Man Snaps at Friends for Ruining Engagement Party Vibes 😲

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Picture this: you're excited to celebrate your engagement with your closest friends, but some of them just can't let go of the past. That's the situation one man found himself in when his fiancée, Mel, decided not to invite two of their friends to their intimate engagement party. These friends, Janet and Lily, have been holding a grudge ever since an unfortunate incident involving another friend, Sarah, who tried to confess her feelings to the man years ago. Now, with tensions high and emotions running wild, let's dive into the drama that unfolded. 😬🍿

The Happy Couple 💍

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The Friend Group 🤝

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The Unwanted Confession 😳

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Apologies and Forgiveness 🙏

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Friendship Restored... Mostly 🤷

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The Grudge Holders 😒

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Reliving the Past 🔄

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Engagement Party Decisions 🎉

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Confrontation and Backlash 😠

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Fiancé Snaps 🤬

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Letting Go of the Past ⏳

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Mixed Reactions 🤔

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The Fallout: Friends in Turmoil 😵

So, here we are: an engagement party with two friends left out in the cold, and a fiancé who's had enough of their toxic behavior. The couple is now dealing with the aftermath, as some friends think the man was too harsh, while Mel struggles to find a solution to the ongoing drama. But let's be real, who wants their special day ruined by friends who can't let go of the past? Let's take a look at what the internet has to say about this sticky situation... 🧐

NTA! Commenter suspects Janet and Lily had a fantasy planned out 😂

No-Jellyfish-1208 | No-Jellyfish-1208

NTA. Friends compare Mel to Sarah and insult her. Stand up!

potatosalad1102 | potatosalad1102

Uninvite toxic friends from wedding, celebrate with supportive people instead 💕

ChiquitaBananaKush | ChiquitaBananaKush

NTA. The comment and replies suggest the OP should have put a stop to his friends' behavior a long time ago. 🤔

mm172 | mm172

Friendship drama and toxic people. Time to cut ties? 🤔

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

Commenter calls out OP for not standing up earlier 😱

4500Private | 4500Private

Commenter calls out OP for not addressing harassment earlier 🤔

hey-demons-its-me-ya | hey-demons-its-me-ya

Standing up to toxic friends like a boss 🤘

notdeadyet090 | notdeadyet090

NTA stands up for fiancée against disrespectful 'friends' 🙅‍♂️

Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes

Commenter questions strange behavior of two women at party.

MrsBarneyFife | MrsBarneyFife

Standing up for your partner is never being an a**hole 👍

Pleasant-Tax8290 | Pleasant-Tax8290

Cutting toxic friends out of your life for love 💔

t27lyne | t27lyne

Cutting off toxic friends - NTA comment gets real 🤯

Reasonable_racoon | Reasonable_racoon

Engagement party drama! NTA stands up to troublemakers 😏

ElegantAnt | ElegantAnt

Toxic friends causing trouble? Cut them off for good 🚫

HousingAggressive752 | HousingAggressive752

Stand up for your partner, cut toxic people out ✊

teg234 | teg234

Couple excluded unsupportive friends from engagement party. NTA.

DerNibelungenlied | DerNibelungenlied

OP is called out for not defending their girlfriend. YTA 😕

unaotradesechable | unaotradesechable

Protecting a friend from bullies, NTA 🙌

Damn_Dutchman | Damn_Dutchman

Cutting off toxic friends: NTA's decision receives support 👍

mrstrust | mrstrust

Standing up for your relationship deserves a celebration 🎉

scarletteapot | scarletteapot

Friends ruin engagement party vibes, everyone sucks except Mel.

LoveMacAndCheeze | LoveMacAndCheeze

Commenter is not the a**hole in engagement party drama 👍

Otherwise-Table1935 | Otherwise-Table1935

Friends can't let go of past, but OP is NTA 👍

pnutbuttercups56 | pnutbuttercups56

Friends need to grow up and stop interfering in your life 😒

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Cutting off toxic friends? YTA if you don't.

20eyesinmyhead78 | 20eyesinmyhead78

Mel is NTA for having a no-contact list. Janet and Lily need to apologize.

Pale_Cranberry1502 | Pale_Cranberry1502

Commenter suggests cutting off friends from wedding festivities 😕

Bathroom_cute | Bathroom_cute

Jealous friends try to ruin engagement party, NTA shuts them down 😊

ThatOneChickMeg | ThatOneChickMeg

NTA! The consequences of their actions are their responsibility 💪

Warriormuffinhed | Warriormuffinhed

Setting boundaries and demanding respect from friends 💪

z-eldapin | z-eldapin

A+ fiancée work earns NTA snap approval 👏

HealthyApartment8585 | HealthyApartment8585

NTA comment praises friendship and calls out weird behavior 👍

Casual-Unicorn | Casual-Unicorn

Cutting off toxic friends? 🤔 NTA says it all.

hope1083 | hope1083

Ex-friends can't accept reality, NTA for not inviting them 😊

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Stand up for your partner and cut out toxic friends 👍

sassybsassy | sassybsassy

Toxic friends ruining engagement vibes? NTA for setting boundaries 🙌

Weskit | Weskit

Curious commenter questions age gap in friend group 🤔

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Mel is a saint and Janet and Lily don't deserve her 😎

Littleflamingo_352 | Littleflamingo_352

Standing up to bullies and toxic friends 💪

peppermintabby | peppermintabby

Questioning the guest list 🤔

hellslittleliar | hellslittleliar

Protect your partner. Stand firm against toxic friends. 💪🏻

Maggaggie | Maggaggie

OP is TA for not shutting down toxic behavior 😠

WithIntention111 | WithIntention111

Uninvited friends get put in their place for negativity. 😲

HarriedHedgehog | HarriedHedgehog

Entitled friends causing drama? Don't invite them to anything 😒

MizzyvonMuffling | MizzyvonMuffling

Cut toxic friends off before they escalate 🚫

FifiIsBored | FifiIsBored

NTA commenter advises OP to marry their forgiving fiancée faster and dump their toxic friends.

Gobadorgosleep | Gobadorgosleep

Excluded friends cause drama at engagement party. NTA stands firm.

HogglesPlasticBeads | HogglesPlasticBeads

Taking responsibility for your actions is key 👍

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

Commenter is not the a**hole, but why? 🤔

ljross87 | ljross87

Cut toxic friends out of your life. NTA 👍

cageytalker | cageytalker

Keep your opinions to yourself or pay the consequences 🤷‍♂️

mathwin_verinmathwin | mathwin_verinmathwin

Toxic friends? Consider cutting them off for your relationship's sake 😐

sevenumbrellas | sevenumbrellas

Cut toxic friends from wedding guest list 👍

conniew90 | conniew90

Janet and Lily's bet caused chaos at the engagement party 😱 NTA.

PrisonNurseNC | PrisonNurseNC

Cut toxic friends out of your life 👍

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Not the a**hole - but why? Tell us more! 🤔

Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612

Standing up for your relationship is important. NTA 👏

ineedcawfee | ineedcawfee

Defending your partner 👭‍🎓 can cause drama 😐, but true friends support you 👍

ShadowcatMD | ShadowcatMD

Sometimes cutting toxic friends out is necessary 👍

Adventurous-Weird-61 | Adventurous-Weird-61

Support for not inviting friends to wedding after engagement party drama 👏

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Commenter not at fault for engagement party drama 👏

qhi0890 | qhi0890

Toxic friends ruining your happiness? Cut them off 💪

herecosimabored | herecosimabored

Cutting out toxic friends for a happy wedding day 👏

mayantemple24 | mayantemple24

NTA stands firm against toxic friends at engagement party 🙌

hfc1075 | hfc1075

Commenter defends OP's reaction to disrespectful friends at party. 👍

kyshorty77 | kyshorty77

Commenter suggests uninviting creepy wedding guests obsessed with shipping.

Star_Phoenix777 | Star_Phoenix777

Protective parent shuts down neighbor's derogatory comment 💪

shannamarie91 | shannamarie91

Friends cross the line, bride-to-be deserves a stress-free party 🙏

Hungry_Pup | Hungry_Pup

Standing up for your partner, even with toxic friends 👊

tenesmicdemon | tenesmicdemon

Standing up for love ❤️. OP is NTA for setting boundaries.

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

Toxic friends? Drop them like a bad habit 👍

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Cutting toxic friends loose: NTA's solution for engagement party vibes 🙌

Hai_Hai_Hai_Hai_Hai | Hai_Hai_Hai_Hai_Hai

NTA tells friends to let it go 🎁

Magical-Lesbian | Magical-Lesbian

Letting go of toxic friends is tough, but necessary 👍

loudesttown | loudesttown

Supporting NTA's decision to cut off toxic friends 👍

Whenitrainsitpours86 | Whenitrainsitpours86

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