Brother Kicked Out While Trying to See Wife: Who's the Real Culprit? 😲

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Diply | Diply

Family drama is never easy, but when it involves a brother, his wife, and a sister caught in the middle, things can get pretty heated. 😓 Our protagonist, a 26-year-old woman, has had a rocky relationship with her brother due to past issues. Despite this, she's maintained a good relationship with his wife, who recently suffered a miscarriage. 💔 When the wife showed up at her doorstep, distraught and asking for a place to stay, our protagonist welcomed her with open arms. But things took a turn when the brother showed up, demanding to see his wife... 🚪

The Sister's Dilemma

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The Wife's Struggles

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Tragedy Strikes

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Seeking Refuge

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Supporting the Wife

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No Contact

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The Brother's Arrival

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Heated Confrontation

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Standing Her Ground

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Ultimatum

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Family's Accusations

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Defending Her Actions

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Caught in the Middle: Sister's Dilemma Sparks Family Outrage 😠

Our protagonist found herself in a tough spot when her brother's wife sought refuge at her home after a devastating miscarriage and a heated argument with her husband. 😢 Despite the wife's request for no contact with her husband, the brother showed up, demanding to see her. Our protagonist stood her ground, refusing to let him in and threatening to call the police if he didn't leave. 🚔 This led to a family uproar, with accusations of meddling and driving a wedge between the couple. But was she just trying to respect her sister-in-law's wishes and provide support during a difficult time? 🤷 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

Protecting SIL from abusive brother: NTA, family are AHs 👎

Skippy2716 | Skippy2716

Family drama and control issues lead to estrangement and lies 😭

Only_Asparagus | Only_Asparagus

Supporting sister calls out brother's ego, defends sister-in-law 👏

hello_friendss | hello_friendss

OP defends SIL from emotionally abusive husband, family is unsupportive. NTA 👍

Pablois4 | Pablois4

Respect SIL's wishes and NTA for setting boundaries. 👏

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Defending brother's wife, commenter receives NTA verdict and support 👍

Throwawayskrskr | Throwawayskrskr

NTA stands up to toxic family dynamics 💪

VatoD92 | VatoD92

Respecting SIL's wishes: NTA has every right to intervene 👏

JudgeJed100 | JudgeJed100

NTA for protecting SIL from abusive brother. Heartbreaking backstory revealed 😢

tidal_dragon | tidal_dragon

Supporting a sister-in-law: NTA helps out despite family drama. 🙌

Portie_lover | Portie_lover

Don't engage with enablers. Use social media to locate sister. 👍

squirrelsareevil2479 | squirrelsareevil2479

Support for the victim, NTA comment gets sympathy 😢

Kreeblim | Kreeblim

Respecting SIL's wishes, OP limits contact with toxic brother. NTA 👍

Stup2plending | Stup2plending

Supportive comment encourages finding sister and going no contact with mom 👍

femme_enby | femme_enby

Protecting SIL from verbal abuse: NTA, hope you find peace 🙏

WeirdDragon01 | WeirdDragon01

SIL seeks refuge, brother barges in. NTA stands firm. 💪

Talathia | Talathia

Supporting family is never wrong 👭💛

DataAdvanced | DataAdvanced

Being a supportive sister-in-law is commendable 👏, brother's behavior unacceptable 👎. NTA.

Neko_09 | Neko_09

Supportive comment on respecting boundaries and being an ally 👏

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NTA dealing with abusive family, brother blames sister for miscarriage 🤯

butternutsquash300 | butternutsquash300

Taking charge and standing your ground: NTA 💪

Pain-n-stryife | Pain-n-stryife

Don't let entitled family members bully you. NTA 💪

WitchofKarma | WitchofKarma

Property rights upheld, family drama ensues. NTA 👍

Little-bit_ | Little-bit_

OP's brother treated their sister poorly and lied to her. 🤔

primeirofilho | primeirofilho

NTA. Brother's actions are inexcusable. Cut him off. 👍

waluigideeznuts | waluigideeznuts

Sister-in-law seeks refuge, brother not welcome. NTA wins 👏

Responsible_Hope_831 | Responsible_Hope_831

Mother should respect DIL's wishes and expect better from son 👍

gevander2 | gevander2

NTA. Brother's behavior towards wife and sister is inexcusable. Cut contact.

painkilleraddict6373 | painkilleraddict6373

Supporting a survivor of abuse, you're a hero! 👏

PM_ME_LASAGNA_ | PM_ME_LASAGNA_

Protective SIL stands up for sister-in-law, calls out entitled brother 💪

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

Setting boundaries with family: NTA for not letting brother in 🙌

Kalenek | Kalenek

Standing up to a bully brother and searching for sister 👏

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Protective sibling stands up against abusive brother 💪

tnichols14 | tnichols14

NTA suggests helping SIL leave abusive relationship, cutting off brother and mom.

moonlitcat13 | moonlitcat13

Brother may be responsible for SIL's miscarriages due to stress 😱

Snugg_Bugg | Snugg_Bugg

Family drama: NTA stands up for SIL's wishes 🙏

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

Being a safe haven for family is something to be proud of 👏

skywalkera420 | skywalkera420

Verbal abuse is never okay. NTA for suggesting divorce. 👍

xshainax | xshainax

Is the brother an abuser? Private investigator for sister? 🤔

Slach31 | Slach31

NTA commenter condemns brother's abusive behavior towards sister-in-law 🔥

RandomShinyScorbunny | RandomShinyScorbunny

Respecting boundaries is key. NTA for giving space 👍

7ratsinatrenchcoat | 7ratsinatrenchcoat

Supportive comment section with praise for OP's actions 👏

Scribb74 | Scribb74

Commenter not at fault, but what about the brother? 🤔

TheDoNothings | TheDoNothings

👍 Commended for helping vulnerable woman. NTA.

FMIEB | FMIEB

NTA, but who's the real culprit? 🤔

KingDarius89 | KingDarius89

SIL's husband kicked out, OP protected her. NTA 👏

FlashpointJ24 | FlashpointJ24

Brother's controlling behavior raises concern for SIL's safety. NTA.

Illustrious-Band-537 | Illustrious-Band-537

Respecting wife's wishes, brother NTA for trying to visit. 👍

littenwastaken | littenwastaken

Protecting family can be risky, but NTA for standing up 💪

sunnybunny12692 | sunnybunny12692

Protecting abused SIL, no family support. NTA, stay strong. 👏

PerfectedReinvented | PerfectedReinvented

Brother tries to control everything, NTA provides safe haven 👍

MamaFen | MamaFen

Respectful brother supports sister-in-law, condemns brother's behavior. 👍

ChrissyKittyCat | ChrissyKittyCat

Curiosity peaks over younger sister's story amidst NTA judgement 🤔

Stalders1 | Stalders1

Family blames sister for abuse, commenter advises helping SIL leave. 🔥

The-Blue-Bard | The-Blue-Bard

Defending family, OP helps SIL. NTA, haters back off! 💪

kaaybaaybaay | kaaybaaybaay

Respecting sister-in-law's wishes, OP protects her from toxic brother. 💪

Tanzanite-Zircon | Tanzanite-Zircon

Defending against abuse: NTA comment calls out bystanders' excuses. 💪

JauntyChapeau | JauntyChapeau

Breaking the cycle of blaming women. NTA wins 👏

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Enabling abuse? Family dilemma sparks NTA verdict. 🤔

MurkyDetective6020 | MurkyDetective6020

When no contact is the answer 👍

NoeticSkeptic | NoeticSkeptic

Protecting a potential victim from a potential abuser. 🙏

Beneficial-Soft-3492 | Beneficial-Soft-3492

Defending a victim against a crazy family. 😱

ShadyBookDealer | ShadyBookDealer

NTA for providing care to a distraught woman. Family dynamics dysfunctional. 😔

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Defending a woman's agency against outdated family values 💪

JI2A | JI2A

NTA defends SIL after abusive brother blames her for miscarriage 🔥

benicetoyourkids | benicetoyourkids

Commenter defends homeowner's right to privacy with fiery language.

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Family's messed up, brother's abusive & controlling. You did right.

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NTA for protecting SIL from brother, who needs to respect boundaries. 👏

ImFinePleaseThanks | ImFinePleaseThanks

NTA. Supportive comment suggests going NC with abusive family. 👍

wanderlustlost | wanderlustlost

Setting boundaries with abusive family member. NTA 👍

DelightfulAbsurdity | DelightfulAbsurdity

Protecting sister-in-law from abusive brother, NTA and morally right. 👍

TheDevilsAdvokaat | TheDevilsAdvokaat

Marriage doesn't grant rights to sex or in-laws' homes. NTA 👍

dragon34 | dragon34

Helpful resource suggested for SIL's situation 👍

2catsaretheminimum | 2catsaretheminimum

Respect her boundaries and tell your mom to back off 👍

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

Being a supportive SIL is not a crime. NTA 👍

pixelated__pixie | pixelated__pixie

Supporting SIL against abusive brother in toxic family 👏

OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000

Standing up to an abuser and getting her therapy 💪

FirebirdWriter | FirebirdWriter

Respecting SIL's wishes, protecting her mental health. NTA 👍

Effective-Penalty | Effective-Penalty

SIL didn't want to see him, NTA made sure she wouldn't. 😎

TheIdealisticCynic | TheIdealisticCynic

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