Imagine agreeing to be a surrogate for your sister, only to find out that she wants you to conceive the baby in a way you never expected. That's the situation our protagonist, let's call her Jane, finds herself in. Her sister Alice has always wanted kids but has been unable to carry a baby to full term due to endometriosis. Alice and her husband Ben have adopted and fostered children, but now they want a biological child and asked Jane to be their surrogate. Jane agreed, expecting artificial insemination, but was shocked when they requested she get pregnant the traditional way. 😳
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Alice's Struggle with Endometriosis
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Adopting and Fostering Children
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The Desire for a Biological Child
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A Generous Offer
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Jane's Initial Agreement
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A Shocking Request
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The Traditional Way?
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The Ick Factor
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Second Thoughts
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A Tough Decision
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Edit: Out of Her Depth
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To Surrogate or Not to Surrogate? 🤔
Jane is now faced with a difficult decision. Should she go back on her word and refuse to be a surrogate for her sister, or should she accept their request and get pregnant the traditional way? Her family doesn't see anything wrong with it and has congratulated Alice on her impending baby. On the other hand, Jane can't get over the ick factor and wonders if she's crazy for potentially passing up a life-changing sum of money. Let's see what people think about this controversial situation... 😬
NTA. Commenters warn against DIY surrogacy with BIL and legal issues.
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Surrogacy ≠ Sex. NTA for having boundaries. 😒
rebootfromstart | rebootfromstart
NTA commenter condemns the disturbing request to have sex with BIL.
Edselmonster | Edselmonster
Surrogate asked to have sex with brother-in-law, sister approves? 🤯 NTA.
marianaosaka | marianaosaka
A disturbing comment and replies about forced surrogacy ritual 🤔
vlsewell | vlsewell
NTA. Surrogacy is a complex process, DIY is not recommended. 😱
worldwinds22 | worldwinds22
Surrogacy gone wrong: NTA backs out of shocking request 😱
memeingintoyourDM | memeingintoyourDM
BIL wants sex with OP and sister is encouraging it? 🤔
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NTA commenter raises concerns about the logistics and ethical implications of surrogacy, with a Handmaid's Tale reference. Replies explain the importance of medical monitoring for successful conception.
SuluSpeaks | SuluSpeaks
Surrogacy through a clinic handles parental rights and legal concerns.
nkh86 | nkh86
The BIL's shocking request for 'traditional' conception 🤢
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A comment on the cost of surrogacy with a humorous twist 😂
liddelpegger | liddelpegger
Shocking request for sister's surrogate, commenter calls out absurdity.
Porg-cuddles | Porg-cuddles
Surrogacy request turned Handmaid's Tale nightmare 😲
AliceInWeirdoland | AliceInWeirdoland
Offer alternatives and don't feel guilty. Good luck! 👍
MarblePsychonaut | MarblePsychonaut
A shocking request for surrogacy with a hidden motive 😱
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NTA for backing out of surrogacy, but creepy request 😒
neonsilver13 | neonsilver13
Surrogacy request is sketchy, legally and financially risky. NTA.
tenpercentofnothing | tenpercentofnothing
Surrogacy compensation concerns and support for NTA decision 🙌
princessettey | princessettey
Red flags raised as family offers sister suspicious surrogacy deal 🚨
CheesecakeStirFry | CheesecakeStirFry
Commenter doubts legitimacy of the situation with laughing emoji.
Bakingjingo | Bakingjingo
User firmly rejects sleeping with brother-in-law, with a dash of humor
Fickle_Session | Fickle_Session
NTA refuses sister's shocking surrogacy request 😱
LitChick2000 | LitChick2000
Creative solution suggested for uncomfortable surrogacy situation 🤔
artlunus | artlunus
Red flags raised in surrogate situation. NTA stands firm.
MadnessEvangelist | MadnessEvangelist
A shocking request from sister's surrogate, with a concerning twist 🤯
NothappyJane | NothappyJane
Shocking request for surrogate to have sex with brother-in-law 😱
henchwench89 | henchwench89
Surrogacy is not prostitution. NTA for setting boundaries. 🙏
RagaMuffinSun | RagaMuffinSun
Don't agree to the shocking request, nullify the agreement. 😱
Calm_Initial | Calm_Initial
Surrogate agreement violated with unacceptable request. NTA. 👍
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A Handmaid's Tale scenario? NTA's shocking surrogate dilemma.
CardCatSakura | CardCatSakura
Surrogacy request from sister's partner is legally and ethically dubious 😱
Whiteroses7252012 | Whiteroses7252012
Deciding whether to be a surrogate for your sister: NTA
concretism | concretism
Surrogate slams shocking request, calls situation 'ick' 🤯
KaitSenk | KaitSenk
NTA advises against surrogacy due to emotional and financial risks 😕
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Disturbing request from BIL to SIL for surrogate. Cut contact.
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Commenter questions the method of surrogacy and criticizes the couple.
louloomoo | louloomoo
A shocking request to surrogate sister to have intercourse 😲
helendestroy | helendestroy
Keeping promises? Not the a**hole. 👍
waterbuffalo750 | waterbuffalo750
Family pressure to have sex with brother-in-law for surrogacy? NTA
Curtisziraa | Curtisziraa
Don't be their surrogate. Their attitudes towards you are terrifying. 😱
Ragingredblue | Ragingredblue
Surrogacy proposal is exploitative and gross 😒
aluriaphin | aluriaphin
Surrogate boundaries crossed? Egg on your face 🤪
gordondigopher | gordondigopher
Money doesn't matter when things get weird 🤯
TX_Farmer | TX_Farmer
Commenter calls out creepy request and potential coercion 😒
Scottish_lullaby | Scottish_lullaby
Surrogacy gone wrong: When a husband's request goes too far 🤯
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Think twice before agreeing to be a surrogate for family 😲
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Consent is key, even in surrogacy. NTA for saying no 👍
patches0208109 | patches0208109
Surrogacy request for $200k could lead to legal issues. NTA.
particledamage | particledamage
Commenter predicts a disaster for sister's surrogate situation 😱
randomguycommenter | randomguycommenter
A commenter finds a surrogate request creepy and weird 🤯
sarcasmf | sarcasmf
Surrogate asked to have sex for biological child, NTA response.
ShaktinCO | ShaktinCO
Commenter calls out gross behavior in surrogacy dilemma 😒
itsacheesestick | itsacheesestick
Surrogacy requires having children of your own. Don't do it.
proteamom | proteamom
Traditional surrogacy is risky and not worth the trouble. 😱
HonPhryneFisher | HonPhryneFisher
Standing firm on boundaries: NTA for denying shocking request 😊
hmg07 | hmg07
NTA stands firm against shocking request for $200K and laughs at name choices 😂
PeskyStabber | PeskyStabber
