Meet our young couple: a 21-year-old guy and his 22-year-old girlfriend, together for a whopping 10 years! She's always been into coloring her hair, experimenting with red, blue, purple, and blonde highlights. However, she's never dyed her whole head. Recently, she decided to go for a bold half-black, half-bright-green look. But her boyfriend isn't a fan of this style and thinks it would distract from her natural beauty. She knew his opinion, but booked the appointment anyway. When he expressed his feelings, she canceled the appointment, leaving her feeling defeated. Was he wrong to discourage her? 🤷♀️

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Colorful Hair Obsession 🌈

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Boyfriend's Opinion 💬

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The Bold New Look 💚🖤

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Natural Beauty vs. Bold Hair 🌸

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Surprise Appointment 📅

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Friends' Support 🤗

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Honesty Hurts 😞

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Deflated Dreams 💔

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Long-lasting Love 💕

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Realizations and Redemption 🌟

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Surprise Rebooking 🎁

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Surprise Ruined 😔

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Emotional Moment 💞

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A Promise to Let Her Shine ✨

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PS: Dressing Up and Hair Dye 🤦♂️

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The Emotional Rollercoaster of Hair Dye 🎢😭
Our young couple's story takes us on an emotional rollercoaster. The girlfriend's dream of bold, half-black, half-green hair was met with her boyfriend's disapproval, causing her to cancel the appointment. Realizing the weight of his words, he rebooks the appointment as a surprise, only for it to be canceled again due to an outbreak in their area. Despite the setbacks, this story ends with a heartfelt moment between the two, as he promises to let her shine and embrace her choices. 💖✨
Boyfriend criticized girlfriend's hair, called out for controlling behavior 🔥

NUT-me-SHELL | NUT-me-SHELL
Controlling boyfriend disapproves of girlfriend's hairstyle 😱 YTA

weenumpty2 | weenumpty2
Let her hair be, YTA. Her opinion is all that matters 👍

OldGregg84 | OldGregg84
Don't let your opinion of her appearance override her feelings. YTA 🔥

SoftLovelies | SoftLovelies
Don't date someone with preferences you find unattractive. YTA.

LipstickRevenge | LipstickRevenge
Supportive spouse offers bald head to wife for comfort 🙌

FormalJellyfish4683 | FormalJellyfish4683
Choosing honesty over her happiness makes you the a**hole. 🤷♀️

iwannabeonreddit | iwannabeonreddit
Don't surprise her with a hair appointment on the day, YTA 😬

talldarkandundead | talldarkandundead
Commenter suggests OP values looks over personality, YTA verdict.

JosephJoestarirl | JosephJoestarirl
Supporting self-expression is important. YTA for not supporting her.

haveitgood | haveitgood
Why should a woman's appearance be a concern for others? 🤔

fakemonalisa | fakemonalisa
Don't mess with someone's hair or you'll end up alone 👍

emccm | emccm
Let her hair be or be an AH. 🤷♂️

Libba_Loo | Libba_Loo
Don't dress up for hair dyeing day! Bring backup clothes 💫

TestyParasite | TestyParasite
Jojo's fans bond over girlfriend's hair color inspiration 👍

East_Bananya_849 | East_Bananya_849
Accept her for who she is or find someone else 👭

SpeakerCareless | SpeakerCareless
Commenter suggests OP is more concerned with hair than relationship. 🤔

Teppic5 | Teppic5
Honesty is the best policy: NTA for disagreeing with girlfriend's hair 👍

sonal1988 | sonal1988
Prioritizing your opinion over her happiness makes you YTA 👎

Jazzisa | Jazzisa
NTA for expressing opinion on girlfriend's hair 👍

mybadreputation1970 | mybadreputation1970
Don't be an a**hole, support your loved ones. YTA.

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A refreshing take on respecting personal choices. 👍

WalnutsCupcake | WalnutsCupcake
Redditors criticize guy for having honest negative opinion about girlfriend's hair 🙄

Darthkhydaeus | Darthkhydaeus
Be a supportive partner, it's just hair! Soft YTA 👍

wubbly-wump | wubbly-wump
Honesty is key in relationships 💎👍

hbauman0001 | hbauman0001
Encourage her dream 😊 It's important to her happiness.

GreekAmericanDom | GreekAmericanDom
Honesty is the best policy. NTAH. 👍

skbjdb | skbjdb
Controlling partner gets called out for criticizing girlfriend's hair 👏

SabrinaSpellman1 | SabrinaSpellman1
Commenter calls out age gap in relationship, YTA confirmed 🤨

sakuraaoi | sakuraaoi
NTA for expressing discomfort with girlfriend's hair color choice. Relationships require some sacrifice of individuality. 🙏

sexypantstime | sexypantstime
Let her have fun and feel confident. Don't be controlling 👍

mermecha | mermecha
Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and controlling 🚫

tigerwiz | tigerwiz
Commenter calls out OP for controlling girlfriend's hair. YTA.

kidd_gloves | kidd_gloves
Honesty is the best policy. NTA for expressing feelings 👍

xxfrugsxx | xxfrugsxx
Let her live her life, man! YTA 🙄

Betta_jazz_hands | Betta_jazz_hands
Age difference questioned, but OP clarifies they're close in age 👨🏻💻

lovingpauper | lovingpauper
Honesty is the best policy 👍, even with hair preferences.

kt99_ | kt99_
Asserting personal opinions, Reddit's not the boss here! 💪

InnefecientIronscape | InnefecientIronscape
Honesty hurts, but NAH. Girlfriend's dream hair turns nightmare 😱💔

ShadowsObserver | ShadowsObserver
Healthy communication leads to lasting relationships ❤

duckingpancakes | duckingpancakes
Encourage creativity and avoid honesty to prevent hair nightmares. 😱

hbm32 | hbm32
Honesty is the best policy, NTA wins this round.

akuma_87 | akuma_87
Commenter told off for criticizing girlfriend's hair choice 🙅

patrickseastarslegs | patrickseastarslegs
Internet strangers change OP's outlook in wholesome comment section ❤

Difficult_Bread4001 | Difficult_Bread4001
Positive feedback on hair transformation. Love the growth ❤

CrispinLocke | CrispinLocke
Positive comment receives supportive response 🤗

really-babes | really-babes
Honesty is key, but so is making your partner happy 😊

diefree85 | diefree85
Personal preference vs controlling behavior in hair choices. 💃

lizzy_in_the_sky | lizzy_in_the_sky
From YTA to growth, a positive update 👍

nugent_music96 | nugent_music96
Controlling partner ruins girlfriend's joy over hairstyle. 😢

PolesRunningCoach | PolesRunningCoach
Love your partner for who they are, not as an accessory ❤

MoistUniversities | MoistUniversities
The comment section is a wild ride 🎡

Freecz | Freecz
Helpful tip for salon visits: wear clothes you don't mind staining 😊

WhittSmitt | WhittSmitt
Partner's hair shouldn't carry this much weight in a relationship. 🚫

lilacmoony | lilacmoony
Redemption story! From YTA to NTA, happy ending 🙌

alizarincrimson | alizarincrimson
A heartwarming comment about love and second chances ♥

Vythika96 | Vythika96
Redemption arc: OP learns to not be an a**hole 👏

jeynespoole | jeynespoole
Redemption achieved! YTA learns and changes plans 👏🏻

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Honesty is key, but couples therapy could help further.

bravo009 | bravo009
Partner's happiness is key, NTA anymore 😊

Juesu | Juesu
Partner criticized for controlling girlfriend's hair choices 😡

GlassSandwich9315 | GlassSandwich9315
Commenter calls out relationship length, receives backstory explanation 🤔

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Redeeming response to OP taking judgement to heart 👏

Kosta7785 | Kosta7785