Sister's Surrogate Dilemma: A Shocking Request 😲

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Imagine agreeing to be a surrogate for your sister, only to find out that she wants you to conceive the baby in a way you never expected. That's the situation our protagonist, let's call her Jane, finds herself in. Her sister Alice has always wanted kids but has been unable to carry a baby to full term due to endometriosis. Alice and her husband Ben have adopted and fostered children, but now they want a biological child and asked Jane to be their surrogate. Jane agreed, expecting artificial insemination, but was shocked when they requested she get pregnant the traditional way. 😳

Alice's Struggle with Endometriosis

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Adopting and Fostering Children

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The Desire for a Biological Child

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A Generous Offer

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Jane's Initial Agreement

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A Shocking Request

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The Traditional Way?

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The Ick Factor

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Second Thoughts

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A Tough Decision

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Edit: Out of Her Depth

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To Surrogate or Not to Surrogate? 🤔

Jane is now faced with a difficult decision. Should she go back on her word and refuse to be a surrogate for her sister, or should she accept their request and get pregnant the traditional way? Her family doesn't see anything wrong with it and has congratulated Alice on her impending baby. On the other hand, Jane can't get over the ick factor and wonders if she's crazy for potentially passing up a life-changing sum of money. Let's see what people think about this controversial situation... 😬

NTA. Commenters warn against DIY surrogacy with BIL and legal issues.

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Surrogacy ≠ Sex. NTA for having boundaries. 😒

rebootfromstart | rebootfromstart

NTA commenter condemns the disturbing request to have sex with BIL.

Edselmonster | Edselmonster

Surrogate asked to have sex with brother-in-law, sister approves? 🤯 NTA.

marianaosaka | marianaosaka

A disturbing comment and replies about forced surrogacy ritual 🤔

vlsewell | vlsewell

NTA. Surrogacy is a complex process, DIY is not recommended. 😱

worldwinds22 | worldwinds22

Surrogacy gone wrong: NTA backs out of shocking request 😱

memeingintoyourDM | memeingintoyourDM

BIL wants sex with OP and sister is encouraging it? 🤔

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NTA commenter raises concerns about the logistics and ethical implications of surrogacy, with a Handmaid's Tale reference. Replies explain the importance of medical monitoring for successful conception.

SuluSpeaks | SuluSpeaks

Surrogacy through a clinic handles parental rights and legal concerns.

nkh86 | nkh86

The BIL's shocking request for 'traditional' conception 🤢

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A comment on the cost of surrogacy with a humorous twist 😂

liddelpegger | liddelpegger

Shocking request for sister's surrogate, commenter calls out absurdity.

Porg-cuddles | Porg-cuddles

Surrogacy request turned Handmaid's Tale nightmare 😲

AliceInWeirdoland | AliceInWeirdoland

Offer alternatives and don't feel guilty. Good luck! 👍

MarblePsychonaut | MarblePsychonaut

A shocking request for surrogacy with a hidden motive 😱

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NTA for backing out of surrogacy, but creepy request 😒

neonsilver13 | neonsilver13

Surrogacy request is sketchy, legally and financially risky. NTA.

tenpercentofnothing | tenpercentofnothing

Surrogacy compensation concerns and support for NTA decision 🙌

princessettey | princessettey

Red flags raised as family offers sister suspicious surrogacy deal 🚨

CheesecakeStirFry | CheesecakeStirFry

Commenter doubts legitimacy of the situation with laughing emoji.

Bakingjingo | Bakingjingo

User firmly rejects sleeping with brother-in-law, with a dash of humor

Fickle_Session | Fickle_Session

NTA refuses sister's shocking surrogacy request 😱

LitChick2000 | LitChick2000

Creative solution suggested for uncomfortable surrogacy situation 🤔

artlunus | artlunus

Red flags raised in surrogate situation. NTA stands firm.

MadnessEvangelist | MadnessEvangelist

A shocking request from sister's surrogate, with a concerning twist 🤯

NothappyJane | NothappyJane

Shocking request for surrogate to have sex with brother-in-law 😱

henchwench89 | henchwench89

Surrogacy is not prostitution. NTA for setting boundaries. 🙏

RagaMuffinSun | RagaMuffinSun

Don't agree to the shocking request, nullify the agreement. 😱

Calm_Initial | Calm_Initial

Surrogate agreement violated with unacceptable request. NTA. 👍

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A Handmaid's Tale scenario? NTA's shocking surrogate dilemma.

CardCatSakura | CardCatSakura

Surrogacy request from sister's partner is legally and ethically dubious 😱

Whiteroses7252012 | Whiteroses7252012

Deciding whether to be a surrogate for your sister: NTA

concretism | concretism

Surrogate slams shocking request, calls situation 'ick' 🤯

KaitSenk | KaitSenk

NTA advises against surrogacy due to emotional and financial risks 😕

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Disturbing request from BIL to SIL for surrogate. Cut contact.

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Commenter questions the method of surrogacy and criticizes the couple.

louloomoo | louloomoo

A shocking request to surrogate sister to have intercourse 😲

helendestroy | helendestroy

Keeping promises? Not the a**hole. 👍

waterbuffalo750 | waterbuffalo750

Family pressure to have sex with brother-in-law for surrogacy? NTA

Curtisziraa | Curtisziraa

Don't be their surrogate. Their attitudes towards you are terrifying. 😱

Ragingredblue | Ragingredblue

Surrogacy proposal is exploitative and gross 😒

aluriaphin | aluriaphin

Surrogate boundaries crossed? Egg on your face 🤪

gordondigopher | gordondigopher

Money doesn't matter when things get weird 🤯

TX_Farmer | TX_Farmer

Commenter calls out creepy request and potential coercion 😒

Scottish_lullaby | Scottish_lullaby

Surrogacy gone wrong: When a husband's request goes too far 🤯

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Think twice before agreeing to be a surrogate for family 😲

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Consent is key, even in surrogacy. NTA for saying no 👍

patches0208109 | patches0208109

Surrogacy request for $200k could lead to legal issues. NTA.

particledamage | particledamage

Commenter predicts a disaster for sister's surrogate situation 😱

randomguycommenter | randomguycommenter

A commenter finds a surrogate request creepy and weird 🤯

sarcasmf | sarcasmf

Surrogate asked to have sex for biological child, NTA response.

ShaktinCO | ShaktinCO

Commenter calls out gross behavior in surrogacy dilemma 😒

itsacheesestick | itsacheesestick

Surrogacy requires having children of your own. Don't do it.

proteamom | proteamom

Traditional surrogacy is risky and not worth the trouble. 😱

HonPhryneFisher | HonPhryneFisher

Standing firm on boundaries: NTA for denying shocking request 😊

hmg07 | hmg07

NTA stands firm against shocking request for $200K and laughs at name choices 😂

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