Imagine agreeing to be a surrogate for your sister, only to find out that she wants you to conceive the baby in a way you never expected. That's the situation our protagonist, let's call her Jane, finds herself in. Her sister Alice has always wanted kids but has been unable to carry a baby to full term due to endometriosis. Alice and her husband Ben have adopted and fostered children, but now they want a biological child and asked Jane to be their surrogate. Jane agreed, expecting artificial insemination, but was shocked when they requested she get pregnant the traditional way. 😳
Alice's Struggle with Endometriosis
Adopting and Fostering Children
The Desire for a Biological Child
A Generous Offer
Jane's Initial Agreement
A Shocking Request
The Traditional Way?
The Ick Factor
A Tough Decision
Edit: Out of Her Depth
To Surrogate or Not to Surrogate? 🤔
Jane is now faced with a difficult decision. Should she go back on her word and refuse to be a surrogate for her sister, or should she accept their request and get pregnant the traditional way? Her family doesn't see anything wrong with it and has congratulated Alice on her impending baby. On the other hand, Jane can't get over the ick factor and wonders if she's crazy for potentially passing up a life-changing sum of money. Let's see what people think about this controversial situation... 😬
NTA. Commenters warn against DIY surrogacy with BIL and legal issues.
Surrogacy ≠ Sex. NTA for having boundaries. 😒
NTA commenter condemns the disturbing request to have sex with BIL.
Surrogate asked to have sex with brother-in-law, sister approves? 🤯 NTA.
A disturbing comment and replies about forced surrogacy ritual 🤔
NTA. Surrogacy is a complex process, DIY is not recommended. 😱
Surrogacy gone wrong: NTA backs out of shocking request 😱
BIL wants sex with OP and sister is encouraging it? 🤔
NTA commenter raises concerns about the logistics and ethical implications of surrogacy, with a Handmaid's Tale reference. Replies explain the importance of medical monitoring for successful conception.
Surrogacy through a clinic handles parental rights and legal concerns.
The BIL's shocking request for 'traditional' conception 🤢
A comment on the cost of surrogacy with a humorous twist 😂
Shocking request for sister's surrogate, commenter calls out absurdity.
Surrogacy request turned Handmaid's Tale nightmare 😲
Offer alternatives and don't feel guilty. Good luck! 👍
A shocking request for surrogacy with a hidden motive 😱
NTA for backing out of surrogacy, but creepy request 😒
Surrogacy request is sketchy, legally and financially risky. NTA.
Surrogacy compensation concerns and support for NTA decision 🙌
Red flags raised as family offers sister suspicious surrogacy deal 🚨
Commenter doubts legitimacy of the situation with laughing emoji.
User firmly rejects sleeping with brother-in-law, with a dash of humor
NTA refuses sister's shocking surrogacy request 😱
Creative solution suggested for uncomfortable surrogacy situation 🤔
Red flags raised in surrogate situation. NTA stands firm.
A shocking request from sister's surrogate, with a concerning twist 🤯
Shocking request for surrogate to have sex with brother-in-law 😱
Surrogacy is not prostitution. NTA for setting boundaries. 🙏
Don't agree to the shocking request, nullify the agreement. 😱
Surrogate agreement violated with unacceptable request. NTA. 👍
A Handmaid's Tale scenario? NTA's shocking surrogate dilemma.
Surrogacy request from sister's partner is legally and ethically dubious 😱
Deciding whether to be a surrogate for your sister: NTA
Surrogate slams shocking request, calls situation 'ick' 🤯
NTA advises against surrogacy due to emotional and financial risks 😕
Disturbing request from BIL to SIL for surrogate. Cut contact.
Commenter questions the method of surrogacy and criticizes the couple.
A shocking request to surrogate sister to have intercourse 😲
Keeping promises? Not the a**hole. 👍
Family pressure to have sex with brother-in-law for surrogacy? NTA
Don't be their surrogate. Their attitudes towards you are terrifying. 😱
Surrogacy proposal is exploitative and gross 😒
Surrogate boundaries crossed? Egg on your face 🤪
Money doesn't matter when things get weird 🤯
Commenter calls out creepy request and potential coercion 😒
Surrogacy gone wrong: When a husband's request goes too far 🤯
Think twice before agreeing to be a surrogate for family 😲
Consent is key, even in surrogacy. NTA for saying no 👍
Surrogacy request for $200k could lead to legal issues. NTA.
Commenter predicts a disaster for sister's surrogate situation 😱
A commenter finds a surrogate request creepy and weird 🤯
Surrogate asked to have sex for biological child, NTA response.
Commenter calls out gross behavior in surrogacy dilemma 😒
Surrogacy requires having children of your own. Don't do it.
Traditional surrogacy is risky and not worth the trouble. 😱
Standing firm on boundaries: NTA for denying shocking request 😊
NTA stands firm against shocking request for $200K and laughs at name choices 😂