Man Refuses to Meet Bio-Family: Heartless or Justified? 😲

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Diply | Diply

Imagine growing up in foster homes, overcoming the odds, and building a happy life for yourself. Then, out of the blue, your biological family comes knocking, wanting to be a part of your life. This 25-year-old man faced that exact situation, and his response was a simple 'No thanks.' But his biological family didn't take it well, and now he's left wondering if he's in the wrong. 🤔 Let's dive into this intriguing story.

The Unexpected Message 📩

girdonramslice | girdonramslice

Introducing the 'Siblings' 👩‍👩‍👦

girdonramslice | girdonramslice

A Simple Response: 'No Thanks' 🚫

girdonramslice | girdonramslice

The 'Siblings' Strike Back ⚡

girdonramslice | girdonramslice

Blocking and More Blocking 🚧

girdonramslice | girdonramslice

A Life Disrupted: Was He Right to Say No? 🤷

This 25-year-old man's life was disrupted when his biological family reached out, wanting to reconnect. After sending a simple 'No thanks' and asking not to be contacted, he found himself bombarded with messages from his so-called 'siblings' and their friends. He's now left questioning if he's the bad guy in this situation. What do you think? Let's see what the internet has to say about this emotional rollercoaster. 🎢

NTA. Your life, your decision. They gave up all rights.

skahunter831 | skahunter831

Standing up to manipulative bio-family. NTA 👍

JeffBorkley | JeffBorkley

Adopted man refuses to meet bio-family, justified. 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Family guilt-tripping? Definitely NTA 😎

gmb99 | gmb99

Birth parents feel guilty, but OP is NTA for refusing.

MethinksThatIsAPeach | MethinksThatIsAPeach

Boundaries set. Family's past actions justify no contact. 🙌

KeepImpressed | KeepImpressed

Adoptive parents can lose custody like bio parents. NTA for questioning.

loudent2 | loudent2

Setting boundaries and staying strong. 💪

H3k8t3 | H3k8t3

NTA's decision respected, bio-family being unreasonable and disrespectful 😒

Maple_Brit | Maple_Brit

NAH for not wanting to meet bio-family, but kindness is appreciated 🙏

InfinMD | InfinMD

Adopted person finds bio-family, but they don't want a relationship. NTA.

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

Bio-family demands ignored: NTA stands up for themselves 💪

[deleted] | [deleted]

Donor match or not, refusing to meet family seems harsh 🤷‍♂️

agmauro | agmauro

Self-care first: NTA chooses not to meet bio-family 👏

SashaAvacado | SashaAvacado

A cynical comment with no replies. 🤔

Mary_Misanthrope | Mary_Misanthrope

Adoptee shares experience waiting to meet bio family. Personal choice.

Enuff2020 | Enuff2020

Cutting off bio-family: justified or heartless? NTA explains.

Princess__of__cute | Princess__of__cute

NTA. Commenter and reply agree that bio-family is pushy.

DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks

Adopted person defends their decision to not meet bio-family. 😍

singer96 | singer96

Adopted person refuses to meet bio-family, shares experience and supports OP.

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SwedishMemer86 | SwedishMemer86

No obligation to meet bio-family. NTA. 👍

NonConformistFlmingo | NonConformistFlmingo

Boundaries respected: NTA for refusing contact with bio-family. 🙌

BroadElderberry | BroadElderberry

NTA refuses to meet bio-family, shady tactics suspected 🤔

whitewer | whitewer

Setting boundaries is important, NTA. 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Respectful choice: Man declines meeting bio-family. NTA.

kirudeki25 | kirudeki25

Saying no to family? 🤷‍♂️ NTA explains why it's justified.

fruitbat1994 | fruitbat1994

Don't burn bridges with bio-family, but NTA for not meeting. 😊

StrangeJournalist7 | StrangeJournalist7

Choosing not to meet bio-family: justified or heartless? 🤔

pablo5280 | pablo5280

Family reunion? Not obligated. NTA says it all. 😎

[deleted] | [deleted]

Family harassment? NTA for refusing to meet bio-family 😊

usmcbamagirl1026 | usmcbamagirl1026

NTA. Adoption advice: reach out to agency, keep records. 👍

naranghim | naranghim

Choosing family or not? NTA stands by their decision. 🙏

EveningJellyfish1 | EveningJellyfish1

No obligation to meet bio-family, but medical history important 🚨

UltraCuteOfDeath | UltraCuteOfDeath

Meeting bio-family not a priority, NTA. 🙌

bluep3001 | bluep3001

Family reunion gone wrong? NTA refuses to meet bio-family 😲

shades-of-gray312 | shades-of-gray312

Family pressure? Ask for money and they'll back off. 💵

blackday44 | blackday44

Boundaries are important. NTA for setting them. 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't let them bring you down. NTA. 👏

Reasonable_racoon | Reasonable_racoon

Handled well! 👍

MillenialSage | MillenialSage

Bio-family from 25 years ago wants to meet, NTA for refusing. Consider medical info though 🚡

SeriousMonkey2019 | SeriousMonkey2019

Rejecting bio-family's request: NTA or heartless? 🤷‍♂️

miasabine | miasabine

Protect your mental health, you owe them nothing. 🙏

IncognigaMontoya | IncognigaMontoya

Bio-family reached out, OP declined. NTA. 👍

kivessa | kivessa

Similar situation: NTA for being honest with bio-family.

hotdog_coolcat | hotdog_coolcat

A plea for help: Can someone donate a kidney?

Piscesgurl13 | Piscesgurl13

Not the a**hole! Let's hear more from this commenter.

justlookingrn2 | justlookingrn2

Respect boundaries: NTA for not wanting to meet bio-family 🙌

Maestro_Primus | Maestro_Primus

Setting boundaries: When 'no' means 'no' 👍

Low-Bank-4898 | Low-Bank-4898

Bio-parents have no right to pressure you. NTA 👍

holisarcasm | holisarcasm

Commenter not at fault, but where's the backstory? 🤔

NakedAndAfraidFan | NakedAndAfraidFan

Adoptee chooses not to meet bio-family, justified decision. 🙌

293756356365839 | 293756356365839

Choosing not to meet bio-family: Self-care or selfishness? 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Consent is key. No explanation necessary. NTA 👍

Electrical-Ad-1798 | Electrical-Ad-1798

Choosing family is about love, not DNA. 💜

DanceFiendStrapS | DanceFiendStrapS

Blocking bio-family on social media: NTA, it's harassment 😠

ilikefluffypuppies | ilikefluffypuppies

Don't let guilt-tripping family dictate your happiness. NTA 👏

Mary_Misanthrope | Mary_Misanthrope

Commenter questions motives behind family reunion, calls out entitlement.

jmn242 | jmn242

Protect your privacy on social media with verified friends only 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Adopted person sets boundaries with bio-family. NTA 👏

ahabentis | ahabentis

Cutting ties with bio-family: NTA, start fresh, legal action?

[deleted] | [deleted]

Family wants to meet after years of no contact, but NTA refuses. Boundaries or heartless?

northernutlenning | northernutlenning

OP is skeptical of bio-family's intentions, NTA.

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Family harasses man to meet, he's NTA for refusing 👍

Dana07620 | Dana07620

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