Imagine having a happy marriage and two beautiful children, only for a life-changing decision to threaten it all. That's the situation our dear husband finds himself in. His wife wants to be a surrogate mother for her best friend, who can't have children due to medical reasons. However, the husband is hesitant, fearing the impact it may have on their marriage and family life. 😰 Let's dive into their story and see what unfolds.

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Best Friend's Plea 🙏

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Husband's Dilemma 😣

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Marriage on the Line: Surrogacy Dilemma 🤯
Our husband finds himself torn between his love for his wife and the potential consequences of her becoming a surrogate for her best friend. He's worried about the financial strain, his wife's previous pregnancy complications, and the toxic atmosphere her pregnancies create. Despite his concerns, his wife is determined to help her friend, leaving the final decision in his hands. With the best friend pleading for a chance at motherhood, will he stand his ground or give in to their wishes? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🍿
NTA. Wife's friend's request for surrogacy has many complications and risks.

TacoCommander | TacoCommander

Appropriate-Energy | Appropriate-Energy
Wife hesitant to be surrogate, friend TA for pressuring. Adoption/fostering?

iamtrulyanon | iamtrulyanon
Wife's desire to be surrogate for friend causing marriage risk. NTA.

wickedkittylitter | wickedkittylitter
NTA commenter raises valid point on surrogate's impact on relationships 👍

garlicbread_666 | garlicbread_666
Husband considers wife's surrogacy for friend, commenters say NTA

GonnaBeIToldUSo | GonnaBeIToldUSo
Best friend may be TA for ignoring boundaries 😒

CyborgsRHere | CyborgsRHere

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NachosPeligroso | NachosPeligroso
Prioritizing your marriage and family is important. NTA 👍

IronTaco17 | IronTaco17
Is it really a good idea to bring a child into the world at the beginning of a pandemic? 🤔

CaliforniaJade | CaliforniaJade

Pascalle112 | Pascalle112
Friend wants wife to be surrogate, but doesn't prioritize her happiness 😒

punnsylvaniaFB | punnsylvaniaFB
NTA husband hesitant about wife's surrogacy for friend 😱

stewbugx | stewbugx
Short and sweet: NTA, just say no 🙌

bluenote73 | bluenote73
Husband concerned about wife being surrogate for friend. Compromise suggested.

drulenarendes | drulenarendes
Surrogacy is expensive. Ask her friend how much she's paying. 💰

arisomething | arisomething
Wife hates pregnancy, friend is selfish. NTA for saying no 👍

d3t0x_ | d3t0x_
Putting emotional health first, NTA advises against surrogacy 🙌

brntchcknngt | brntchcknngt
Husband explains why he needs to stay home during pregnancy 🤔

StaplesStyle | StaplesStyle
Commenter praises husband's character in surrogate dilemma. 👍

ducksturtle | ducksturtle
Protect yourself legally if friend backs out. Wife, reconsider surrogacy.

wantamint | wantamint
NTA - Wife's friend pressuring not fair. Consider financial implications.

coconutville | coconutville

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Husband hesitant to let wife be surrogate for pushy friend 😐

tempergalaxy | tempergalaxy
Important questions to consider before agreeing to surrogacy 🤔

spessartine | spessartine
Is wife's surrogacy possible? Unlikely, says commenter. 🤔

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Being a surrogate could negatively affect the whole family 🤔

Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs
Husband's concerns are valid. Being a surrogate is a huge responsibility. 🙏

corelicious4 | corelicious4
Consider the risks. Get all outcomes documented before proceeding. 🚡

B0r0B1rd | B0r0B1rd
Protect your family's financial future if wife becomes surrogate 💸

Livingbutdeadinside | Livingbutdeadinside

HAVINNYT | HAVINNYT
Pregnancy can have severe consequences, even for surrogates. 😱

likesclouds | likesclouds
Husband's concerns about wife being surrogate for friend. 😬

JessHas4Dogs | JessHas4Dogs
Wife wants to be surrogate for best friend, but NTA.

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Surrogacy as a business transaction: why friends shouldn't mix.

AngeliqueSnail | AngeliqueSnail
Alternative options for surrogacy to avoid health risks. 🙌

Curtisziraa | Curtisziraa

ilovepancakes134 | ilovepancakes134
Suggesting adoption or hiring a surrogate may be a better option 👨🎤

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17
The husband's dilemma: should he let his wife be a surrogate?

Mintgiver | Mintgiver
Husband is NTA for not wanting wife to be surrogate. Valid reasons.

invomitous-rex | invomitous-rex
Best friend's request for surrogacy is risky and selfish. NTA.

bukibukz | bukibukz
Commenter strongly disagrees with wife's surrogacy proposal.

cherokeejew2 | cherokeejew2
Wife wants to be a surrogate for her best friend. Commenter says NTA and explains why it's a selfish move that negatively affects the family.

leftajar | leftajar
Supportive comment suggests sharing post to prove innocence. 🙌

imCPT | imCPT
Friend's pushiness and odd request raise red flags 😑

Joye_of_snacks | Joye_of_snacks
Protecting your marriage, kids, and wife's health should come first 🙏

dtShikhaMahajan | dtShikhaMahajan
NTA wants to table surrogacy for friend during pandemic 😱

snackysnackeeesnacki | snackysnackeeesnacki
Heartbreaking dilemma for husband, wife, and friends. No villains here.

futurehasbeen | futurehasbeen
Legalize it and hire help. Being a surrogate is tough. 😱

PomegranateSky | PomegranateSky
NTA - High risk pregnancy, serious complications from IVF. Don't allow.

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Husband stuck in a lose-lose situation, wife puts burden on him 😢

MonkeyWrench | MonkeyWrench
Commenter raises concern over past abusive behavior during pregnancies.

apathyontheeast | apathyontheeast
Is risking your family's well-being worth being a surrogate?

WhiskyKitten | WhiskyKitten