Imagine having a peaceful family dinner, only for it to turn into a heated argument over who should be cooking. That's exactly what happened to this 27-year-old man and his wife when his mother decided to scold her daughter-in-law for not taking on the cooking duties. The husband, who had been happily cooking for his family, stepped in to defend his wife, but things quickly escalated. 😳🍲

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Wife's Cooking Dilemma 😬🔪

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A Fair Solution 👨🍳👩🍳

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Mom's Shocking Reaction 😲

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The Argument Begins 😠

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Old-Fashioned Views 🙄

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Wife Fights Back 💪

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Mom's Justification 🤦

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Family Fallout 🌪️

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Seeking Judgment 👀

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This young couple found themselves in the middle of a heated family argument when the husband's mother criticized their cooking arrangement. Despite both husband and wife being happy with their agreement, the mother's outdated views caused a rift in the family. The husband took a stand, telling his mother to get the h*ll out, but now faces backlash from his parents. Was he too harsh, or was he justified in defending his wife? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔💬
Defending wife's cooking duties causes family feud. NTA wins.

Rgirl4 | Rgirl4
Mom overlooks that it's not her marriage. NTA 👍

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Supportive comment and friendly reply about age and criticism absence 👍

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NTA for rejecting gender roles and standing up for wife 💪

zesty_lime_feelz | zesty_lime_feelz
Discussion on cultural norms and age of marriage, NTA.

ArundelvalEstar | ArundelvalEstar
NTA. Marriage is a partnership. Defend your choices 👏

Mrs_Bing-a-ling | Mrs_Bing-a-ling
NTA stands up for wife against mother's sexist views. 👏

drowningInSpam | drowningInSpam
NTA for standing up to mom's opinions on wife's duties 👏

JudgeJudAITA | JudgeJudAITA
Defending wife's cooking leads to family feud. NTA wins.

Peskypoints | Peskypoints
Defending wife leads to escalated argument with mom. Apology suggested. 😕

Creatableworld | Creatableworld
Putting family first 👨🏻👩🏻👦🏻👧🏻

inthe801 | inthe801
Gender bias in cooking roles. NTA for defending husband's cooking.

comeonvirginia | comeonvirginia
Standing up for spouse, but watch the language with mom 😊

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Cooking conflict resolved. Mom needs to apologize. NTA 👍

slimfastdieyoung | slimfastdieyoung
Proud Chinese American mom supports son's cooking skills 🍞

Even_Speech570 | Even_Speech570
Setting Boundaries with Older Asian Women 👍

Jorojr | Jorojr
NTA. Mom owes apology for disrespecting you and your wife 👏

Amara_Undone | Amara_Undone
Breaking gender stereotypes in marriage. NTA for finding solutions. 👏

Mermaidlikeschicken | Mermaidlikeschicken
Don't apologize to a misogynist. 👍

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Fair division of labor, NTA for kicking out mom 👍

MontanaDukes | MontanaDukes
NTA. Couples should figure out a cooking system that works for them 👨🏻🍳

0biterdicta | 0biterdicta
Fair system and responsible resolution. Stand your ground! 💪

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Setting boundaries and apologizing can repair family relationships 💜

cplank92 | cplank92
NTA commenter suggests a non-apology to traditional mom 😍

EffectivePath3 | EffectivePath3
NTA. Wife scolded by mother-in-law for cooking, husband defends her 👍

NtittyLovesCake | NtittyLovesCake
Supportive comment and relatable reply from fellow Canadian couple 🌞

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NTA. Good on you for standing up for your wife 👏

Invisibleamber | Invisibleamber
Breaking gender stereotypes and standing up for your partner 👏

Jmeusr | Jmeusr
Equal partnership in marriage, not slavery. NTA 👍

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Defending wife's cooking, NTA calls out mom's overstepping boundaries.

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Agreement with spouse > Mom's opinion. NTA 👏

juanredshirt | juanredshirt
Stand your ground and let them move forward without you! 👊

MollyRolls | MollyRolls
Gender should not determine cooking duties. NTA wins.

May_I_inquire | May_I_inquire
Fair division of household duties, worked for them 👍

CAgirl17 | CAgirl17
Defending wife's cooking duties, NTA. Mum can pound sand. 🥴

ElViirafights | ElViirafights
Defend your wife, apologize to mom for harsh words only 👍

eugenesnewdream | eugenesnewdream
Supportive comment encourages not apologizing and offers helpful subreddit.

SassThatFrass | SassThatFrass
Gender roles in cooking questioned. NTA for standing up.

metalasfck | metalasfck
Standing up for wife's cooking duties, apologizes for language used.

clevermuggle22 | clevermuggle22
NTA kicks out mom for scolding wife over cooking duties 👏

Impossible_Town984 | Impossible_Town984
Cooking duties and happy marriage: who cares what others think? 😎👨🍳

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Marriage is a partnership, not a master-slave relationship 👫👬

vampiresareposeurs | vampiresareposeurs
Breaking gender roles: advice for dealing with traditional family members 👨👩👧

kavi007 | kavi007
Defending spouse's cooking duties, NTA suggests apology for yelling.

trm_90 | trm_90
NTA for kicking out mom over cooking duties argument 👍

bloodfeier | bloodfeier
NTA for standing up to mom's misogynistic views 👏

flutterby727 | flutterby727
Defending spouse is important, but was kicking out mom necessary? 🤔

GandalftheGoon1 | GandalftheGoon1
Defended wife, but apologized for swearing at mom. Good advice.

albinoraisin | albinoraisin
NTA but apologize for swearing, hold firm boundary with mom 🙏

moocat | moocat
Cultural differences cause tension between son, wife, and mother. 😔

mkh060521 | mkh060521
Defending spouse against mom, NTA but swearing not necessary 🙅

InstructionPowerful1 | InstructionPowerful1
Asian family dynamics strike again. NTA for standing up.

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Mom thinks wife is a slave, commenter calls out toxicity. NTA 👍

Lanky-Temperature412 | Lanky-Temperature412
Supportive comment applauds OP for standing up against sexism. 👏

BloodSpades | BloodSpades
NTA and commended for standing up for wife's cooking duties 👏. Curious about mother's role in marriage 🤔

emherrera1960 | emherrera1960
NTA for standing up to mom's sexist comment 👏

ReiRamirez | ReiRamirez
Empowering response to internalized misogyny in Asian communities 💪

LavenderPearlTea | LavenderPearlTea
Supportive comment defends wife's cooking duties, calls out mom's behavior 👏

katmaria1 | katmaria1
Building on each other's strengths is key to successful marriages 👨👩👤

damoflances | damoflances
Cooking together is a fun experience 😋

Archums49 | Archums49
Finding balance in household chores is important 👨🍳

no_no_nora | no_no_nora
Defending spouse from mom's cooking duties, NTA reigns supreme! 👏

thatonepersoniam | thatonepersoniam
NTA for standing up for family, but consider apologizing for language 👍

QueenSupreme21 | QueenSupreme21
Defending spouse in cooking feud earns NTA commenter praise 👏

areyoukiddingmern | areyoukiddingmern
Stand up for your spouse! NTA. 👏

HelpMeUpPls | HelpMeUpPls
Supporting spouse against internalized cultural/sexist beliefs. NTA 👍

FirebirdWriter | FirebirdWriter
Commenter defends NTA's wife's cooking abilities, sparks supportive reply.

TigreFromUpstairs | TigreFromUpstairs
Defending wife is good, but insulting mom is not justified 🙅🏼

Oz365 | Oz365