Abortion Days Before Niece's Funeral: Heartless or Justified? 😱

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In a world where family drama knows no bounds, one woman finds herself in the middle of a heart-wrenching situation. Living in a conservative country where abortions are kept hush-hush, she discovers she's pregnant while still in college. With her sister's stillbirth and funeral looming, she makes a life-altering decision. But when her secret is revealed, the fallout leaves everyone questioning who's in the right. 😢

The Hush-Hush Abortion Dilemma 🤫

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Sister's Tragic Loss 😢

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Seeking Help from a Friend 🙏

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Devastating News 💔

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Funeral Plans and a Secret 🕯️

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A Race Against Time ⏰

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Doctor's Advice 🩺

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A Mother's Betrayal? 🤐

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The Aftermath 😖

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Offering Help, Only to Be Confronted 😠

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Sister's Anger Unleashed 🌪️

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The Adoption Argument 💔

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Silent Suffering 😞

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A Month of Silence 🤐

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Whose Fault Is It? 🤔

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To Apologize or Not to Apologize? 🤷‍♀️

Caught between her mother's insistence that she apologize and her boyfriend's belief that she has nothing to be sorry for, our protagonist is left wondering what to do. She understands her sister's pain but feels hurt that she was denied the chance to say goodbye to her godchild. Should her sister apologize for banning her from the funeral? Or is an apology from our protagonist in order? The internet weighs in on this emotional rollercoaster. 🎢

Lesson learned: never trust mother with private info. NTA 👍

FireWisp | FireWisp

NTA for having an abortion, sister's grief is not an excuse 😒

andwhiskersonkittens | andwhiskersonkittens

Support for a woman who had an abortion amidst family drama 👏

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Support for NTA's decision to have an abortion amidst family tragedy 👏

BlondeDingbat | BlondeDingbat

Mother betrays daughter's privacy, but expects apology? NTA!

cyfermax | cyfermax

Compassionate response to NTA comment and supportive replies 👏

SuperFreakingTired | SuperFreakingTired

Privacy breach causes heartbreaking pain for sisters 😢

ChatonFloret | ChatonFloret

Empathetic support for NTA's personal decision and sister's grief.

oliver_babish | oliver_babish

Abortion is a personal choice. NTA for standing up for yourself. 👏

rcmjnbnoe | rcmjnbnoe

Agree or disagree? NTA comment sparks debate 🤔

TigerBelmont | TigerBelmont

Abortion is a personal choice, but family trust is important 🙏

solo-avocado | solo-avocado

Mom's cruel move backfires, blames innocent daughter. 😡

ceallachdon | ceallachdon

Supportive reply to OP, calling out family member's behavior. 👏

SelfANew | SelfANew

NTA for prioritizing your abortion over sister's unreasonable demands 👏

Psykopatate | Psykopatate

Mom blamed her for abortion, NTA. Don't share with her again.

Soiree1999 | Soiree1999

Choosing to have a child just to avoid hurting feelings? NTA 😍

Martian_Pudding | Martian_Pudding

Family drama and tragedy, but NTA. Light a candle 🙏

lorrus | lorrus

Choosing to have an abortion is a personal decision. 👍

DuckSkeleton | DuckSkeleton

NTA for abortion, but mom is TA for breaking confidence.

usernameawesome1 | usernameawesome1

Empathetic response to woman's decision to have an abortion. 🙏

mmb476 | mmb476

Mom's cruel move caused unnecessary family drama. NTA.

TeaRose0608 | TeaRose0608

Mom should apologize to you and your sister. 💯

bustypirate | bustypirate

Banned from niece's funeral due to abortion? NTA, but heartbreaking. 😢

RasereiBWolf | RasereiBWolf

Trust violated by mom revealing abortion, boyfriend right, NTA 👍

Buttery_Claws | Buttery_Claws

NTA for abortion, but AH if demanding apology from sister.

Victoria6360 | Victoria6360

Mom's the a**hole, not the commenter. 😒

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Choosing not to carry a child after a family tragedy. NTA! 👏

mindcontrolmanatee | mindcontrolmanatee

Trust broken, sister needs time to heal after abortion. NTA 👍

Arsenalizer | Arsenalizer

Body autonomy reigns supreme, no need for permission. 💪

Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs

Breaking promises is never okay 👎🏻

GeauxAllDay | GeauxAllDay

Sister lashes out after niece's death, but who's at fault? 🤔

catterso | catterso

Woman chooses abortion, sister shames her. NTA according to bf.

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Setting boundaries with family during grief. 🙏

henchwench89 | henchwench89

Navigating family dynamics during grief: NAH, except for mom 😢

jaegerhardt | jaegerhardt

Asserting bodily autonomy, commenter disagrees with seeking permission for abortion.

TheLightKyanite | TheLightKyanite

Medical needs come first, NTA 👍

flora_pompeii | flora_pompeii

Mom tells sister about abortion after baby's death, blames OP. NTA.

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Sister's grief should not dictate your body autonomy. NTA 👏

avast2006 | avast2006

Supportive reply to a woman who got an abortion after a miscarriage 🙏

princess_octopussy | princess_octopussy

Mom reveals secret, commenter supports choice, sparks debate. 🤔


NTA for having an abortion, but sister and mom owe apologies 😒

Smiley-Canadian | Smiley-Canadian

Supportive response to heartbreaking situation. 👏

laarg | laarg

Empowering response to NTA comment about abortion rights. 💪

sevillada | sevillada

Supportive comment to OP who is NTA for having an abortion.

Hyzenthlay87 | Hyzenthlay87

Commenter sympathizes with OP, calls out OP's mom's betrayal 👏

Mangolove99 | Mangolove99

Cultural differences around giving away babies. Interesting perspective. 🤔

makeabitchfoundation | makeabitchfoundation

Support for not apologizing after abortion during family tragedy. 👍

Dear-Midnight | Dear-Midnight

Standing up for oneself and making tough choices. 💪🏻

ginger_gorgon | ginger_gorgon

Supporting a grieving loved one is more important than being right. ❤️

AyaOshba1 | AyaOshba1

Supporting a grieving sister, NTA for abortion decision. 😢

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Woman defends her decision to have an abortion. #NTA 👏

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Mother's betrayal adds pain to grieving sister's already tough time 😢

overloadedonsarcasm | overloadedonsarcasm

Offering support after being banned from funeral. 🙏

n8673219 | n8673219

Making a tough health decision: NTA or just self-care? 🙏

AerialNerd | AerialNerd

Support for abortion as healthcare in emotional situation. 👏

coffeedrinker1205 | coffeedrinker1205

Body autonomy and betrayal of trust. NTA. 👍

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Not the a**hole. But why? Tell us more! 🤔

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Supportive comment encourages self-care and autonomy in difficult situation. 👏

Vinushka23 | Vinushka23

Pro-choice commenter receives support for early abortion decision 👍

reddeadretardation | reddeadretardation

Betrayed by her own mother. NTA. Trust broken forever. 😢

Kittishk | Kittishk

Supportive response to sister's abortion amidst family tragedy. 👏

gaykidkeyblader | gaykidkeyblader

Supportive response to NTA's decision to have an abortion 💪

pandatree_157 | pandatree_157

Support for woman's abortion, criticism of sister and mother 👏

Sp4ceh0rse | Sp4ceh0rse

No need to apologize, NTA comment receives support 👍

mtsmylie | mtsmylie

NTA for choosing abortion despite family pressure. 👏

randomredittor21 | randomredittor21

Supportive comment defends OP's abortion and criticizes family members.

mischiffmaker | mischiffmaker

Abortion is a personal choice, NTA for not seeking permission.

DressingRumour | DressingRumour

Defending against family betrayal with a justified NTA verdict 👏

amandaflash | amandaflash

Supportive comment amidst family drama and healthcare issues. 👏

Goatlessly | Goatlessly

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