Dad Defends Daughters: Birth Father Demands Meeting, Girls Refuse 😱

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Imagine raising three beautiful girls as your own, only for their birth father to suddenly reappear after 17 years of absence. That's what happened to one loving adoptive dad who was faced with a difficult decision when the girls' birth father demanded to meet them. The girls, however, were adamant about not wanting to meet the man who abandoned them. 😨🚫

The Backstory Begins...

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A Father Disappears

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A New Love Story

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Tragic Loss & Adoption

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An Unexpected Message

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A Father's Identity

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The Girls' Decision

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Sisters Stand Together

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The Girls' Request

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Face to Face

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A Father's Plea

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Anger and Accusations

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A Stormy Exit

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Friends Weigh In

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A Lingering Doubt

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Dad Stands Up for Daughters, but Doubts Linger 😔

In a whirlwind of emotions, this adoptive dad defends his daughters' wishes to not meet their birth father, who suddenly reemerges after 17 years. Despite the girls' firm decision, the birth father accuses the dad of keeping them away out of fear they'll leave him. As friends chime in with their opinions, the dad starts to doubt his actions. Was he right to stand by his daughters' decision, or should he have encouraged a meeting with their birth father? 💔🤔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NTA- Dad protects daughters from potential danger, earns respect and support.

IkeaYayas | IkeaYayas

NTA. OP's responsible decision to listen to his daughters and prioritize their well-being is admirable. The bio father's selfishness is evident. 💯

ClippityClomp | ClippityClomp

Respect your daughters' decision. You're their dad. 👍

WailingWidow | WailingWidow

Daughters have the right to refuse meeting birth father 😱

Mystic_Arts | Mystic_Arts

Daughters refuse to meet birth father, dad defends their decision 👏

aglorifiedgasstation | aglorifiedgasstation

Girls refuse to meet birth father, dad supports their decision 👍

Virulencer | Virulencer

Daughters decline birth father's meeting request. NTA for respecting wishes 👍

mgreen1102 | mgreen1102

Daughters refuse to meet birth father who abandoned them. NTA.

Rittman925 | Rittman925

Respectful boundaries set by daughter and dad. NTA 👏

personofpaper | personofpaper

Daughters refuse to meet birth father, dad defends their decision 🙅

mnchemist | mnchemist

Father defends daughters' decision to not meet birth father. NTA 👏

domino_stars | domino_stars

Daughters have the right to refuse birth father's meeting request 🙌

NeedAnOffButton | NeedAnOffButton

Daughters refuse to meet birth father, dad defends decision. NTA 👍

BardicInclination | BardicInclination

Daughters refuse to meet birth father after long absence, NTA.

Sirmoulin | Sirmoulin

Letting daughters decide on meeting birth father, NTA. Good call 👍

Mighty_Vulcan | Mighty_Vulcan

Respect the girls' decision. NTA for letting them choose.

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Being a father is more than biology. NTA for defending daughters 👏

tired0fpeople | tired0fpeople

Dad defends daughters against birth father's demands. NTA. 👍

Darkneuro | Darkneuro

Daughters declined meeting with birth father. NTA for respecting that.

chop1125 | chop1125

Father defends daughters against inappropriate birth father. Great parenting! 👍

thecyberbard | thecyberbard

Respecting daughters' boundaries = Not the a**hole 👍

ohmoimarie | ohmoimarie

NTA gets support for keeping daughters away from abusive sperm donor.

veastt | veastt

Not the a**hole! But why? Check out the replies.

ayym33p33 | ayym33p33

Respectful dad lets his daughters decide, NTA 👍

Zavixi | Zavixi

Father trusts daughters' judgement, defends their decision not to meet birth father.

deadlyhoney | deadlyhoney

Respect your children's decision. NTA, he's owed nothing 👍

Obese_Rabbit | Obese_Rabbit

Daughters refuse to meet birth father, dad defends them. NTA 👍

pericardialFluid | pericardialFluid

Respect your daughters' wishes and support them. Don't push them. 👍

Dachshundmom5 | Dachshundmom5

Father demands relationship after 17 years? Not the a**hole.

KhanJrJr | KhanJrJr

Deadbeat dad demands meeting with daughters he abandoned. NTA shuts him down.

EvilAuntBecky | EvilAuntBecky

Abandoned father demands meeting, daughters refuse. NTA prevails 👏

MocequaDePerigo | MocequaDePerigo

Father defends daughters against absent birth father. NTA 👏

GomerAspiring2BaRuth | GomerAspiring2BaRuth

Respect your kids' decision. Block bio-dad from their accounts. 👍

staticslater | staticslater

NTA defends daughters against birth father's sudden demand for meeting 🙌

AreYouOrArentYou | AreYouOrArentYou

This dad gets the thumbs up for his parenting skills 👍

akkhmatova | akkhmatova

Respectful dad lets daughters decide, NTA for standing up.

MajorasShoe | MajorasShoe

Don't feel guilty, your friend is spinning fantasy scenarios. NTA 👍

Suedeltica | Suedeltica

Dad defends daughters, earns NTA judgement and praise 👏

stillpretending13 | stillpretending13

Respectful dad supports daughters' decision to refuse birth father's meeting.

heloisedargenteuil | heloisedargenteuil

Birth father demands meeting, daughters refuse. NTA wins!

bagfullofbeers93 | bagfullofbeers93

Protective dad stands up against birth father's demands. NTA 💪

norcat | norcat

Daughters refuse entitled birth father's demands. NTA, duh 😱

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Daughters make their own decisions, NTA dad 👍

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Respecting daughters' wishes, birth father throws tantrum. NTA wins 🏆

heyyohighHo | heyyohighHo

Adoptive father praised for defending daughters' decision to not meet bio dad 👏

sarah120996 | sarah120996

Daughters refuse to meet dying birth father, commenter supports decision. 🙏

iBeFloe | iBeFloe

Bio dad demands meeting, NTA warns of potential danger 😱

weirddevil | weirddevil

Daughters refuse birth father's meeting request. NTA prevails 👏

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Respectful dad enforces daughters' wishes, NTA 👍

ilovepancakes134 | ilovepancakes134

Protecting your children's safety and privacy is always NTA 👍

FishersInABowl | FishersInABowl

Supportive comment praises dad for defending his daughters' choices 👏

Destiny89becomesme | Destiny89becomesme

Father defends daughters against birth father's demands. No A-hole here.

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Daughters refuse meeting with birth father, NTA defends their decision 👏

BellaBlue06 | BellaBlue06

Protecting daughters from absent bio dad: NTA, no parental rights 😱

ToughGirlGGBG | ToughGirlGGBG

Agreeing with the dad's defense of his daughters 👍

KittyKat910 | KittyKat910

Biological father demands meeting, but NTA Dad defends daughters.

InquisitiveMD | InquisitiveMD

Daughters refuse to meet birth father, dad defends them. 👏

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Birth father has no right to demand a meeting. NTA.

LordofFullmetal | LordofFullmetal

Daughter discovers biological father at 16, meets at 41. NTA.

rtmfb | rtmfb

Protect your children from abusive parents. Listen to their wishes 👍

Montymania94 | Montymania94

Respecting your children's wishes is important. NTA 👍

NOX-ious | NOX-ious

Respectful dad supports daughters' decision, NTA. 🙌

BrdsONAwire | BrdsONAwire

Supportive dad respects daughters' boundaries. 👏

the-willow-witch | the-willow-witch

Daughters' birth father wants to meet before he dies. NTA explains why he has no right to demand it.

uhno28 | uhno28

Daughters not interested in meeting birth father. NTA defends them 😊

fat_and_irritated | fat_and_irritated

Bio dad wants to meet daughters, but NTA dad puts family first 👏

Soft_Stranger | Soft_Stranger

Great parenting! Daughters' boundaries respected. Sperm donor's feelings irrelevant. 😎

illij_idiot | illij_idiot

Sperm donor has no right to demand meeting. #NTA 👏

stunning-stasis | stunning-stasis

Respecting children's wishes 👍, birth father overstepped boundaries 👎

Goofball412a | Goofball412a

Daughter regrets meeting birthmother, NTA for respecting daughters' decision.

Ohheywhatehoh | Ohheywhatehoh

Respectful approach to birth father, NTA for respecting daughters' decision 👍

Kramalicious | Kramalicious

Daughters refuse meeting with sperm donor, dad defends their choice 👏

marvelouseevee | marvelouseevee

Commenter praises OP for being an amazing human being 😍

Armobob75 | Armobob75

NTA dad handles birth father's request for meeting with grace 👍

TeamChaos17 | TeamChaos17

Parenting win! 🙌 Dad defends daughters and is praised for it.

RussellZee | RussellZee

Respecting your daughters' wishes is key. NTA 👍

AliceInWeirdoland | AliceInWeirdoland

Stepdad receives praise for raising daughters, bio dad criticized.

saintofhate | saintofhate

Father defends daughters' decision to not meet birth father 👏

AngularPenny5 | AngularPenny5

Children have the right to choose their own relationships 👏

goaheaditwontbreak | goaheaditwontbreak

Sperm donor demands meeting, dad defends daughters. NTA.

GroovyYaYa | GroovyYaYa

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