybuffalo | Navybuffalo
Unapologetic guest disrupts plans, commenter not the a**hole. 🚪
FantasticElastic7 | FantasticElastic7
NTA. Friend needs to learn responsibility and plan ahead 🚫
w11f1ow3r | w11f1ow3r
Late night visits from friends: NTA but still annoying! 🌙🚪
gdubh | gdubh
Setting boundaries with friends can be tough, but it's important! 🙏
thesammae | thesammae
Late night doorbell scare: NTA, it's a huge asshole move 🚪
icecreampenis | icecreampenis
Friend or Foe at the Doorstep? 🚪 NTA, Small Request Ignored.
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When your friend's rant on Reddit gets exposed. 😂 NTA
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Safety first! Don't open the door to strangers at 2am! 🚨
Zemilyxi | Zemilyxi
Not the a**hole. What happened? Tell us your story! 😊
Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612
Not the a**hole. What happened? Tell us your story! 😊
ErictheViking4421 | ErictheViking4421
Late night surprise: Unwanted visitor at 2 AM 🚪👀
chanteusetriste | chanteusetriste
No surprises here, just a considerate friend. NTA 🙌
Senator_Bink | Senator_Bink
A shocking encounter! Is the friend or foe? NTA
Slash1909 | Slash1909
Setting boundaries: You're not a free crash pad. 🚩
Chasmosaur | Chasmosaur
Your home, your rules. No obligation to take them in. 🙏
[deleted] | [deleted]
🚫 NTA. Set boundaries and avoid eviction by ending crash pad.
CompetitiveLecture5 | CompetitiveLecture5
Set boundaries and cut back on contact with disrespectful friend. 🚪
kitkatkate1013 | kitkatkate1013
Saying no to a mooching friend: NTA, set boundaries! 🚪
bibbiddybobbidyboo | bibbiddybobbidyboo
NTA. Do you want a boundary-ignoring creep as a friend? 🚫
Swedish-Butt-Whistle | Swedish-Butt-Whistle
Ex pulls emotional manipulation, beware of the social contract trap! 🚨
VegQuaker | VegQuaker
NTA: Rude friend shows up uninvited, leaving you out of plans. 🙄
tomtomclubthumb | tomtomclubthumb
Safety first! No friend should ring your doorbell at 2am 🚫
mrsmiggenspieshop | mrsmiggenspieshop
Not the a**hole, but what happened next? 🤔
Mpg19470 | Mpg19470
Set healthy boundaries and prioritize self-care. 🌟✨
[deleted] | [deleted]
Late night visitor: Friend or foe? Police and shotgun involved! 🚪
DennisB126 | DennisB126
No a**hole here. A pleasant surprise at the doorstep! 😊
DecayingFruit | DecayingFruit
Setting boundaries with friends: NTA, but friend needs clear communication 👍
A_Drunken_Panda | A_Drunken_Panda
Late night knocks at 2 am? No thanks! NTA 🚫
Mysterious-Winter616 | Mysterious-Winter616
