Brother Demands Sister’s Eggs for His Baby: Family Feud or Legit Request?

Imagine this: your gay brother and his husband want to have a child, and they ask you to donate your eggs so the baby can be biologically related to both of them. Would you do it? One woman found herself in this exact situation and decided to say no, sparking a heated debate within her family. Her brother and his husband accused her of being selfish, but she insists that the idea of being both aunt and biological mother to the child is just too weird for her. Let’s dive into this peculiar family dilemma. ‍ ‍

The Baby-Making Request

A Family Connection?

Eggs for Cash

Biological Kids Abroad

More Eggs in the Freezer ❄️

The Dilemma

Family Complications ‍ ‍ ‍

Accusations of Selfishness

The Temptation of Money

Creeped Out

Update: Standing Her Ground

Final Decision

Sister Stands Firm on Egg Donation Decision

Despite facing accusations of selfishness and even gay bashing, our conflicted sister remains firm in her decision not to donate her eggs to her brother and his husband. The thought of being both aunt and biological mother to the child is just too much for her to handle. While some may criticize her choice, it’s clear that this emotionally charged situation has no easy answers. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this egg-citing family drama…

NAH, but the emotional complications of seeing her biological child raised by her brother and his husband are understandable. The family dynamic would be too difficult.

Sister refuses brother’s egg request, accused of being selfish. NTA

Brother demands sister’s eggs for baby, but she’s NTA.

NAH. Family therapy could help brother understand OP’s feelings

NTA commenter and reply express disbelief at entitlement over body.

NTA comment defends decision not to donate eggs, reply criticizes adoption.

Brother expects too much, commenter is a doormat. NTA

Anonymous egg donation makes it impossible for brother to seek them.

Sibling wants eggs for baby, but NTA for refusing

Respectful comment shuts down entitled brother’s request for sister’s eggs.

Brother demands sister’s eggs for his baby: Is he entitled? NTA says no.

Donating eggs to your brother’s baby: Family feud or legit request?

Sister stands her ground on donating eggs to entitled brother

Donating eggs to family? NTA says it’s too close.

Egg donation dilemma: NAH, but family ties are complicated

NTA – Brother’s request for sister’s eggs is weird AF

Commenter jokes about having three hands, sparking humorous replies.

Kinship adoption experience shows it’s possible to navigate family dynamics

NTA, but sibling’s request for eggs is confusing and unnecessary

Sister doesn’t owe brother her eggs, but therapy may help.

Saying no to family can be tough. Emotional turmoil ahead?

NTA donor explains the emotional dissociation needed for self-care.

Donating eggs to strangers is different from giving them to family

Politely declining sibling’s request for eggs is reasonable.

NTA refuses brother’s request for eggs, citing parenting incompatibility concerns.

Empowering response to family pressuring someone’s reproductive choices.

Empowering response to egg donation request, support for personal choice.

Sibling conflict over eggs for baby, NAH with communication issues

Non-anonymous egg donation creates family dynamics. NAH.

Donating eggs to a family member: NTA or selfish?

Adopted commenter offers perspective on egg donation and family relationships. ‍

Commenter defends sister’s right to her own eggs.

Valid points made by commenter in refusing brother’s request. NTA.

Deja vu? Comment sparks memories of TV episode.

NTA defends decision to not give eggs to entitled brother.

Sister refuses to give eggs to brother for his baby. NTA.

Respect your own boundaries, don’t let others pressure you.

Choosing adoption is a tough decision, NTA for setting boundaries.

Medical practitioners advise against brother’s request for sister’s eggs. NTA.

Debating the definition of “donating” for egg exchange.

Genetic material not owed, NTA wins this family feud.

Sibling asks for eggs, gets angry when denied. NTA.

Body autonomy reigns supreme: NTA shuts down egg demand.

Empowering response to brother’s request for sister’s eggs.

Sibling demands sister’s eggs for baby, NTA refuses. Awkward family drama

Sister stands up for herself, brother and his partner called out

Body autonomy wins: NTA’s eggs are not up for grabs

Eggcellent response! Sister’s choice is not selfish. #NTA

Commenter expresses surprise, piques curiosity

Sibling asks for eggs, commenter says NTA, but understands brother’s perspective.

Valid concerns over egg donation dismissed as selfishness. NTA

A misleading title, but a reasonable request for sibling’s eggs.

Donating eggs is a personal choice, NTA.

Sister stands up for herself against entitled brother’s request

Polite refusal to brother’s baby request, but still empathetic.

Comment is off-topic, but made me chuckle

Sister refuses to give eggs to entitled brother. NTA

Clear NTA judgement with no further discussion

Sister refuses to donate eggs to brother and his partner