Husband's Dilemma: Wife Wants to Be Surrogate for Best Friend 😱

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Imagine having a happy marriage and two beautiful children, only for a life-changing decision to threaten it all. That's the situation our dear husband finds himself in. His wife wants to be a surrogate mother for her best friend, who can't have children due to medical reasons. However, the husband is hesitant, fearing the impact it may have on their marriage and family life. 😰 Let's dive into their story and see what unfolds.

The Happy Family 💑

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Wife's Surrogate Proposal 🤰

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Best Friend's Struggle 😔

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Husband's Concerns 😟

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Financial Worries 💸

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Previous Pregnancy Complications 🤕

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Toxic Pregnancies 😖

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Tension and Stress 😤

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Wife's Determination 🌟

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Another Conversation 🗣️

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Wife's Response 💔

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Husband's Struggle 🚶

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Best Friend's Plea 🙏

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Husband's Dilemma 😣

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Marriage on the Line: Surrogacy Dilemma 🤯

Our husband finds himself torn between his love for his wife and the potential consequences of her becoming a surrogate for her best friend. He's worried about the financial strain, his wife's previous pregnancy complications, and the toxic atmosphere her pregnancies create. Despite his concerns, his wife is determined to help her friend, leaving the final decision in his hands. With the best friend pleading for a chance at motherhood, will he stand his ground or give in to their wishes? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🍿

NTA. Wife's friend's request for surrogacy has many complications and risks.

TacoCommander | TacoCommander

Appropriate-Energy | Appropriate-Energy

Wife hesitant to be surrogate, friend TA for pressuring. Adoption/fostering?

iamtrulyanon | iamtrulyanon

Wife's desire to be surrogate for friend causing marriage risk. NTA.

wickedkittylitter | wickedkittylitter

NTA commenter raises valid point on surrogate's impact on relationships 👍

garlicbread_666 | garlicbread_666

Husband considers wife's surrogacy for friend, commenters say NTA

GonnaBeIToldUSo | GonnaBeIToldUSo

Best friend may be TA for ignoring boundaries 😒

CyborgsRHere | CyborgsRHere

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NachosPeligroso | NachosPeligroso

Prioritizing your marriage and family is important. NTA 👍

IronTaco17 | IronTaco17

Is it really a good idea to bring a child into the world at the beginning of a pandemic? 🤔

CaliforniaJade | CaliforniaJade

Pascalle112 | Pascalle112

Friend wants wife to be surrogate, but doesn't prioritize her happiness 😒

punnsylvaniaFB | punnsylvaniaFB

NTA husband hesitant about wife's surrogacy for friend 😱

stewbugx | stewbugx

Short and sweet: NTA, just say no 🙌

bluenote73 | bluenote73

Husband concerned about wife being surrogate for friend. Compromise suggested.

drulenarendes | drulenarendes

Surrogacy is expensive. Ask her friend how much she's paying. 💰

arisomething | arisomething

Wife hates pregnancy, friend is selfish. NTA for saying no 👍

d3t0x_ | d3t0x_

Putting emotional health first, NTA advises against surrogacy 🙌

brntchcknngt | brntchcknngt

Husband explains why he needs to stay home during pregnancy 🤔

StaplesStyle | StaplesStyle

Commenter praises husband's character in surrogate dilemma. 👍

ducksturtle | ducksturtle

Protect yourself legally if friend backs out. Wife, reconsider surrogacy.

wantamint | wantamint

NTA - Wife's friend pressuring not fair. Consider financial implications.

coconutville | coconutville

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Husband hesitant to let wife be surrogate for pushy friend 😐

tempergalaxy | tempergalaxy

Important questions to consider before agreeing to surrogacy 🤔

spessartine | spessartine

Is wife's surrogacy possible? Unlikely, says commenter. 🤔

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Being a surrogate could negatively affect the whole family 🤔

Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs

Husband's concerns are valid. Being a surrogate is a huge responsibility. 🙏

corelicious4 | corelicious4

Consider the risks. Get all outcomes documented before proceeding. 🚡

B0r0B1rd | B0r0B1rd

Protect your family's financial future if wife becomes surrogate 💸

Livingbutdeadinside | Livingbutdeadinside


Pregnancy can have severe consequences, even for surrogates. 😱

likesclouds | likesclouds

Husband's concerns about wife being surrogate for friend. 😬

JessHas4Dogs | JessHas4Dogs

Wife wants to be surrogate for best friend, but NTA.

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Surrogacy as a business transaction: why friends shouldn't mix.

AngeliqueSnail | AngeliqueSnail

Alternative options for surrogacy to avoid health risks. 🙌

Curtisziraa | Curtisziraa

ilovepancakes134 | ilovepancakes134

Suggesting adoption or hiring a surrogate may be a better option 👨‍🎤

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

The husband's dilemma: should he let his wife be a surrogate?

Mintgiver | Mintgiver

Husband is NTA for not wanting wife to be surrogate. Valid reasons.

invomitous-rex | invomitous-rex

Best friend's request for surrogacy is risky and selfish. NTA.

bukibukz | bukibukz

Commenter strongly disagrees with wife's surrogacy proposal.

cherokeejew2 | cherokeejew2

Wife wants to be a surrogate for her best friend. Commenter says NTA and explains why it's a selfish move that negatively affects the family.

leftajar | leftajar

Supportive comment suggests sharing post to prove innocence. 🙌

imCPT | imCPT

Friend's pushiness and odd request raise red flags 😑

Joye_of_snacks | Joye_of_snacks

Protecting your marriage, kids, and wife's health should come first 🙏

dtShikhaMahajan | dtShikhaMahajan

NTA wants to table surrogacy for friend during pandemic 😱

snackysnackeeesnacki | snackysnackeeesnacki

Heartbreaking dilemma for husband, wife, and friends. No villains here.

futurehasbeen | futurehasbeen

Legalize it and hire help. Being a surrogate is tough. 😱

PomegranateSky | PomegranateSky

NTA - High risk pregnancy, serious complications from IVF. Don't allow.

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Husband stuck in a lose-lose situation, wife puts burden on him 😢

MonkeyWrench | MonkeyWrench

Commenter raises concern over past abusive behavior during pregnancies.

apathyontheeast | apathyontheeast

Is risking your family's well-being worth being a surrogate?

WhiskyKitten | WhiskyKitten

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