Imagine having a gut feeling about your best friend's husband, and then one day, he makes a pass at you. That's precisely what happened to our 31-year-old protagonist. She had always felt something was off about her friend's husband but never said anything. However, when he started sending flirty messages, she knew she had to tell her friend. But when she did, she was shocked by her friend's reaction. 😳 Let's dive into the story!
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Longtime Best Friends 👭
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The Off Husband 😒
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Social Media Connections 📱
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The Unwanted Pass 😳
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Disgusted and Confronting 🤬
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Backtracking and Begging 😓
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Saving the Evidence 📸
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Breaking the News 💔
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Unexpected Reaction 😨
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Blaming the Messenger 😡
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Defending Herself 🛡️
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Raising Concerns 🚩
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Angry and Silent 🤐
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Hoping for the Best 🙏
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Friendship on the Line? 😢
Our protagonist's best friend got upset with *her* after revealing the husband's flirty messages. Instead of being grateful, the friend accused her of leading him on. Now, the friendship hangs in the balance, with the friend giving her the silent treatment. 😔 Will their bond survive this betrayal? Let's see what the internet thinks...
NTA. Friend in denial, OP did right thing, give space 🙏
fredo3469 | fredo3469
NTA for telling friend about husband's flirting, but friendship may end.
MouthwashAndBandaids | MouthwashAndBandaids
Commenters share personal experiences of similar situations and societal pressures.
ResponsibilityNo3245 | ResponsibilityNo3245
BFF may have been in denial, but now she deserves truth 👍
Emotional_Fan_7011 | Emotional_Fan_7011
Friend's husband has a history of flirting and gaslighting. NTA.
Regina_Phalange31 | Regina_Phalange31
Supportive reply to OP's situation with relatable personal experience. ❤️
pfashby | pfashby
Women share stories of being blamed for friends' cheating partners 🤷♀️
slumberingGnome | slumberingGnome
NTA, but friend's reaction understandable. Don't shame women. 👍
jlmemb27 | jlmemb27
Trying to help a friend, but she needs to see reality 🙏
berrywarrior | berrywarrior
Don't blame the victim! NTA shuts down slut-shaming comment.
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You go, NTA! 👏🏻
Kitchen-Ad5250 | Kitchen-Ad5250
NTA. Friends often blame the messenger for cheating partners. 🤷♀️ But speak up anyway to potentially save them from harm. 👍
mcclgwe | mcclgwe
Being blamed for telling the truth? Happens all the time. 😔
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Friendship in jeopardy as husband's blame is misplaced. 😕
Comprehensive-Hand60 | Comprehensive-Hand60
Friend chose husband over BFF, red flag on his part 😔
sugarypi3 | sugarypi3
Friend's husband's infidelity puts strain on friendship. NTA.
LaoPower | LaoPower
Supportive comment on friend's situation, hopeful for reconciliation 🙏
Sufficient_Bread1205 | Sufficient_Bread1205
Betrayed but blamed: NTA comment gets real 😕
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Commenter is clearly not the a**hole 👏
anime_potatoe24 | anime_potatoe24
NTA. Friend's defensive reaction not about you, but their relationship. 🙏
Odd_Organization9100 | Odd_Organization9100
Supportive comment gets straight to the point. 👍
Prestigious_Isopod72 | Prestigious_Isopod72
NTA, but be prepared for potential friendship fallout. 🤷♀️
IKnowFewThings | IKnowFewThings
Honesty is the best policy, even if it's uncomfortable 😊
Intelligent_Stop5564 | Intelligent_Stop5564
Doing the right thing can be tough 😢
juiceboxfriend95 | juiceboxfriend95
Telling your best friend her husband is flirting: a lose-lose 🤷♀️ situation
ghostofastorm | ghostofastorm
NTA for telling truth, friend may regret not listening later 🤷♀️
GardenDivaESQ | GardenDivaESQ
NTA! Short and sweet, you're not the a**hole 👍
kelsandcats | kelsandcats
Calling out a friend's creepy husband, hoping for understanding 🙏
Proscuitto1 | Proscuitto1
NTA did the right thing, friend in denial, AH husband.
Longjumping_Donut790 | Longjumping_Donut790
You go, NTA! 💯
AshlandSouth | AshlandSouth
Don't blame the friend for the husband's actions. 🙄
No_one1016 | No_one1016
Ignoring the truth won't make it disappear. 🤔
Ducky818 | Ducky818
Defending against false accusations of leading on a friend's husband 😡
shenanigansco34 | shenanigansco34
NTA, but friend may block you. Gaslighting husband may cheat again.
Nobody_Wins_13 | Nobody_Wins_13
You go, NTA! 👏
anaisaknits | anaisaknits
Best friend's husband hits on friend, she's not to blame 🙏
Emloiv98 | Emloiv98
Wife's friend's husband hits on her, gets dropped by Krav Maga.
DonZeitgeist | DonZeitgeist
Don't blame the victim! NTA for exposing cheating husband. 💪
Credible333 | Credible333
Blaming others for his lack of control. 🤦♂️
SnapesGrayUnderpants | SnapesGrayUnderpants
Offer support, avoid anger, and wait for friend's realization. 🙏
curious_writer13 | curious_writer13
Being the messenger of infidelity is never easy 😢
Valkyr1e_R1s1ng | Valkyr1e_R1s1ng
Being blamed for friend's husband's flirting? NTA, you're a good friend 😊
ringringbananarchy00 | ringringbananarchy00
Helping a friend in need can come at a cost 😢
RedhandjillNA | RedhandjillNA
Spicy theory! 🤭
Lead-Forsaken | Lead-Forsaken
Commenter blames men for ruining friendships, calls out double standards 👏
ObviousArt7432 | ObviousArt7432
Friend's husband flirts, commenter advises pulling back from friendship.
LivSaJo | LivSaJo
Commenter is not the a**hole, but what happened? 🤔
livin4fun78 | livin4fun78
Women often face blame for men's actions. NTA, but friendship over 😕
MoSweetPotato | MoSweetPotato
Defending oneself against blame-shifting and gaslighting. 💪
PokemonPadawan | PokemonPadawan
Friend's husband flirts, friend blames you. Clear evidence ignored. NTA 💯
piemakerdeadwaker | piemakerdeadwaker
Don't blame the woman hit on, blame the cheater. 👏
RavenBlueEyes84 | RavenBlueEyes84
Supportive comment receives no replies, but offers hope 😊
Sad-Concert3258 | Sad-Concert3258
Honesty isn't always the best policy, friendship over 😞
CarterPFly | CarterPFly
Supportive comment and hope for reconciliation with friend 🙏
capriciouskat01 | capriciouskat01
Misplaced anger and internalized misogyny? This comment is spicy! 🔥
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Good friend waits for inkling wife to realize husband's creepiness 😐
Secret_shopper21 | Secret_shopper21
Speaking the truth can be risky, even when you're right 🤷♀️
Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes
Supportive comment advises giving friend space to process husband's behavior 👍
otomekaidii | otomekaidii
NTA for telling friend about husband's pass, potential abuse suspected 👍
Fluffy_Lunatic | Fluffy_Lunatic
Supportive comment predicts vindication and urges STD testing. 👍
BigBicNic | BigBicNic
Stay out of it, let her learn the hard way 🙈
Friendly_Tangelo1197 | Friendly_Tangelo1197
Friend in denial, NTA for telling her. Take a step back. 👍
Miss_Melody_Pond | Miss_Melody_Pond
Supportive advice to tell friend about husband's behavior. 👍
CozmicOwl16 | CozmicOwl16
Friend's anger misplaced, blamed messenger for husband's affair 😔
thejexorcist | thejexorcist
Speaking up can cost friendships. NTA, but be prepared. 😢
PrestigiousAd3081 | PrestigiousAd3081
NTA, but be prepared to lose a friend. 😔
mrsgip | mrsgip
Showing the messages was right, but friendship might be over 😞
Head_Photograph9572 | Head_Photograph9572
Supportive NTA advises giving friend time to come around 🙌
anneofred | anneofred
Commenter suspects husband's behavior isn't new, advises giving space 🤔
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Supportive comment, NTA verdict. Friend needs time to cool off. 👍
UnusGang | UnusGang
Commenter is not the a**hole, but what happened? 🤔
BeneficialHurry8644 | BeneficialHurry8644