Moving into a new place can be exciting, but it can also come with some unexpected surprises. One couple recently found themselves in a bit of a pickle when they received a complaint letter from an anonymous neighbor. The couple, who moved into a condominium mostly populated by older residents, were accused of various disturbances. The letter even went as far as to comment on their intimate life! But are they really the noisy neighbors, or is this just a case of someone being overly sensitive? Let’s dive into the story and find out!
The Mysterious Letter

Neighbor’s Demands

Addressing the Accusations ️♀️

Workout Equipment? What Workout Equipment? ♀️

Kitchen Chair Drama

The Intimate Life Revelation

Tiptoeing Around? ♀️

Recent Home Improvements

Boyfriend’s Work Schedule

A Quiet Home Life

Carpet and Rug Situation

Shoeless and Workout-Free

The Anonymous Note ️♂️

To Ignore or Not to Ignore?

Are They Really the Noisy Neighbors? ️
So, there you have it! A couple who, by their account, seem to be living a pretty normal, quiet life, yet they’ve received a complaint letter from an anonymous neighbor. They’ve addressed each accusation, and it appears they’re not the noisy culprits the neighbor claims them to be. With no unit number on the note, they can’t even discuss the issue with the person who sent it! Should they ignore the letter and continue living their lives, or try to tiptoe around to appease the mystery neighbor? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Hand the note to the condo company and issue your complaint first

Predictable noise is easier to tolerate. NTA neighbor wins.

Neighbor leaves rude note, but NTA communicates with condo board

Commenters agree that the note is gross and inappropriate
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Living in a shared building means tolerating some noise

Neighbor’s aggressive tone makes NTA justified in being loud.

Noise complaints in shared spaces: Navigating apartment living
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OP’s defensiveness suggests ESH, but neighbor is definitely TA

Neighbor calls out YTA for being noisy and defensive

Being mindful of noise isn’t life-changing, just courteous

Neighbor’s passive-aggressive letter leads to tiptoeing around own place

Neighborly advice on noise control for a Gentle YTA

Neighbor calls out YTA for lack of consideration and noise

Neighbor complains about noise, but OP won’t alter their routine

Tips for being a considerate neighbor in an apartment complex

Neighbor complains, YTA should be more considerate. Cats’ noise level.

Couple receives noise complaint, considers ignoring it, but YTA if they do.

Neighbor complains about noise, suggests meeting to resolve issue

Neighbor complains unreasonably, leaves creepy note. NTA.

Living in an apartment with thin walls is tough

Neighbor complains about noise, comment advises being considerate

Neighbor complains about noise, but is it really their fault?
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Neighbor accuses couple of noise, but they’re innocent.

Neighbor gives helpful advice to noisy couple.

Neighbor feud escalates to ESH verdict, no mindfulness shown

Living in a condo/apartment can be tough. NTA suggests ignoring wack jobs and sending a copy to the condo association

Neighbor complains about noise, calls OP YTA.

Neighbor complains, Redditor declares NTA, blames horny writer

Neighbor accuses commenter of noise, but they’re innocent

Neighbor calls out loud couple, YTA, excuses fall flat
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Downstairs neighbor can distinguish between genuine pleasure and fake sex sounds

Empathy is key, don’t be a YTA towards harassed neighbors

Commenter calls out both parties and suggests a solution. ESH

Empathetic suggestion for noisy neighbors sparks no replies.

Neighbor complains about noisy kids, parent shares soundproofing plan

Commenter called out as YTA, no replies.

Neighbor’s creepy note about sex led to harassment and threats
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Neighbor suggests small changes to reduce noise levels.

Neighbor noise complaints can be frustrating, but NTA in this case

Commenter calls out OP for being stubborn and dismissive

Neighbor accuses couple of being noisy in hilarious complaint letter

Neighbor calls out OP for being inconsiderate and immature

Neighborly noise complaints: NTA’s experience with communal living

Living in apartments can be tough , but OP is NTA and empathetic

Commenter calls out OP for being an a**hole neighbor

Neighbor complains about noise, commenter suggests easy fix with emojis

Neighbors complain about noise, suggest lifestyle changes. ESH.

Neighbor calls out YTA couple in hilarious complaint letter

Neighbor’s grammatical error saves couple from complaint letter threat

Carpets are the decent neighborly thing to do.

Valid point about AITA posts and the importance of validation

Doubting the truth? Let’s see the evidence.

Barefoot vs shoes debate sparks cultural clash

Invite noisy neighbors to discuss issue to avoid life ruining consequences

Neighbor’s complaint about moving chairs in the kitchen

Being considerate of neighbors in thin-walled apartments is important

Living in a poorly insulated condo can be tough

NTA, but proactively inform landlord to avoid future conflicts

Living in a poorly built building can be a nightmare

️♀️ Commenter’s analysis suggests writer of letter is likely female. NTA.

Living in an apartment with thin walls: the struggles

Neighbor accuses commenter of partying, but they were innocent

Neighbor conflict escalates to dangerous retaliation
