Fiancé's Bizarre 'Tests' for Kids: Is Mom an Enabler? 😲

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Imagine having a fiancé who conducts secret 'tests' on your children to evaluate their behavior. One mom found herself in this exact situation when her fiancé, a 40-year-old teacher, started playing mind games with her kids from a previous marriage. He believes they lack discipline and has taken it upon himself to teach them a lesson. But when one of his bizarre tests goes awry, the mom is left questioning if she's an enabler or if her fiancé has gone too far. 😕💔

Fiancé's Discipline Obsession 🤔

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The 'Tests' Begin 🕵️‍♂️

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Examples of Fiancé's Tests 📝

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The Dollar Test 💵

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14-Year-Old 'Fails' Test 😞

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The Truth Revealed 😱

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Fiancé's Harsh Punishment 😠

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Mom Fights Back 💪

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Fiancé's 'Principles' 🤨

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Undermining Authority? 🚫

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Fiancé's Ultimatum 🏠

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Mom vs. Fiancé: Who's Right? 🤷‍♀️

Caught in a battle between her fiancé's bizarre disciplinary tactics and her son's questionable actions, this mom is left wondering if she's enabling bad behavior or if her fiancé is taking things too far. With the fiancé threatening to not tolerate dishonesty under his roof, the stakes are high. Is she right to stand up for her son, or should she let her fiancé's punishment stand? Let's dive into the internet's top responses to this tricky situation... 🧐💬

Commenter and replies condemn emotional abuse of children by fiance. 😱

Standard-Park | Standard-Park

Fiancé's 'tests' for kids are manipulative and illegal. Dump him! 😠


Fiancé's 'tests' are damaging, send him packing. 🚫

Misha2468 | Misha2468

Red flags raised by a teacher on manipulative 'tests' for kids. NTA.

BitiumRibbon | BitiumRibbon

Commenter and replies condemn enabler of child abuse. YTA.

Significant_Rule_855 | Significant_Rule_855

Commenter and reply agree: Dump the dangerous fiancé 💯

Minimum-Green5187 | Minimum-Green5187

Commenter calls out the OP for tolerating psychological abuse. 💔

SmallTownAttorney | SmallTownAttorney

Commenter calls fiancé a psycho, others agree on power dynamic.

Green1578 | Green1578

Traumatized commenter warns against fiancé's 'tests' on kids. 😱

mii_mo | mii_mo

Fiancé's cruel tests on kids, commenter calls him a 'jerkwad' 😠

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Commenter calls out psycho fiancé's power trip with kids. 😱

Zach_203 | Zach_203

Protect your kids, don't marry someone who tests them 😡

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🚩 Red flag alert: Commenter calls out abusive behavior 🚩

WaywardWytch00 | WaywardWytch00

Commenter calls out emotional abuse and manipulation, urges action. 😱

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Fiancé's 'tests' for kids are warning signs of future abuse. 🚩

SlinkyMalinky20 | SlinkyMalinky20

🚩 Beware of red flags: a controlling fiancé is not parent material.

thirdtryisthecharm | thirdtryisthecharm

Fiancé's mind games with kids: NTA seeks advice on handling it 💭

Minty_Green63 | Minty_Green63

Toxic 'tests' create unsafe home environment for kids. 😱

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Fiancé's abusive 'tests' on kids condemned as deranged and sick 😠

Independent_Ad9670 | Independent_Ad9670

Sassy NTA comment throws shade at bizarre fiancé behavior 😎

Individual_Rest2300 | Individual_Rest2300

Fiancé's 'tests' for kids are entrapment, NTA should dump him 💔

dozing-dynamite | dozing-dynamite

Fiancé's 'virtue tests' on kids deemed abusive and hypocritical. NTA.

superflex | superflex

Protect your kids! 😲 Don't marry this person. 👏

mrslII | mrslII

Protecting your kids from abuse: NTA, but don't enable it. 🚨

madelinegumbo | madelinegumbo

Protect your kids from abuse. NTA for refusing punishment. 🚨

loudent2 | loudent2

Fiancé's bizarre 'tests' for kids - is mom enabling him? 😬

HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366

Protect your children from your toxic fiancé. 🚫

Lolka24 | Lolka24

Dump the fiancee for the sake of the kids 😱

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Parent questions fiancé's bizarre tests on kids, declares NTA.

anonreddjt | anonreddjt

Fiancé's 'tests' are unhinged, and as a teacher, he should know better. #NTA 😲

karenna89 | karenna89

🚨 Red flag alert! Fiancé's 'tests' are abusive. Protect your kids.

No_Birthday_1620 | No_Birthday_1620

Fiancé's 'tests' for kids are sociopathic. OP NTA, fiancé is AH 😠

TommyAtomic | TommyAtomic

Commenter calls out enabler for subjecting kids to abuse 🔫

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Fiancé emotionally manipulates kids, both are assholes. 🤯

AshlynM2 | AshlynM2

Red flags everywhere! Don't marry him! 🚩

Batmomlovesyou | Batmomlovesyou

Don't marry someone who tests your kids like this 🙄

Saltynut99 | Saltynut99

Fiancé's disturbing mind games with kids - ESH verdict.

Samu_2020_15 | Samu_2020_15

Protect your kids from the AH fiancé. Get rid ASAP. 🚨

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Ex-fiancé's bizarre 'tests' raises red flags for commenter 🚩

wakeuptomorrow | wakeuptomorrow

Fiancé's 'tests' on kids called out as dishonest and shitty 😱

breathemusic14 | breathemusic14

Protect your kids from manipulative 'tests' 🚨

Smiler-48 | Smiler-48

Fiancé's 'tests' on kids prompt warning of future regret. 💔

Sirenaide | Sirenaide

🤔 Are the kids in a toxic environment? YTA for enabling.

ImposterSyndrome412 | ImposterSyndrome412

Protect your children from mind games. Don't marry him. 😲

SheiB123 | SheiB123

Fiancé's 'tests' for kids: NTA, but is he a creep? 🤷‍♀️

Swiss_Miss_77 | Swiss_Miss_77

🤔 Think twice before letting him around your kids. #YTA

Chiara985 | Chiara985

🚩 Red flag alert: Fiancé's manipulative behavior towards kids 👀

hutz201917 | hutz201917

🤔 Red flag alert! Is the fiancé exhibiting abusive behavior?

Scary_Contract_3603 | Scary_Contract_3603

Protect your kids! This guy sounds like a nightmare. 😱

Ok-Cockroach2351 | Ok-Cockroach2351

Ditch him! Entrapment is not okay. #NTA 🚫

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Fiancé's bizarre 'tests' for kids called out for being unhealthy 🤔

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User warns of fiance's behavior towards kids, advises to reconsider relationship. 😱

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🚨 YTA's partner abuses children, why stay? 😡

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🚩 Red flag alert: 'Don't marry him!'

Jethrothemutant | Jethrothemutant

Protect your kids! End the engagement and show him out. 🚨

Paevatar | Paevatar

Fiancé's manipulative 'tests' exposed as lies, NTA for leaving 👏

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Red flags everywhere! Leave this abusive, manipulative partner. 🚨

Particular-Set5396 | Particular-Set5396

Protect your kids, kick out the abuser 💪

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Commenter calls out fiancé's bizarre tests and suggests therapy ☠️

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NTA commenter urges dumping 'Machievellian emotional sadist' fiancé. 😲

5footfilly | 5footfilly

Protect your kids, dump him, and seek family therapy. 🚨

Smart_Pumpkin_8928 | Smart_Pumpkin_8928

Commenter calls out fiancé's hypocrisy and advises rethinking marriage. 😲

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Fiancé's bizarre 'tests' criticized for raising paranoid children. 🤔

mdmhera | mdmhera

Run! 🏃‍♀️ NTA's clever child deserves better.

DistrictRelative1738 | DistrictRelative1738

🤔 Questioning the relationship status, ESH comment left unanswered.

CrystalQueen3000 | CrystalQueen3000

Raising children doesn't mean punishing them for existing 🙏

darya42 | darya42

NTA for refusing fiancé's 'tests'; suggest testing him instead. 😏

Makeshift-human | Makeshift-human

Fiancé's twisted tests on kids condemned by commenter. 🤯

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Commenter advises getting a new boyfriend and roof. 😎

Aquarius052 | Aquarius052

Commenter calls out fiancé's bizarre 'tests' for kids as unacceptable.

GonnaBeOverIt | GonnaBeOverIt

Parenting red flags: Enabling fiancé's bizarre 'tests' on kids 🚩

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