Imagine spending a cozy Christmas week with your family at a cabin, only to find yourself taking care of not just your own kids, but your boyfriend's child as well. This 27-year-old mom of three has had enough and decided to confront her 28-year-old boyfriend for not stepping up as a dad. She's been handling all the responsibilities, from baking cookies to making hot cocoa, while he's been too busy playing with his new toys. But when she finally calls him out, he accuses her of being an a**hole. Did she cross the line, or is she just trying to make him see the light? Let's dive into the story. 🍿👀
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Mom vs. Lazy Boyfriend: Who's in the Wrong? 🥊
This mom of three is fed up with her boyfriend's lack of involvement with his own daughter during their family Christmas vacation. She's been taking care of all the kids, while he's been too busy playing with his new toys. When she finally confronts him, he accuses her of being an a**hole and holding his child against him. Was she wrong for calling him out, or is he just refusing to see the truth? 🤷♀️ Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...
NTA. Commenters agree that the boyfriend is lazy and manipulative. 🤔
poopnbuttyay | poopnbuttyay
Stepmom and others warn OP to leave lazy, manipulative boyfriend. 👍
greenbean999 | greenbean999
Step up or step out: Commenters agree he's a deadbeat 👎
benfranklin-katniss | benfranklin-katniss
NTA comment suggests lazy boyfriend is not stepping up as dad 🙄
AloysiusAlgaliarept | AloysiusAlgaliarept
Lazy boyfriend expects partner to do all the childcare and chores. 😑
milee30 | milee30
Lazy boyfriend won't step up as a dad. NTA's future in doubt 🤷♀️
idk1234455 | idk1234455
Being a great step-parent deserves appreciation 👏
expfcgaultheria | expfcgaultheria
Think twice before settling down with a lazy partner 🤔
teresajs | teresajs
Commenter offers advice and warns about 'Disney Dads' 🤔
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NTA calls out lazy boyfriend's poor parenting skills 😤
madmismka | madmismka
Lazy boyfriend wants you to do all the parenting work. 🤪
FlashingAppleby | FlashingAppleby
Parenting isn't a one-person job 👨👩👤, but some need a nudge.
IcyEmployee5 | IcyEmployee5
Lazy boyfriend gaslights mom for calling out his dad duties 😒
Fleegle2212 | Fleegle2212
Dating for 8 months, weekend sleepovers, and already seeing red flags 😬
SubliminationStation | SubliminationStation
Ex's behavior a red flag? NTA for expecting more. 🙄
kdnbernier | kdnbernier
Lazy boyfriend neglects his daughter, NTA for calling him out 👏
Sad_Responsibility93 | Sad_Responsibility93
Don't ignore the red flags 🚨, move on sis! 👏
enterpursuingabear | enterpursuingabear
Lazy boyfriend resents his daughter, NTA for considering leaving him. 👏
Musiclovinfox | Musiclovinfox
Dump the deadbeat! 🚮 He's shown his true colors.
MsGinErso | MsGinErso
Commenter calls out lazy boyfriend for not stepping up as dad 😤
SoManyWhippets | SoManyWhippets
Escape the toxicity 💔 Kids deserve better too 👨👩👧👦
justlookingrn2 | justlookingrn2
Partner or nanny? NTA calls out boyfriend's parenting role 🤔
Left_Nectarine_2261 | Left_Nectarine_2261
Heartbreaking story of a neglected child and absent father. 😢
SilentSiren39 | SilentSiren39
NTA, parenting should be equal. 🙌🏼
gotta_love_plato | gotta_love_plato
Don't let him manipulate you. You deserve better. 👏
amjay8 | amjay8
Boyfriend accused of being a crap father, responds defensively. NTA.
5pinktoes | 5pinktoes
NTA commenter advises to dump the lazy boyfriend. 👋
OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000
Take space from lazy boyfriend? NTA says it's a good idea 😑
Khanover7 | Khanover7
Boyfriend's laziness and sexism exposed. NTA for setting boundaries. 👏
Cats-Dramatic | Cats-Dramatic
Lazy boyfriend neglects own child, unlikely to be good stepfather. 😔
Twirdman | Twirdman
BF wants a 'bangmaid'? NTA for saying no 😑
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Don't settle for a lazy partner. You deserve better 💪
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Boyfriend unwilling to listen to valid criticism 🤔
julskrsslr | julskrsslr
Actions speak louder than words. Trust his actions, not promises. 👍
Roadgoddess | Roadgoddess
Boyfriend doesn't like kids, focus on your own instead 🙄
secondateleventh | secondateleventh
Lazy boyfriend seeks mommy, not partner. 😒
FollowThisNutter | FollowThisNutter
NTA suggests ditching lazy boyfriend and befriending kid's mother 🙄
fozzy_de | fozzy_de
Mom calls out lazy boyfriend for not being a dad 😤
abcwva | abcwva
Savage advice sparks no response from comment section 🤷♂️
SpiritedSoul | SpiritedSoul
Creative solution to lazy boyfriend problem. 🤷♀️
HoomanGroovin | HoomanGroovin
Breaking up with lazy boyfriend, keeping friends with family ♡
melodicatrident | melodicatrident
Ouch! Sounds like he messed up big time. 🤨
bird351167 | bird351167
Selfish boyfriend twists clear message. NTA stands her ground. 😠
dystopianpirate | dystopianpirate
Don't let a narcissist derail the conversation. Stay firm. 🙌
merchillio | merchillio
Pushing a partner to be a better parent is NTA 👍
Sinthyasofia | Sinthyasofia
Dump him! 💔 NTA deserves better than an unappreciative partner.
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Mom calls out lazy boyfriend for not stepping up as dad 😠
just-peepin-at-u | just-peepin-at-u
👍 NTA comment gets straight to the point about deadbeat boyfriend
badboringusername | badboringusername
Commenter gets support for calling out lazy boyfriend 👏
notthrowaway42069 | notthrowaway42069
Commenter calls out lazy boyfriend's bad parenting, harshly criticizes OP.
Neravariine | Neravariine
Commenter warns about lazy boyfriend's future parenting abilities. 😔
ebwoods1 | ebwoods1
Lazy boyfriend wants someone else to parent his kid. NTA.
DeshaMustFly | DeshaMustFly
Lazy boyfriend not helping with kids? NTA, call him out! 🙌
bizianka | bizianka
Deadbeat boyfriend expects woman to parent, NTA for leaving. 👏
CopsaLau | CopsaLau
Lazy boyfriend neglects his own child and accuses partner of it 😒
ViolaVetch75 | ViolaVetch75
Lazy boyfriend twisting words? NTA mom needs better partner 🤮
Bangbangsmashsmash | Bangbangsmashsmash
NTA suggests telling mother if they break up to avoid blame.
CJsopinion | CJsopinion
Future single parent? NTA calls out lazy boyfriend. 😔
bounce-bounce-run | bounce-bounce-run
🚩 Lazy boyfriend wants free babysitter, not a parent. 🤔
ButteredGrits | ButteredGrits
Ex-wife knew it first, lazy boyfriend seeks mom not partner. 🤷🏻♀️
Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964
Boyfriend acting like a nanny? NTA calls him out. 😍
jmc259 | jmc259
Savage reply to a lazy boyfriend, but hilarious 😂
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