Imagine being in a relationship where you both agree not to have kids, only for your partner to discover you were once a surrogate for your sister. 😮 That's what happened to a 28-year-old woman who has been dating her 29-year-old boyfriend for over two and a half years. She never thought it was necessary to disclose her past surrogacy, but a family visit and some old photos brought the truth to light. 💥 Now, her boyfriend feels betrayed and wonders why she won't consider having a child with him. 🤔 Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster. 🎢
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This woman thought she was doing the right thing by being a surrogate for her sister, but her boyfriend feels hurt and betrayed by her secret. 😔 She never thought it was necessary to disclose her past surrogacy, as it happened before they were together. However, her boyfriend can't help but feel it's unfair that she was willing to carry a child for her sister but won't consider having one with him. 😞 Is she in the wrong for not telling him, or is he overreacting? 🤔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐
NTA for being a surrogate, boyfriend is TA for reaction 😒
Flyhro | Flyhro
NTA. BF wants kids, find someone who doesn't. 👍
Internal_Set_6564 | Internal_Set_6564
Debate over boyfriend's intentions on having kids. 🤔
unjessicabiel_evable | unjessicabiel_evable
Confusion over surrogacy laws sparks debate among commenters 🤔
Ducky818 | Ducky818
ESH situation, but keeping a surrogacy secret for 2.5 yrs? 🤷🏻♀️
Queen_Sized_Beauty | Queen_Sized_Beauty
Woman's selfless act for sister leads to relationship fallout 😢
Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113
Woman criticized for not telling SO she was a surrogate 🤔
TheBreadToYourPigeon | TheBreadToYourPigeon
Woman clarifies surrogate process to boyfriend, NTA 👏
DrippyMagoo | DrippyMagoo
Hiding surrogate secret for 2.5 years is a dealbreaker. YTA 🤷♀️
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NTA and ESH at the same time. Lack of communication.
The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver
Boyfriend overreacts to surrogate secret, but communication is key 👍
Indusnm | Indusnm
Hiding being a surrogate from your partner for 2.5 years? YTA 🤪
statman007 | statman007
Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for not having them 👏
Sloppypoopypoppy | Sloppypoopypoppy
Body autonomy and false equivalence addressed in supportive NTA comment 👏
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BF made a concession but was shocked and reacted emotionally 😕
tacoguy2020 | tacoguy2020
Hiding surrogacy past for 2.5 years? YTA according to comment
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Not disclosing surrogacy to long-term partner makes YTA 😕
shushupbuttercup | shushupbuttercup
Partner's desire for kids is a red flag 🚨
floydfan | floydfan
ESH: She should have shared it earlier, he overreacted.
PurpleOctopuseses | PurpleOctopuseses
End it. 🚪 He resents your choice not to have kids.
IAmTAAlways | IAmTAAlways
Clear communication and honesty in relationships is crucial ❤
Sloppypoopypoppy | Sloppypoopypoppy
Stick to your guns, NTA. 💪
DaysOfRoses | DaysOfRoses
Past is past. NTA for keeping it to yourself 😊
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NTA, but revealing the truth would have been better 😐
SomeKindofName42 | SomeKindofName42
Surrogate stands up for herself and shuts down boyfriend 💪
Rudoku-dakka | Rudoku-dakka
Debate over communication and disclosure in relationship 👉 YTA
sirsighsalot1 | sirsighsalot1
Woman stands up for herself in surrogate decision. NTA 👏
divingrose77101 | divingrose77101
Partner of 2 years shocked by surrogate secret. YTA 😑
g-dragon | g-dragon
Be upfront about deal breakers to avoid future heartbreaks. 💔
RosesBrain | RosesBrain
ESH verdict due to lack of communication, but he's mostly TA 😑
Writeloves | Writeloves
🤥 Accusation of fake story sparks no response from commenters.
MomsSpecialFriend | MomsSpecialFriend
Trust issues arise after surrogate conceals child from boyfriend 🤔
Lord_Sotheary | Lord_Sotheary
Surrogacy doesn't make you a parent. NTA 👍
snortsrainbows | snortsrainbows
Couple disagrees on kids, but OP's surrogate past is secret 🤷♀️
dfjdejulio | dfjdejulio
Hiding surrogacy from partner? YTA and relationship doomed 🤷♀️
SurfingDumbledore | SurfingDumbledore
Boyfriend's mistake leads to shocking surrogate secret 😲
Ian-igmatic | Ian-igmatic
Debate over ESH vs NTA for surrogate secret, sperm donors
cheezeedoodlez | cheezeedoodlez
Surrogate secret causes relationship rift. ESH for communication breakdown.
noccie | noccie
Double standards in sperm donation - N.T.A. vote surprising 🤔
Ok-Acanthaceae5744 | Ok-Acanthaceae5744
Surrogate mom not at fault, but relationship may be doomed 😔
YourMoonWife | YourMoonWife
Surrogacy education needed! Boyfriend confused about parenting roles. NTA.
canuck_2022 | canuck_2022
Relationship doomed as both partners resent each other. 😔
DismalDally | DismalDally
Surrogate secret causes conflict, OP is YTA for not telling.
anon384930 | anon384930
Her boyfriend deserves a heads up before seeing pregnancy pics 😳
RoyIbex | RoyIbex
Clear judgement, no a-hole here. 👍
TotalImmortal82 | TotalImmortal82
Surrogacy rules vary by country, but exceptions exist 🤔
black_rose_ | black_rose_
Boyfriend not on board with no child plan 😕
Easy-Concentrate2636 | Easy-Concentrate2636
Relationship advice: Be honest about major life decisions 💌
Agitated_Cheek4890 | Agitated_Cheek4890
Consider ending relationship if you have different views on kids 😔
MageVicky | MageVicky
Communication is key! ESH should have been upfront 📞
cannonballBaloo | cannonballBaloo
Partner kept surrogacy a secret for 2 years, YTA verdict
BootlegJB | BootlegJB
Partner wants kids, but not the a**hole for past surrogacy.
Crazyhellga | Crazyhellga
Miscommunication or deception? YTA for not being clear 🤔
Regular-Scallion4266 | Regular-Scallion4266
Surrogate reveals secret to boyfriend, both adjusting to new information 😐
SceneNational6303 | SceneNational6303
Partner's lie about wanting kids can ruin relationships 😔
Village_Green_Badger | Village_Green_Badger
NTA for being a surrogate, but relationship may be in trouble 😓
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Break up with him, you're not just an incubator 🙌
DontBeHastey | DontBeHastey
Time to say goodbye? NTA for not wanting children 👍
pink4pink | pink4pink
Surrogate bombshell shocks boyfriend, but NTA for keeping secret 🤪
ChipChippersonFan | ChipChippersonFan
User shares personal experience and warns of potential red flags 🚨
PsilosirenRose | PsilosirenRose
Surrogate's actions justified, like donating blood or a kidney. 👍
kittylikker_ | kittylikker_
Surrogate secret shocks boyfriend, but commenter supports OP. NTA 👏
justanordinarymuggle | justanordinarymuggle
Surrogate secret leads to ESH judgement and relationship struggles 🤷♀️
AmberWaves80 | AmberWaves80
Surrogate's secrecy backfires, commenters question her foresight 🤔
StilltheoneNY | StilltheoneNY
