Grandma Accused of Favoritism Over College Fund for Adopted Granddaughter 😲

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Family drama can be intense, especially when it comes to money and fairness. In this story, a mother (L) faces a challenging situation when her daughter she gave up for adoption (S) comes back into her life. S is adopted by her grandparents, who create a college fund for her, sparking outrage from L. Is this a case of favoritism or just a family trying to do what's best for everyone involved? Let's dive into the story and find out. 😮🍿

Daughter's Tough Decision 🤰

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Adopted Granddaughter Returns 😢

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Grandparents to the Rescue! 💪

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Treating S Like a Daughter ❤️

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College Fund Drama Erupts! 😡

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Mom's Accusations of Favoritism 🤬

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Fear of Resentment 😟

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Support System for S 🤗

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Edit: More Background Info 📝

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Favoritism or Just Fair? 🤔

This family drama has everyone questioning if the grandparents are showing favoritism towards their adopted granddaughter, S, or if they're simply trying to provide her with the support she needs. L, the mother of S and her other children, accuses her parents of treating her kids unfairly by providing S with a college fund, while her other kids don't receive the same treatment. However, the grandparents argue that they're only trying to give S the support she needs, as she has no one else to rely on. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🧐💭

NTA for favoring adopted daughter's college fund over entitled daughter's

Shanoony | Shanoony

Support for grandma's decision to help adopted daughter, concerns for granddaughter L.

daisycherryblossoms | daisycherryblossoms

Commenter empathizes with L's potential need for therapy 💆

DepressedDyslexic | DepressedDyslexic

Grandma praised for adopting granddaughter and supporting both daughters' college funds 👏

GeorgieH26 | GeorgieH26

How did S find her grandparents? Real or fake story? 🤔

Hrududu147 | Hrududu147

Adopted granddaughter's college fund causes family drama 🙄

saintofhate | saintofhate

Helping adopted granddaughter isn't discrimination, it's equity! 👏

asheshih | asheshih

Commenter is skeptical of the story, raises valid questions 🤔

coyacomehome | coyacomehome

NTA but OP should recognize the discomfort and try family therapy 👍

XxhumanguineapigxX | XxhumanguineapigxX

Discussion on high cost of US universities sparks shock and confusion 🤔

tabitalla | tabitalla

Adopted granddaughter's college fund causes tension. NAH, but complicated. 🤔

okravenhurst | okravenhurst

Commenter advises grandma to stop discussing money with L 😕

AdmirableJudgement | AdmirableJudgement

Adoptive grandmother praised for supporting both granddaughters 🙌

Santa_Hates_You | Santa_Hates_You

Commenter questions why grandparents didn't adopt from the start. Replies provide possible reasons and defend grandmother's actions. 🤔

thekingcola | thekingcola

Commenter and replies call out fake story, YTA.

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Generosity questioned, guilt blamed. NTA for helping in need. 🙏

sloanesvu | sloanesvu

Commenter questions legitimacy of adoption story 🤔

Oh-My-God-What | Oh-My-God-What

Accusation of fake post sparks no reply discussion 🤔

prana-llama | prana-llama

NTA for taking care of both daughters equally 👍

starrymidnights | starrymidnights

NTA grandma's favoritism causes emotional turmoil for adopted granddaughter.

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Adopted granddaughter's college fund causes family drama. NTA wins.

acendsley | acendsley

Adopted granddaughter vs biological granddaughter causes family conflict 🤔

MenArentThrowaway | MenArentThrowaway

Adopted granddaughter is daughter, NTA. Potential issue with favoritism.

diorswan | diorswan

Curious about how the granddaughter found out she was adopted 🤔

SuperDoofusParade | SuperDoofusParade

Fairness in family finances - NTA prioritizing need over equality 👍

mop-116 | mop-116

Adopted granddaughter not her responsibility. NTA 👍

SoToConclude | SoToConclude

Curious about the family dynamics and therapy recommendations 🤔

celitalaloca | celitalaloca

Adopted granddaughter receives equal treatment, NTA wins approval 👍

ThisIsHowIScroll | ThisIsHowIScroll

Sarcastic comment receives no replies, Reddit at its finest 🙄

Jackman1211 | Jackman1211

Grandma praised for adopting granddaughter, advised to talk to daughter-in-law.

PhantomNiffler | PhantomNiffler

Doubts arise over identity of adopted granddaughter. 🤔

MisterSouvlaki | MisterSouvlaki

Commenter suggests daughter needs therapy, NTA. Replies discuss possible guilt and trauma.

mjquitecontrary | mjquitecontrary

NTA for providing for adopted granddaughter. Family therapy could help.

JippityB | JippityB

Skeptical commenter calls out fake story with eye-roll emoji.

Truvlo | Truvlo

Grandma's decision to adopt granddaughter praised after foster abuse. NTA 👏

Joopsman | Joopsman

Grandma receives support for standing up to daughter's interference. 👏

rahr124 | rahr124

Adopted daughter, not granddaughter? NTA wins in this case 👏

EMF133 | EMF133

NTA commenter defends OP's decision to not give college fund to adopted granddaughter

ThreeRingShitshow | ThreeRingShitshow

NTA praised for kindness towards adopted granddaughter ❤

2Tosties1Poutine | 2Tosties1Poutine

NTA commenter defends grandma and adopted granddaughter against heartless daughter.

Scarboroughwarning | Scarboroughwarning

Adopted granddaughter not daughter, NTA for treating them equally 👍

deadlyhausfrau | deadlyhausfrau

Adopted granddaughter is now her daughter, NTA for favoring her 😊

Elvishgirl | Elvishgirl

Heartwarming comment section full of love and appreciation 💖

yamsforever | yamsforever

Conflicting information on other children's college funds sparks confusion 🤔

Justice_Prince | Justice_Prince

Grandma upset over adopted granddaughter's college fund. NTA wins 👏

carusgoat10 | carusgoat10

Fairness goes both ways in family dynamics 👨🏻‍🎤

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