Imagine growing up admiring your mom’s unique necklace, only to discover it’s not what it seems. That’s exactly what happened to a young woman who found out her mom’s necklace was actually a BDSM collar, symbolizing a 24/7 kink relationship with her dad. The daughter feels betrayed and disgusted, but her parents claim it’s a healthy part of their relationship. Let’s dive into this family drama!
The Necklace Mystery
A Special Gift?
The Shocking Truth
Not Just a Necklace
Feeling Betrayed
Rethinking Her Childhood
Angry Confrontation
Dad’s Defense ️
Struggling with Forgiveness
Kink Isn’t Always Sexual
Asexual and Sex Repulsed
How It Came Up
Traumatizing Revelation
Repressed Memories
A Disturbing Past
A Family Torn Apart by Kink
This young woman’s world was turned upside down when she discovered her mom’s beloved necklace was actually a BDSM collar. The revelation has her questioning her entire childhood and struggling to forgive her parents. As she uncovers more about their kink, she’s left feeling traumatized and betrayed. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA for not wanting to be involved in their parent’s kink.
NTA. Respect people’s privacy, even if they’re your relatives.
OP’s mom traumatized her with indiscreet play and BDSM necklace. NTA.
Respect boundaries: NTA for not wanting to know about fetishes.
Mom oversharing about sex life? NTA.
Discovering her mom’s kink changed OP’s perspective on childhood
Commenter sympathizes with daughter’s discovery of mother’s public kink lifestyle
NTA comment section reveals childhood trauma caused by parents’ kink.
NTA comment exposes unhealthy BDSM relationship and nonconsenting involvement
Boundaries respected: NTA daughter finds out mom’s secret.
NTA for being upset about parents’ covert incest and sexualized environment
Privacy is key in kinks, keep them between partners. NTA.
NTA defends BDSM, warns of unhealthy power dynamics in 24/7 relationships
NTA defends against YTA accusations, sparks outrage
OP grew up around her parents’ kink, but only discovered it now
Heartbreaking update. Cut off parents. Kids shouldn’t witness sexuality.
Boundaries in sex life discussion with kids. NTA comment.
Commenter defends OP’s right to privacy and boundaries.
Respect boundaries, it’s her personal life
Childhood trauma due to parents’ 24/7 BDSM relationship. NTA.
When parents overshare about their sex lives…
Commenter expresses disgust at mom’s kink. Curious about involvement.
Mom’s BDSM secret revealed to daughter, who reacts negatively. NTA.
Shocking revelation of family kink, advice for hard boundaries. NTA.
Respecting boundaries is key, even within the kink community.
Commenter sympathizes with OP’s childhood trauma caused by abusive parents.
Respecting boundaries is important. NTA for being skeeved out
Commenter calls out negligence in exposing child to BDSM.
Living with parents’ 24/7 kink is overstepping boundaries NTA
Parental TMI? NTA for keeping sex life private
Empathetic comment about inappropriate sexual behavior and advice for therapy.
Daughter discovers mom’s kinky necklace, commenters divided
Commenter shuts down potential kink shaming with NTA response
Commenter defends OP against YTA accusations.
Ace daughter discovers mom’s BDSM secret. Awkward but NTA.
Commenter calls out mom’s inappropriate behavior. NTA.
Discovering mom’s BDSM collar leads to repressed memories and therapy
Discovering parents’ kink: NTA, but misconceptions about kink exist. Therapy recommended.
Mom’s kink overshadows daughter’s childhood memories. NTA.
Why did the mom feel the need to have this conversation?
Parents’ kink traumatized child, NTA for seeking therapy
Commenter condemns parent’s lack of consent in shocking discovery
Respect privacy! NTA comment on mom’s oversharing of kink.
Commenter criticizes servitude to men, empathizes with poster’s discomfort.
Discovering parents’ kinks can be uncomfortable, but NTA for reacting.
Violation of consent in kink is not okay. NTA.
Don’t kink shame, but seek therapy to deal with trauma
Setting boundaries for kinks around kids. NTA.
Curious commenter asks for more details.
Respectful NTA comment acknowledges discomfort with sexual topics.
Discovering parents’ kinks is a freak-out worthy situation
Respecting boundaries around discussing parents’ sex lives.
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Parenting gone wrong: a shocking discovery by the daughter
Embracing kinks doesn’t make someone a marginalized identity.
Redditor defends daughter’s perspective on unhealthy kink.
Final update reveals parents’ BDSM openness traumatized child. NTA
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Kinkster offers support and advice for traumatized daughter in crisis
Parenting and kink don’t mix. NTA for setting boundaries.
Heartbreaking experience for an ace daughter, NTA for feeling uncomfortable
Daughter discovers mom’s BDSM collar, parent’s reaction criticized.
Mom’s 24/7 BDSM kink kept hidden from daughter, NTA
When the fights stop only during sex
Commenter reacts to mom’s kinky secret with disgust
Boundaries respected, but what about the necklace?
Mother’s oversharing about kink made daughter uncomfortable. NTA.
Exposure to parents’ BDSM play during childhood is child abuse.
Respectful comment defends prudishness in a sex-positive world.
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Kink is for private spaces, not around kids. NTA.
