Imagine having a fiancé who conducts secret 'tests' on your children to evaluate their behavior. One mom found herself in this exact situation when her fiancé, a 40-year-old teacher, started playing mind games with her kids from a previous marriage. He believes they lack discipline and has taken it upon himself to teach them a lesson. But when one of his bizarre tests goes awry, the mom is left questioning if she's an enabler or if her fiancé has gone too far. 😕💔
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Mom vs. Fiancé: Who's Right? 🤷♀️
Caught in a battle between her fiancé's bizarre disciplinary tactics and her son's questionable actions, this mom is left wondering if she's enabling bad behavior or if her fiancé is taking things too far. With the fiancé threatening to not tolerate dishonesty under his roof, the stakes are high. Is she right to stand up for her son, or should she let her fiancé's punishment stand? Let's dive into the internet's top responses to this tricky situation... 🧐💬
Commenter and replies condemn emotional abuse of children by fiance. 😱
Standard-Park | Standard-Park
Fiancé's 'tests' for kids are manipulative and illegal. Dump him! 😠
CONTINUAR2 | CONTINUAR2
Fiancé's 'tests' are damaging, send him packing. 🚫
Misha2468 | Misha2468
Red flags raised by a teacher on manipulative 'tests' for kids. NTA.
BitiumRibbon | BitiumRibbon
Commenter and replies condemn enabler of child abuse. YTA.
Significant_Rule_855 | Significant_Rule_855
Commenter and reply agree: Dump the dangerous fiancé 💯
Minimum-Green5187 | Minimum-Green5187
Commenter calls out the OP for tolerating psychological abuse. 💔
SmallTownAttorney | SmallTownAttorney
Commenter calls fiancé a psycho, others agree on power dynamic.
Green1578 | Green1578
Traumatized commenter warns against fiancé's 'tests' on kids. 😱
mii_mo | mii_mo
Fiancé's cruel tests on kids, commenter calls him a 'jerkwad' 😠
Slight-Bar-534 | Slight-Bar-534
Commenter calls out psycho fiancé's power trip with kids. 😱
Zach_203 | Zach_203
Protect your kids, don't marry someone who tests them 😡
Clean_Equipment_5450 | Clean_Equipment_5450
🚩 Red flag alert: Commenter calls out abusive behavior 🚩
WaywardWytch00 | WaywardWytch00
Commenter calls out emotional abuse and manipulation, urges action. 😱
christina0001 | christina0001
Fiancé's 'tests' for kids are warning signs of future abuse. 🚩
SlinkyMalinky20 | SlinkyMalinky20
🚩 Beware of red flags: a controlling fiancé is not parent material.
thirdtryisthecharm | thirdtryisthecharm
Fiancé's mind games with kids: NTA seeks advice on handling it 💭
Minty_Green63 | Minty_Green63
Toxic 'tests' create unsafe home environment for kids. 😱
likeahike | likeahike
Fiancé's abusive 'tests' on kids condemned as deranged and sick 😠
Independent_Ad9670 | Independent_Ad9670
Sassy NTA comment throws shade at bizarre fiancé behavior 😎
Individual_Rest2300 | Individual_Rest2300
Fiancé's 'tests' for kids are entrapment, NTA should dump him 💔
dozing-dynamite | dozing-dynamite
Fiancé's 'virtue tests' on kids deemed abusive and hypocritical. NTA.
superflex | superflex
Protect your kids! 😲 Don't marry this person. 👏
mrslII | mrslII
Protecting your kids from abuse: NTA, but don't enable it. 🚨
madelinegumbo | madelinegumbo
Protect your kids from abuse. NTA for refusing punishment. 🚨
loudent2 | loudent2
Fiancé's bizarre 'tests' for kids - is mom enabling him? 😬
HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366
Protect your children from your toxic fiancé. 🚫
Lolka24 | Lolka24
Dump the fiancee for the sake of the kids 😱
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Parent questions fiancé's bizarre tests on kids, declares NTA.
anonreddjt | anonreddjt
Fiancé's 'tests' are unhinged, and as a teacher, he should know better. #NTA 😲
karenna89 | karenna89
🚨 Red flag alert! Fiancé's 'tests' are abusive. Protect your kids.
No_Birthday_1620 | No_Birthday_1620
Fiancé's 'tests' for kids are sociopathic. OP NTA, fiancé is AH 😠
TommyAtomic | TommyAtomic
Commenter calls out enabler for subjecting kids to abuse 🔫
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Fiancé emotionally manipulates kids, both are assholes. 🤯
AshlynM2 | AshlynM2
Red flags everywhere! Don't marry him! 🚩
Batmomlovesyou | Batmomlovesyou
Don't marry someone who tests your kids like this 🙄
Saltynut99 | Saltynut99
Fiancé's disturbing mind games with kids - ESH verdict.
Samu_2020_15 | Samu_2020_15
Protect your kids from the AH fiancé. Get rid ASAP. 🚨
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Ex-fiancé's bizarre 'tests' raises red flags for commenter 🚩
wakeuptomorrow | wakeuptomorrow
Fiancé's 'tests' on kids called out as dishonest and shitty 😱
breathemusic14 | breathemusic14
Protect your kids from manipulative 'tests' 🚨
Smiler-48 | Smiler-48
Fiancé's 'tests' on kids prompt warning of future regret. 💔
Sirenaide | Sirenaide
🤔 Are the kids in a toxic environment? YTA for enabling.
ImposterSyndrome412 | ImposterSyndrome412
Protect your children from mind games. Don't marry him. 😲
SheiB123 | SheiB123
Fiancé's 'tests' for kids: NTA, but is he a creep? 🤷♀️
Swiss_Miss_77 | Swiss_Miss_77
🤔 Think twice before letting him around your kids. #YTA
Chiara985 | Chiara985
🚩 Red flag alert: Fiancé's manipulative behavior towards kids 👀
hutz201917 | hutz201917
🤔 Red flag alert! Is the fiancé exhibiting abusive behavior?
Scary_Contract_3603 | Scary_Contract_3603
Protect your kids! This guy sounds like a nightmare. 😱
Ok-Cockroach2351 | Ok-Cockroach2351
Ditch him! Entrapment is not okay. #NTA 🚫
Forsaken-Volume-2249 | Forsaken-Volume-2249
Fiancé's bizarre 'tests' for kids called out for being unhealthy 🤔
AmInATizzy | AmInATizzy
User warns of fiance's behavior towards kids, advises to reconsider relationship. 😱
haillordvecna | haillordvecna
🚨 YTA's partner abuses children, why stay? 😡
1209saska | 1209saska
🚩 Red flag alert: 'Don't marry him!'
Jethrothemutant | Jethrothemutant
Protect your kids! End the engagement and show him out. 🚨
Paevatar | Paevatar
Fiancé's manipulative 'tests' exposed as lies, NTA for leaving 👏
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Red flags everywhere! Leave this abusive, manipulative partner. 🚨
Particular-Set5396 | Particular-Set5396
Protect your kids, kick out the abuser 💪
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Commenter calls out fiancé's bizarre tests and suggests therapy ☠️
stoney2723 | stoney2723
NTA commenter urges dumping 'Machievellian emotional sadist' fiancé. 😲
5footfilly | 5footfilly
Protect your kids, dump him, and seek family therapy. 🚨
Smart_Pumpkin_8928 | Smart_Pumpkin_8928
Commenter calls out fiancé's hypocrisy and advises rethinking marriage. 😲
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Fiancé's bizarre 'tests' criticized for raising paranoid children. 🤔
mdmhera | mdmhera
Run! 🏃♀️ NTA's clever child deserves better.
DistrictRelative1738 | DistrictRelative1738
🤔 Questioning the relationship status, ESH comment left unanswered.
CrystalQueen3000 | CrystalQueen3000
Raising children doesn't mean punishing them for existing 🙏
darya42 | darya42
NTA for refusing fiancé's 'tests'; suggest testing him instead. 😏
Makeshift-human | Makeshift-human
Fiancé's twisted tests on kids condemned by commenter. 🤯
IcePsychological7032 | IcePsychological7032
Commenter advises getting a new boyfriend and roof. 😎
Aquarius052 | Aquarius052
Commenter calls out fiancé's bizarre 'tests' for kids as unacceptable.
GonnaBeOverIt | GonnaBeOverIt
Parenting red flags: Enabling fiancé's bizarre 'tests' on kids 🚩
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