Birthdays are a time for celebration and surprises, but sometimes, even the best-laid plans can go awry. A wife (30F) thought she had found the perfect gift for her husband (32M) after he had been dropping hints about desperately needing a massage. She booked him a 1-hour deep tissue massage with a reputed therapist, excited about her thoughtful gift. But when she revealed the surprise, her husband's reaction left her absolutely fuming and questioning whether she was in the wrong. 😡
Wife Surprises Hubby with Massage for His Birthday, But His Reaction Leaves Her Fuming 😱
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The Massage Gift Debacle: Who's in the Wrong? 🤷♀️
After her husband dropped hints about wanting a massage, a wife booked him a deep tissue massage for his birthday. But when she revealed the surprise, he got angry and accused her of ruining his day. She confronted him, and he admitted he didn't like that she had already booked the appointment, as he needed to be in control of his social interactions. He also said a massage wasn't a big enough gift and wanted something material like a massage gun. She tried to make amends with apology gifts, but he remained upset. Was she in the wrong, or is her husband being ungrateful? Let's see what the internet has to say... 🧐
NTA. Commenters suggest getting a cheap pack of gum for AH husband.
JeepersCreepers74 | JeepersCreepers74
Commenter defends the wife while proposing to her jokingly 😂
badb-crow | badb-crow
Commenter sympathizes but wonders if there's more to the story 🤔
jjswin | jjswin
Partner throws tantrum over thoughtful massage gift, proves unappreciative.
junglequeen88 | junglequeen88
Husband calls wife's birthday surprise a ruin, but who's wrong?
OrendaRuesTheDay | OrendaRuesTheDay
Commenter suggests control issues, replies agree. 😐
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Commenter suggests husband's behavior is childish and offers cautionary advice.
CorgiManDan | CorgiManDan
Surprise massage for husband's birthday backfires due to lack of communication 😳
ReasonableFig2111 | ReasonableFig2111
NTA- Husband forgets birthday gift, wife suggests list, still forgets.
Glad-Translator-3502 | Glad-Translator-3502
Encouraging support for OP to enjoy her birthday massage despite husband's behavior
loloannd | loloannd
Commenter sympathizes with wife and suggests marriage counseling 💔
MalsPrettyBonnet | MalsPrettyBonnet
Understanding the context behind his reaction is important 🤔
painahimah | painahimah
Wife gives hubby a massage for his birthday, but his reaction leaves her fuming 😠
GrammyGH | GrammyGH
Commenter sympathizes with wife's frustration over husband's behavior.
kraken-Lurking | kraken-Lurking
Commenter calls out ungrateful husband, sparks hilarious reply thread 😂
NotHisRealName | NotHisRealName
Surprise gifts cause him stress, it's a control issue. Take note.
EmpressJainaSolo | EmpressJainaSolo
Pro Tip: Give gift certificates for massages, don't schedule them. ESH.
downvotingprofile | downvotingprofile
Is he pushing your limits on purpose? 🤔
panicattherestaurant | panicattherestaurant
Husband's ungrateful reaction to wife's birthday gift 😱
ChiefWolfy | ChiefWolfy
Miscommunication leads to disappointing birthday gift, but hope for resolution 🙂
LordOfFudge | LordOfFudge
Red flags in response to birthday surprise. NTA.
MoonInFleshAndBone | MoonInFleshAndBone
Dealing with a narcissist partner: NTA comment suggests therapy 💆♀️
littlejetgirl | littlejetgirl
Man complains about birthday gift of massage, gets called out.
RanchBaganch | RanchBaganch
OP's partner sets impossible standards, causing sadness and anxiety 😢
megaglalie | megaglalie
A misunderstanding blown out of proportion. NAH/ESH. 😕
apika1i | apika1i
Speculation arises on husband's motive for rejecting wife's massage gift 🤔
NewBromance | NewBromance
Wife's birthday surprise backfires with husband's rude reaction 😱
traumablades | traumablades
When the comment burns more than the article 😂
depotstu | depotstu
When a surprise gift becomes a burden, ESH.
Sea_Giraffe_6351 | Sea_Giraffe_6351
Commenter and reply suggest alternatives to surprise gift for husband.
VoltaicSketchyTeapot | VoltaicSketchyTeapot
Disappointed husband complains about birthday gift, even after getting more. 🤷♀️
Piercedbunny | Piercedbunny
Spouse wants a massage, but throws a fit when gifted. NTA suggests a reminder and some tough love. 💆♂️
AlenJosph521 | AlenJosph521
Surprise massages aren't for everyone 😕 ESH, but he overreacted.
Equal-Comprehensive | Equal-Comprehensive
Birthday gift gone wrong? Commenter defends wife's actions. 😐
coldgator | coldgator
Dealing with a spoiled husband with social anxiety 🙄
willfupayme | willfupayme
Communication is key! ESH for not listening and poor reaction 🙈
Kranesy | Kranesy
Giving a gift that requires an appointment can be tricky 🤔
squirrels33 | squirrels33
Hubby's unexpected reaction to birthday massage leaves wife fuming 😱
SpeedBlitzX | SpeedBlitzX
Dump him! 🚮 NTA deserves better treatment and appreciation.
Aunty-Sociale | Aunty-Sociale
When a massage isn't enough... 🤦♂️
Ekate | Ekate
Commenter sympathizes with wife, calls husband a spoiled baby 😱
StuDentMyCar | StuDentMyCar
Suggesting a massage to calm frustration 😊
ducksthefucks | ducksthefucks
Wife surprises husband with massage, but his reaction disappoints her 😒
SigaVa | SigaVa
Wife's surprise massage gift for husband with social anxiety backfires. YTA.
Dangerous_Beans74 | Dangerous_Beans74
Don't let him manipulate you, dump the a**hole 👎
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Gift-giving turns into belittlement, is hubby on 'roids? 🤔
HoloNailPolish | HoloNailPolish
Insensitive and controlling husband ruins birthday surprise, both at fault. 😒
artlunus | artlunus
Understanding anxiety and expectations can prevent birthday surprises gone wrong 😊
flwvoh | flwvoh
Respect your partner's wishes. ESH for not listening.
solar-bear16 | solar-bear16
Savage NTA comment suggests getting a new husband 😎
miketag8337 | miketag8337
Insensitive husband rejects thoughtful gift, NTA takes a stand 🙌
UniqueCommentNo243 | UniqueCommentNo243
Commenter calls out ungrateful husband, NTA verdict supported.
keight07 | keight07
Hubby hints at birthday massage, gets mad when wife gets pro.
worriwart12 | worriwart12
Relieved commenter supports receiver of birthday massage gift 😊
Mysterious_Appeal_78 | Mysterious_Appeal_78
Commenter suggests husband wanted a happy ending, advises wife to use massage.
AndromedaFire | AndromedaFire
Commenter defends wife's actions and calls out husband's behavior.
snuggle_beast321 | snuggle_beast321
