Ex-Husband Accused of Misconduct, Begs for Help 🤯 But She's Not Playing His Game 😏

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Picture this: after a nasty divorce, your ex-husband shows up at your door begging for help. He's been accused of serious misconduct by a former colleague, and his career and reputation are on the line. But there's a catch – this isn't the first time this woman has caused trouble. Years ago, she stalked you and threatened your ex for money. Now, he wants you to testify on his behalf. Would you do it? 😬🙅‍♀️ That's the dilemma one woman faced when her ex-husband came knocking...

The Ugly Divorce 😠

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A Son Caught in the Middle 👦

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The Blackmailing Woman 💔

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Her Mental Health Issues 😵

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The Accusation 🚨

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The Enemy of My Enemy... 🤔

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The Weight of Her Testimony ✋

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The Desperate Plea 😢

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The Stalking Incident 🕵️‍♀️

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Her Reasoning 🙅‍♀️

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Not Her Problem Anymore 🤷‍♀️

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The Unborn Child Card 🤰

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To Testify or Not to Testify? 🤷‍♀️

After years of betrayal and a messy divorce, this woman wants nothing to do with her ex-husband. But when he's accused of misconduct and begs her to testify on his behalf, she's torn. She knows the woman accusing him has a history of stalking and threats, but she also knows her ex isn't exactly a saint. Ultimately, she decides to stay out of it, refusing to vouch for a man she no longer knows. But is she right? Or is she just being vindictive? Let's see what the internet has to say... 😏🔥

NTA. Ex-husband begs for help, but name-calling shows you made the right choice 😍

Technobliss77 | Technobliss77

Testifying truthfully is the best option 🤥📝

Iamthelube | Iamthelube

NTA. Commenters suspect ex-husband's manipulative behavior and ulterior motives 🤔

a-base | a-base

Commenters agree ex-husband's behavior is suspicious and manipulative 🤔

knitmyproblem | knitmyproblem

Ex-husband accused of misconduct and cheating with multiple coworkers. NTA.

DaiZzedandConFuZed | DaiZzedandConFuZed

Abusive men always call women crazy. Lawyers involved in case.

bridewiththeowls | bridewiththeowls

Legal advice shared on subpoena possibility for NTA commenter.

MelkorHimself | MelkorHimself

Ex-husband begs for character reference after cheating. OP not playing. NTA 😏

stunning-stasis | stunning-stasis

Ex-husband accused of misconduct, but OP doesn't know the truth 😔

DonrajSaryas | DonrajSaryas

Stay out of it 🙅 It's his mess, not yours.

evee_eeve | evee_eeve

Karma's a b***h, and this ex-husband got what he deserved 😏


Commenter advocates for sticking to facts in legal proceedings. Replies clarify difference between immoral and illegal behavior.

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Ex-husband directs ex-wife on what to say in legal proceedings 🤯, but she's not playing his game 😏

chop1125 | chop1125

Ex-husband begs for help, but commenter shuts him down. NTA 👏

lemonnleaf | lemonnleaf

Being NTA doesn't mean being a good witness 🤔

Gwendolynftw | Gwendolynftw

No obligation to defend ex-husband. He burned too many bridges 👍

Kittytigris | Kittytigris

Ex-husband's true character would be exposed in court 🤯

Ukulele__Lady | Ukulele__Lady

👏 NTA shuts down ex-husband's game-playing with a burn

cbseda | cbseda

Commenter suggests providing relevant information to police, not ex-husband.

Mischief_Makers | Mischief_Makers

Questioning the ex-husband's story with a hint of suspicion 🤔


🐒 Not your circus, not your monkey. NTA takes charge.

HereToCommentOnAITA | HereToCommentOnAITA

👍 Taking responsibility for your actions is important. NTA.

Velvet_Unicorn2154 | Velvet_Unicorn2154

Survivor shares experience with manipulative ex, supports OP's decision. 👏

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Ex-husband's flirty behavior leads to obsession accusation. NTA verdict.

flipityflopityfukoff | flipityflopityfukoff

Commenter questions ex-husband's story, offers support to OP 🙏

RX-18-67 | RX-18-67

No character witnesses? NTA says it all 😎

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Ex-husband's company lawsuit cost him friends, NTA wants more details 🤔

marigoldfroggy | marigoldfroggy

NTA suspects ex-husband cheated, advises staying out of mess 🤯

Dogismygod | Dogismygod

Testifying truthfully is the only way to win. 👍

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Ex-husband accused of misconduct, called out for manipulative behavior. NTA.

nononanana | nononanana

No obligation to testify and honesty is the best policy 👍

devedander | devedander

Don't be a part of his manipulation 🙎‍♀️. Stay strong 💪

dwightsteel | dwightsteel

Commenter shows no mercy for ex-husband 🙂

lilwoodlandcreature | lilwoodlandcreature

No obligation to help cheating ex-husband. NTA 👏

here_4_cat_memes | here_4_cat_memes

Don't let him drag you into his mess 🙌 NTA

MyBroPoohBear | MyBroPoohBear

NTA. Ex-husband manipulating OP into taking his side 😡

SlapCracklePlop | SlapCracklePlop

Ex-husband wants ex-wife as character witness? NTA shuts him down 😂

ElizabethIsabelle | ElizabethIsabelle

Ex-husband wants testimony, but commenter says don't lie. NTA 👏

mabshier812 | mabshier812

👏 Short and sweet. The perfect response. 👏

jericho-dingle | jericho-dingle

Ex-husband's character questioned, commenter advises to stay out 👍

RudyRoo2017 | RudyRoo2017

Refusing testimony could ruin ex-husband's life. ESH. 😱

sdric | sdric

Avoiding blackmail: NTA takes a stand against toxic ex 😎

ValkyrieEternal | ValkyrieEternal

Short and to the point. 👍🏼

imjustlurkinghere244 | imjustlurkinghere244

Ex-husband gaslights and blames ex-wife for his misconduct 😡

she-tempest | she-tempest

Ex's misconduct? Not your problem. NTA, stay strong 💪

bbangiya2 | bbangiya2

Moving on without him. NTA and not responsible for his consequences. 👏

whita309 | whita309

No help for ex-husband accused of misconduct. NTA.

jaywinner | jaywinner

Ex-husband's misconduct exposed, but she's not taking the blame. NTA 👏

turningmyluckaround | turningmyluckaround

Honesty is the best policy, even if it's not easy 🙏

lizzietnz | lizzietnz

Ex-husband's misconduct, not her problem. NTA 🙅‍♀️

NeuronFirer | NeuronFirer

Don't let him manipulate you again. NTA 👏

AKABeast18 | AKABeast18

NTA wouldn't make a good witness anyway 😜 Multiple affairs mentioned 👫

katlady1961a | katlady1961a

Ex-wife advised not to testify for ex-husband accused of misconduct 🙅

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Taking a stand against ex-husband's misconduct. NTA 👏

imabanddork | imabanddork

Testify against ex-husband? NTA, use your own script. 👏

oneyaebyonty | oneyaebyonty

Speculation on ex-husband's affair and blackmail, NTA comment section. 💭

KaijuAlert | KaijuAlert

A tempting offer for revenge, but is it worth it? 🤔

ElenaBad | ElenaBad

Commenter sympathizes with victim, calls ex-husband selfish. NTA

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Refusing favors for an ex who mistreated you 😍

TheGreatNyanHobo | TheGreatNyanHobo

👏 Cheating ex-husband begs for help, but NTA shuts him down

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

Choosing honesty over blind loyalty 👍

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Set boundaries and speak the truth. 👍

cyberllama | cyberllama

No duty to ex-husband, no problem 😊

accountcasual | accountcasual

NTA comment shuts down ex-husband's drama 😍

marcus_roberto | marcus_roberto

Asserting your rights to say no 👍 when asked to testify.

ForTheMeatEaters | ForTheMeatEaters

Not your circus, not your monkeys. 🙈 NTA wins!

grimeybrat4004 | grimeybrat4004

👍 NTA stands firm, ex-husband gets what he deserves.

Ro0niL-WazLib | Ro0niL-WazLib

Ex-husband wants help, but commenter advises against committing perjury 🙅

TwistOfLime900 | TwistOfLime900

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