Picture this: a happy couple, both successful business owners, excitedly expecting their first child. But when it comes to discussing childcare and parenting roles, they find themselves at odds. The mom-to-be, who loves her job, is eager to return to work after maternity leave, while her husband assumed she'd be a stay-at-home mom until their child starts school. The couple's disagreement raises questions about expectations, gender roles, and the challenges of modern parenting. 💑👶🤯
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The Great SAHM Debate: Who's in the Wrong? 🤔
This expectant mom is caught in a dilemma: she loves her job and wants to return to work after maternity leave, but her husband assumed she'd be a stay-at-home mom until their child starts school. The couple's disagreement highlights the challenges modern parents face when it comes to balancing work and family life. While the mom-to-be understands her husband's concerns, she knows that being a SAHM would take a toll on her mental health. Despite feeling a bit guilty, she stands firm in her decision. Let's dive into the internet's top responses to this tricky situation... 🌐💬
Moms should not be guilted into being SAHP. NTA 👏
claireclairey | claireclairey
Parent defends working moms, calls out partner's patriarchal assumption. 👏
KarmaRan0verMyDogma | KarmaRan0verMyDogma
Expectant couple's late discussion on parenting causes tension. 🤦🏻♀️
RatioNo1114 | RatioNo1114
Late conversation about expectations leads to inevitable resentment city 🏠
Mrflappy1980 | Mrflappy1980
Mom-to-be stands up for career, but should have discussed earlier 🤷♀️
DRanged691 | DRanged691
Engaging suggestion for stay-at-home dad sparks sarcastic backlash.
hauptj2 | hauptj2
Expectant mom faces unsupportive partner in career vs. SAHM decision 🤔
KenzieMayRae | KenzieMayRae
SAHM life has destroyed me, don't get sucked in 😢
Jollycondane | Jollycondane
Mom-to-be refuses to be a SAHM and stands her ground 💪
AggravatingPatient18 | AggravatingPatient18
Breaking gender roles and standing up for yourself. You go!
rattitude23 | rattitude23
Expectant mom stands up for herself, but surprises with timing 🤔
gendr_bendr | gendr_bendr
Parent suggests daycare or splitting parenting duties for working mother.
MeatyMagnus | MeatyMagnus
Discussing parenting roles before pregnancy is important. Tag teaming works! 👍
pudge-thefish | pudge-thefish
Don't sacrifice your career for his. NTA. 👏
Any-Blackberry-5557 | Any-Blackberry-5557
Discussing career goals before having kids is crucial 👨🎓
IAmNotJohnHS | IAmNotJohnHS
Equal parenting responsibilities for equal parenting decisions 👨🏻💻
Alicia0510 | Alicia0510
Dad should take care of the baby 😒 NTA
CakeZealousideal1820 | CakeZealousideal1820
Choosing to work as a mom? NTA. Start nanny search.
Major_Bother8416 | Major_Bother8416
Mom-to-be stands up for herself and her career goals 💪
happybanana134 | happybanana134
Father should love and spend time with child as much as mother 👨🏻🎤
JudgeJed100 | JudgeJed100
Supportive reply to mom's decision to not be a SAHM. 👍
nothisTrophyWife | nothisTrophyWife
Mom-to-be stands up for herself against controlling husband 💪
GarbageGworl | GarbageGworl
Choosing to work and be a mom is empowering 💪
[deleted] | [deleted]
Choosing to be a stay-at-home-mom is a personal decision 👨🏻📺, but communication is key 📢
nicolepleasestop | nicolepleasestop
Childcare debate: NTA for wanting to work, but discuss options 👨🏻🎤
RevolutionaryCow7961 | RevolutionaryCow7961
Expectant mother stands up for herself against controlling husband 💪
dublos | dublos
Being a stay-at-home mom can be tough. NTA for wanting more.
StressyandMessy24 | StressyandMessy24
Fair point, why not switch off or let him stay home? 🤔
Snowconetypebanana | Snowconetypebanana
Mom stands up for her right to work. 💪
Mysterious_Bridge_61 | Mysterious_Bridge_61
Choosing not to be a SAHM is okay 👍
just-jen57 | just-jen57
Choosing not to be a stay-at-home parent doesn't make you NTA 😊
RNGinx3 | RNGinx3
Expectant mom refuses to be a SAHM, gets support. 👏
kittencalledmeow | kittencalledmeow
Supportive comment encourages new mom to pursue her career goals 💪
trudymonster | trudymonster
Mental health matters! Being a working mom can be best 👍
health_actuary_life | health_actuary_life
Working mom defends her choice, suggests hiring a business manager 🤔
lukibunny | lukibunny
Debating the respect of a woman's choice to not SAHM 🤔
Neither_Pop3543 | Neither_Pop3543
Expectant mom stands her ground against unreasonable expectations. 💪
ArwenCherryBlossom | ArwenCherryBlossom
Challenge gender roles! NTA for not wanting to be SAHM 💪
Bitter-Row-3509 | Bitter-Row-3509
Breaking the stereotype: Expectant mother wants to keep her career 💪
RehinaPhalange | RehinaPhalange
Cultural differences in parenting: Should maternity leave be longer?
Adela_Ch | Adela_Ch
Motherhood is a job, not a sentence. You're NTA for wanting more.
julgwill | julgwill
Male perspective supports expectant mom's decision to hire nanny. 👨👩👦 NTA
Crafty_Editor_4155 | Crafty_Editor_4155
Communication is key! 🗣️ But this NTA comment shows that sometimes things slip through the cracks.
tallish_corgi | tallish_corgi
Breaking gender stereotypes in parenthood 💪
AntiquePop1417 | AntiquePop1417
Breaking the double standard: why should child care be women's responsibility? 🙏
Darwina1226 | Darwina1226
Commenter fully supports the mom's decision 👍
mynamecouldbesam | mynamecouldbesam
OP's husband's red flag raises concern among commenters 🤔
Sea-Armadillo-7717 | Sea-Armadillo-7717
Breaking gender roles: Expectant mom refuses to be SAHM. 💪
Efficient-Cupcake247 | Efficient-Cupcake247
Lighten up on nanny requirements to avoid SAHM conflict 🤣
ImCold555 | ImCold555
Expectant father prioritizes strangers over his own family? 🤔
psychme89 | psychme89
Thoughtful suggestion for childfree couple considering adoption 👨🍳
Super_Reading2048 | Super_Reading2048
This commenter is not the a**hole. 👍
laravitoriagabriela | laravitoriagabriela
Empowering response to traditional gender roles 💪
Gumamae | Gumamae
Empowerment! You have the right to make your own choices 💪
mrslII | mrslII
