Imagine being sick for months and having your spouse dismiss your symptoms as nothing more than a 'man flu.' That's what happened to one husband, who, after several bouts of illness, discovered he had a kidney infection that could've caused permanent damage. 😱 His wife's refusal to take his health seriously has led to a major rift in their relationship. Let's dive into the story... 🍿
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The Beginning of a Health Nightmare 😰
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Flu-like Symptoms and a Dismissive Wife 😒
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Wife's Priorities: Vacation Time > Health 🏖️
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Round Two: Pain and More Dismissal 😫
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"Man Up" and Other Unhelpful Advice 🙄
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The 'Man Flu' Lecture 🤦♂️
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Cancelling the Doctor's Appointment 😔
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Round Three: Finally Seeing the Doctor 🏥
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The Shocking Diagnosis 😨
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The Consequences of Waiting 🚨
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Fury and Frustration 😡
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Avoiding Drama in Recovery 🛌
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Wife's Defense: She Couldn't Have Known 🤷♀️
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Wife's Lack of Empathy Puts Husband's Health at Risk 😔
This poor husband had to endure months of illness and dismissal from his wife before finally discovering he had a kidney infection. 😢 His wife's insistence that he was exaggerating his symptoms and her refusal to let him see a doctor could have had severe consequences. Now, he's recovering for a third time, and their relationship is strained. 💔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...
NTA. Wife lacks sympathy and values vacation over partner's health 🙁
lightwoodorchestra | lightwoodorchestra
Wife dismisses husband's illness, but commenters agree she's the a**hole.
CulturedPhilistine | CulturedPhilistine
Debating the validity of 'man flu' and its sexist connotations 🤔
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NTA for cancelling appointment due to wife's berating. Kidney infections can be deadly. OP should reconsider spouse support. 😷
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Wife's emotional abuse led to husband's illness being dismissed. 😢
this_is_an_alaia | this_is_an_alaia
Wife dismisses husband's illness, refuses to apologize. AH or NAH?
deadlyhausfrau | deadlyhausfrau
Ignoring your spouse's opinion on your health? NTA, but... 😔
JudgyLurker | JudgyLurker
Dismissal of husband's illness as 'man flu' leads to gaslighting accusation. 🤔
Kingalthor | Kingalthor
Don't let anyone dismiss your health concerns, even your spouse. 🚧
Blnx1994 | Blnx1994
Supportive partner dismissed as 'man flu' - NTA needs validation.
Race-Carr | Race-Carr
Don't let anyone dismiss your symptoms or bully you. 😲
DaiZzedandConFuZed | DaiZzedandConFuZed
Don't mess with a man's health, especially if you're not an expert! 😡
VinnyVincinny | VinnyVincinny
"Manning up" argument is outdated. NTA for dismissing man flu.
dis0rdered | dis0rdered
Engage in a conversation about how to handle illness better 😊
ellieacd | ellieacd
Reader questions if wife's behavior is due to past 'man flu' incidents.
copperthorn1 | copperthorn1
Don't let anyone invalidate your health! It could be dangerous 🚨
Archangel_Of_Death | Archangel_Of_Death
Victim-blamed for being gaslit about 'man flu'. NTA.
needsmorecoffee | needsmorecoffee
Partner dismisses illness, but marriage can recover. 😔
dbf06 | dbf06
Don't let anyone dismiss your illness, even if you're a man 🙏🏼. Dump her! 👋
AdoraBelleQueerArt | AdoraBelleQueerArt
NTA. Don't dismiss someone's pain or symptoms. Could she be poisoning you? 🤔
lumos_noxx | lumos_noxx
Commenter suggests leaving spouse after dismissive behavior 👋
SuluSpeaks | SuluSpeaks
Commenter sympathizes with husband's illness and condemns wife's behavior.
Threwaway42 | Threwaway42
A savage yet humorous response to a dismissive wife.
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Validating 'Man Flu' experiences and condemning callous behavior. 👏
j9sky | j9sky
Employee discouraged from taking sick leave, wife dismisses illness. 😑
elemonated | elemonated
Partner's support is crucial in tough times 🙏
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Spouse dismisses husband's illness as 'man flu' 😷, but he needs support 😞
jmc259 | jmc259
Mother's dismissal of child's pain could be dangerous 😱
Bi-Bi-Bi24 | Bi-Bi-Bi24
Wife dismisses husband's illness as 'man flu' and cancels doctor's appointment. NTA.
pottymouthpup | pottymouthpup
Gender bias in illness dismissal. Wife puts husband at risk. 🤔
vkuhr | vkuhr
Don't dismiss symptoms. A kidney infection turned out to be cancer.
Redshirt2386 | Redshirt2386
Neglectful wife dismisses husband's illness as 'man flu' 😷
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Prioritize your health, don't let her excuse her behavior. 🙌
thepoopwitch | thepoopwitch
Assertive response to wife's dismissive behavior. NTA. 👏
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Commenter questions the love in a dismissive marriage. 😔
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When 'man flu' turns out to be serious, who's the a**hole? 💁♂️🤧
Bork_201 | Bork_201
Commenter suggests punishment for dismissive wife. 👍
Deepdishultra | Deepdishultra
Spouse dismisses illness as 'man flu', denies partner's feelings. NTA!
clangeroo | clangeroo
Supportive comment calls out wife's behavior as terrible 😔
Toothfairy07 | Toothfairy07
Dismissal of illness leads to marital distance and apology demand.
the23rdhour | the23rdhour
Don't let anyone dismiss your health, even if it's 'man flu' 😷
MuffinButton23 | MuffinButton23
Dismissive wife almost causes husband lifelong medical issues. 😱
Fitbarbie1 | Fitbarbie1
Don't underestimate a fever, hope you recover soon 😷
whita309 | whita309
Commenter sympathizes with sick man and criticizes wife's sexism.
Yeedere | Yeedere
Commenter calls out wife's bullying and lack of accountability. NTA.
neeksknowsbest | neeksknowsbest
Partner's dismissal of illness leads to serious health consequences. NTA.
arazutas | arazutas
Breaking the 'man flu' stereotype, confusion ensues. 🤔
meowmeow-- | meowmeow--
Partner dismisses illness as 'man flu', NTA for feeling unheard. 💜
rcoz91 | rcoz91
Validating your partner's illness is crucial for a healthy relationship 🙌
MiryahDawn | MiryahDawn
Trust your instincts: a dismissed illness turned out to be cancer. 😱
sunnybuns_01 | sunnybuns_01
Don't let anyone dismiss your health concerns. NTA 🙌
applecinnamonnn | applecinnamonnn
Don't let anyone dismiss your pain. NTA 👏
mysticseaport | mysticseaport
Commenter blames husband for not seeking medical help earlier.
bambiANDe | bambiANDe
Defending the husband against unfair dismissal with NTA.
LadiesPmMeUrArmpit | LadiesPmMeUrArmpit
Empathetic comment supports husband's illness and condemns toxic masculinity.
AntiAira | AntiAira
Shocking! Wife dismisses husband's illness as 'man flu' 😱
Throwaway41790a | Throwaway41790a
Commenter defends NTA verdict and criticizes wife's behavior 🙄
milkbeamgalaxia | milkbeamgalaxia
Staying home is the best choice, even if it's just flu 😷
roachsgirl | roachsgirl
Gaslighting accusations in comment section spark heated debate. 🤬
brujahahahaha | brujahahahaha
Chronic illness dismissed as 'man flu' by unsympathetic spouse 😠
Nocturnal_Loon | Nocturnal_Loon
Spouse prioritizes vacation over sick partner's health. NTA.
vodka_philosophy | vodka_philosophy
