Girlfriend's Dream Hair Turns into a Nightmare 😱💔

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Diply | Diply

Meet our young couple: a 21-year-old guy and his 22-year-old girlfriend, together for a whopping 10 years! She's always been into coloring her hair, experimenting with red, blue, purple, and blonde highlights. However, she's never dyed her whole head. Recently, she decided to go for a bold half-black, half-bright-green look. But her boyfriend isn't a fan of this style and thinks it would distract from her natural beauty. She knew his opinion, but booked the appointment anyway. When he expressed his feelings, she canceled the appointment, leaving her feeling defeated. Was he wrong to discourage her? 🤷‍♀️

Colorful Hair Obsession 🌈

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Boyfriend's Opinion 💬

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The Bold New Look 💚🖤

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Natural Beauty vs. Bold Hair 🌸

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Surprise Appointment 📅

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Friends' Support 🤗

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Honesty Hurts 😞

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Deflated Dreams 💔

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Long-lasting Love 💕

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Realizations and Redemption 🌟

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Surprise Rebooking 🎁

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Surprise Ruined 😔

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

Emotional Moment 💞

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

A Promise to Let Her Shine ✨

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

PS: Dressing Up and Hair Dye 🤦‍♂️

anonhaircolor | anonhaircolor

The Emotional Rollercoaster of Hair Dye 🎢😭

Our young couple's story takes us on an emotional rollercoaster. The girlfriend's dream of bold, half-black, half-green hair was met with her boyfriend's disapproval, causing her to cancel the appointment. Realizing the weight of his words, he rebooks the appointment as a surprise, only for it to be canceled again due to an outbreak in their area. Despite the setbacks, this story ends with a heartfelt moment between the two, as he promises to let her shine and embrace her choices. 💖✨

Boyfriend criticized girlfriend's hair, called out for controlling behavior 🔥


Controlling boyfriend disapproves of girlfriend's hairstyle 😱 YTA

weenumpty2 | weenumpty2

Let her hair be, YTA. Her opinion is all that matters 👍

OldGregg84 | OldGregg84

Don't let your opinion of her appearance override her feelings. YTA 🔥

SoftLovelies | SoftLovelies

Don't date someone with preferences you find unattractive. YTA.

LipstickRevenge | LipstickRevenge

Supportive spouse offers bald head to wife for comfort 🙌

FormalJellyfish4683 | FormalJellyfish4683

Choosing honesty over her happiness makes you the a**hole. 🤷‍♀️

iwannabeonreddit | iwannabeonreddit

Don't surprise her with a hair appointment on the day, YTA 😬

talldarkandundead | talldarkandundead

Commenter suggests OP values looks over personality, YTA verdict.

JosephJoestarirl | JosephJoestarirl

Supporting self-expression is important. YTA for not supporting her.

haveitgood | haveitgood

Why should a woman's appearance be a concern for others? 🤔

fakemonalisa | fakemonalisa

Don't mess with someone's hair or you'll end up alone 👍

emccm | emccm

Let her hair be or be an AH. 🤷‍♂️

Libba_Loo | Libba_Loo

Don't dress up for hair dyeing day! Bring backup clothes 💫

TestyParasite | TestyParasite

Jojo's fans bond over girlfriend's hair color inspiration 👍

East_Bananya_849 | East_Bananya_849

Accept her for who she is or find someone else 👭

SpeakerCareless | SpeakerCareless

Commenter suggests OP is more concerned with hair than relationship. 🤔

Teppic5 | Teppic5

Honesty is the best policy: NTA for disagreeing with girlfriend's hair 👍

sonal1988 | sonal1988

Prioritizing your opinion over her happiness makes you YTA 👎

Jazzisa | Jazzisa

NTA for expressing opinion on girlfriend's hair 👍

mybadreputation1970 | mybadreputation1970

Don't be an a**hole, support your loved ones. YTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

A refreshing take on respecting personal choices. 👍

WalnutsCupcake | WalnutsCupcake

Redditors criticize guy for having honest negative opinion about girlfriend's hair 🙄

Darthkhydaeus | Darthkhydaeus

Be a supportive partner, it's just hair! Soft YTA 👍

wubbly-wump | wubbly-wump

Honesty is key in relationships 💎👍

hbauman0001 | hbauman0001

Encourage her dream 😊 It's important to her happiness.

GreekAmericanDom | GreekAmericanDom

Honesty is the best policy. NTAH. 👍

skbjdb | skbjdb

Controlling partner gets called out for criticizing girlfriend's hair 👏

SabrinaSpellman1 | SabrinaSpellman1

Commenter calls out age gap in relationship, YTA confirmed 🤨

sakuraaoi | sakuraaoi

NTA for expressing discomfort with girlfriend's hair color choice. Relationships require some sacrifice of individuality. 🙏

sexypantstime | sexypantstime

Let her have fun and feel confident. Don't be controlling 👍

mermecha | mermecha

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and controlling 🚫

tigerwiz | tigerwiz

Commenter calls out OP for controlling girlfriend's hair. YTA.

kidd_gloves | kidd_gloves

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for expressing feelings 👍

xxfrugsxx | xxfrugsxx

Let her live her life, man! YTA 🙄

Betta_jazz_hands | Betta_jazz_hands

Age difference questioned, but OP clarifies they're close in age 👨🏻‍💻

lovingpauper | lovingpauper

Honesty is the best policy 👍, even with hair preferences.

kt99_ | kt99_

Asserting personal opinions, Reddit's not the boss here! 💪

InnefecientIronscape | InnefecientIronscape

Honesty hurts, but NAH. Girlfriend's dream hair turns nightmare 😱💔

ShadowsObserver | ShadowsObserver

Healthy communication leads to lasting relationships ❤

duckingpancakes | duckingpancakes

Encourage creativity and avoid honesty to prevent hair nightmares. 😱

hbm32 | hbm32

Honesty is the best policy, NTA wins this round.

akuma_87 | akuma_87

Commenter told off for criticizing girlfriend's hair choice 🙅

patrickseastarslegs | patrickseastarslegs

Internet strangers change OP's outlook in wholesome comment section ❤

Difficult_Bread4001 | Difficult_Bread4001

Positive feedback on hair transformation. Love the growth ❤

CrispinLocke | CrispinLocke

Positive comment receives supportive response 🤗

really-babes | really-babes

Honesty is key, but so is making your partner happy 😊

diefree85 | diefree85

Personal preference vs controlling behavior in hair choices. 💃

lizzy_in_the_sky | lizzy_in_the_sky

From YTA to growth, a positive update 👍

nugent_music96 | nugent_music96

Controlling partner ruins girlfriend's joy over hairstyle. 😢

PolesRunningCoach | PolesRunningCoach

Love your partner for who they are, not as an accessory ❤

MoistUniversities | MoistUniversities

The comment section is a wild ride 🎡

Freecz | Freecz

Helpful tip for salon visits: wear clothes you don't mind staining 😊

WhittSmitt | WhittSmitt

Partner's hair shouldn't carry this much weight in a relationship. 🚫

lilacmoony | lilacmoony

Redemption story! From YTA to NTA, happy ending 🙌

alizarincrimson | alizarincrimson

A heartwarming comment about love and second chances ♥

Vythika96 | Vythika96

Redemption arc: OP learns to not be an a**hole 👏

jeynespoole | jeynespoole

Redemption achieved! YTA learns and changes plans 👏🏻

[deleted] | [deleted]

Honesty is key, but couples therapy could help further.

bravo009 | bravo009

Partner's happiness is key, NTA anymore 😊

Juesu | Juesu

Partner criticized for controlling girlfriend's hair choices 😡

GlassSandwich9315 | GlassSandwich9315

Commenter calls out relationship length, receives backstory explanation 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Redeeming response to OP taking judgement to heart 👏

Kosta7785 | Kosta7785

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