Family drama can be intense, especially when it comes to money and fairness. In this story, a mother (L) faces a challenging situation when her daughter she gave up for adoption (S) comes back into her life. S is adopted by her grandparents, who create a college fund for her, sparking outrage from L. Is this a case of favoritism or just a family trying to do what's best for everyone involved? Let's dive into the story and find out. 😮🍿
Grandma Accused of Favoritism Over College Fund for Adopted Granddaughter 😲

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Daughter's Tough Decision 🤰

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Adopted Granddaughter Returns 😢

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Must Read
Grandparents to the Rescue! 💪

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Treating S Like a Daughter ❤️

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College Fund Drama Erupts! 😡

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Mom's Accusations of Favoritism 🤬

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Fear of Resentment 😟

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Support System for S 🤗

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Edit: More Background Info 📝

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Favoritism or Just Fair? 🤔
This family drama has everyone questioning if the grandparents are showing favoritism towards their adopted granddaughter, S, or if they're simply trying to provide her with the support she needs. L, the mother of S and her other children, accuses her parents of treating her kids unfairly by providing S with a college fund, while her other kids don't receive the same treatment. However, the grandparents argue that they're only trying to give S the support she needs, as she has no one else to rely on. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🧐💭
NTA for favoring adopted daughter's college fund over entitled daughter's

Shanoony | Shanoony
Support for grandma's decision to help adopted daughter, concerns for granddaughter L.

daisycherryblossoms | daisycherryblossoms
Commenter empathizes with L's potential need for therapy 💆

DepressedDyslexic | DepressedDyslexic
Grandma praised for adopting granddaughter and supporting both daughters' college funds 👏

GeorgieH26 | GeorgieH26
How did S find her grandparents? Real or fake story? 🤔

Hrududu147 | Hrududu147
Adopted granddaughter's college fund causes family drama 🙄

saintofhate | saintofhate
Helping adopted granddaughter isn't discrimination, it's equity! 👏

asheshih | asheshih
Commenter is skeptical of the story, raises valid questions 🤔

coyacomehome | coyacomehome
NTA but OP should recognize the discomfort and try family therapy 👍

XxhumanguineapigxX | XxhumanguineapigxX
Discussion on high cost of US universities sparks shock and confusion 🤔

tabitalla | tabitalla
Adopted granddaughter's college fund causes tension. NAH, but complicated. 🤔

okravenhurst | okravenhurst
Commenter advises grandma to stop discussing money with L 😕

AdmirableJudgement | AdmirableJudgement
Adoptive grandmother praised for supporting both granddaughters 🙌

Santa_Hates_You | Santa_Hates_You
Commenter questions why grandparents didn't adopt from the start. Replies provide possible reasons and defend grandmother's actions. 🤔

thekingcola | thekingcola
Commenter and replies call out fake story, YTA.

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Generosity questioned, guilt blamed. NTA for helping in need. 🙏

sloanesvu | sloanesvu
Commenter questions legitimacy of adoption story 🤔

Oh-My-God-What | Oh-My-God-What
Accusation of fake post sparks no reply discussion 🤔

prana-llama | prana-llama
NTA for taking care of both daughters equally 👍

starrymidnights | starrymidnights
NTA grandma's favoritism causes emotional turmoil for adopted granddaughter.

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Adopted granddaughter's college fund causes family drama. NTA wins.

acendsley | acendsley
Adopted granddaughter vs biological granddaughter causes family conflict 🤔

MenArentThrowaway | MenArentThrowaway
Adopted granddaughter is daughter, NTA. Potential issue with favoritism.

diorswan | diorswan
Curious about how the granddaughter found out she was adopted 🤔

SuperDoofusParade | SuperDoofusParade
Fairness in family finances - NTA prioritizing need over equality 👍

mop-116 | mop-116
Adopted granddaughter not her responsibility. NTA 👍

SoToConclude | SoToConclude
Curious about the family dynamics and therapy recommendations 🤔

celitalaloca | celitalaloca
Adopted granddaughter receives equal treatment, NTA wins approval 👍

ThisIsHowIScroll | ThisIsHowIScroll
Sarcastic comment receives no replies, Reddit at its finest 🙄

Jackman1211 | Jackman1211
Grandma praised for adopting granddaughter, advised to talk to daughter-in-law.

PhantomNiffler | PhantomNiffler
Doubts arise over identity of adopted granddaughter. 🤔

MisterSouvlaki | MisterSouvlaki
Commenter suggests daughter needs therapy, NTA. Replies discuss possible guilt and trauma.

mjquitecontrary | mjquitecontrary
NTA for providing for adopted granddaughter. Family therapy could help.

JippityB | JippityB
Skeptical commenter calls out fake story with eye-roll emoji.

Truvlo | Truvlo
Grandma's decision to adopt granddaughter praised after foster abuse. NTA 👏

Joopsman | Joopsman
Grandma receives support for standing up to daughter's interference. 👏

rahr124 | rahr124
Adopted daughter, not granddaughter? NTA wins in this case 👏

EMF133 | EMF133
NTA commenter defends OP's decision to not give college fund to adopted granddaughter

ThreeRingShitshow | ThreeRingShitshow
NTA praised for kindness towards adopted granddaughter ❤

2Tosties1Poutine | 2Tosties1Poutine
NTA commenter defends grandma and adopted granddaughter against heartless daughter.

Scarboroughwarning | Scarboroughwarning
Adopted granddaughter not daughter, NTA for treating them equally 👍

deadlyhausfrau | deadlyhausfrau
Adopted granddaughter is now her daughter, NTA for favoring her 😊

Elvishgirl | Elvishgirl
Heartwarming comment section full of love and appreciation 💖

yamsforever | yamsforever
Conflicting information on other children's college funds sparks confusion 🤔

Justice_Prince | Justice_Prince
Grandma upset over adopted granddaughter's college fund. NTA wins 👏

carusgoat10 | carusgoat10
Fairness goes both ways in family dynamics 👨🏻🎤

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