Sister on the Brink: Brother & Pregnant GF Take Advantage 😱🤰

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Diply | Diply

We've all heard of family members helping each other out in times of need, but what happens when that generosity is taken advantage of? One woman (29F) is struggling with this dilemma after housing her brother (23M) and his girlfriend (21F) for eight months. The couple moved in when they were both unemployed and facing disapproval from their parents. The sister thought it would be a temporary arrangement, but now she's left to work, cook, and clean for them while they show no signs of improvement. To make matters worse, the girlfriend is now pregnant, and they expect the sister to provide for their growing family! 😱🤰

Housing Brother and GF 🏠

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Expecting Temporary Refuge 🕰️

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Working, Cooking, and Cleaning 🍳

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Spending Money Recklessly 💸

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Messy and Irresponsible 🗑️

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Eating Her Food 🍽️

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Pregnancy Bombshell 🤰

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Expecting More Support 🍼

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Confrontation and Accusations 😡

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Struggling with Expenses 💰

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Considering Eviction 🚪

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Not Heartless, but... 💔

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Hoping for Change 🙏

throwawayjezabel54 | throwawayjezabel54

Pushed to the Limit: Sister's Generosity Tested 🚧

This woman's patience is wearing thin as she continues to house her brother and his pregnant girlfriend. Despite her efforts to encourage them to find jobs and take responsibility, they remain unemployed and expect her to provide for their growing family. The situation has escalated to the point where she's considering kicking her brother out, hoping it will force him to finally step up. While she understands the potential consequences of her actions, she's left wondering if she's being too harsh or if it's time to put her foot down. 💔🤔

Stop enabling their behavior, give them a deadline to find jobs 👏

FlyGuy1922 | FlyGuy1922

Time to kick them out! 🚪 You don't want to be their mommy forever. 💁

silent_ehk | silent_ehk

Set boundaries and give them a deadline to vacate 👍

iceysteps | iceysteps

Stop enabling them! You're not doing them any favors. YTA.

All-I-See-Is-Ashes | All-I-See-Is-Ashes

Don't light yourself on fire to keep others warm. 🔥

HIOP-Sartre | HIOP-Sartre

Set an ultimatum: Get a job or find elsewhere to stay 💼

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NTA comment advises kicking out brother and girlfriend with ultimatum.

Plus-Call7280 | Plus-Call7280

Trick-Panda-7509 | Trick-Panda-7509

Don't be a pushover, stand up for yourself! 💪

pamelaonthego | pamelaonthego

Pregnant GF and brother taking advantage 😱 NTA takes action ❤️

Cr1v3ns | Cr1v3ns

Don't let them take advantage of you. Kick them out! 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Protect your boundaries and kick them out ASAP! 🚨

Winter-Travel5749 | Winter-Travel5749

NTA. Advise to talk to a lawyer and evict them formally. Why give an allowance to two adults who don't contribute?

cassowary32 | cassowary32

Enabling family taking advantage of pregnant GF, seek legal advice 😱

kill4kandy | kill4kandy

Commenter calls out enabling behavior of brother and pregnant GF.

Thisguy3738 | Thisguy3738

NTA. Tough love is necessary for them to grow up 👍

latristess | latristess

Give brother one month to find job, then they must leave 👍

TabithaBe | TabithaBe

Kindness taken for granted, time to let them go 🤚👋

oldspicehorse | oldspicehorse

Enabling takers and users? YTA needs to evict them ASAP! 😱

[deleted] | [deleted]

Take control of your life, kick them out and move on! 💪

KingOfDarkness_CB | KingOfDarkness_CB

Giving a hard deadline to your brother and pregnant girlfriend? YWNBTA 😊

Mandalika | Mandalika

Business_Night_5599 | Business_Night_5599

Don't be too trusting, they might claim squatters rights 😱

Consistent-Job6841 | Consistent-Job6841

Don't be a doormat! Kick them out and prioritize yourself. 💪

Jazzlike-Village9159 | Jazzlike-Village9159

Srumlicious | Srumlicious

Don't be the a**hole, stop the leeches 🦐

erosbabyy | erosbabyy

Take a break and put yourself first. YTA to yourself. 🙌

ForeignAssociation98 | ForeignAssociation98

Don't be a doormat! Stand up for yourself! 💪

JakeMeOffPlease | JakeMeOffPlease

User calls out brother and pregnant girlfriend for taking advantage 😱

ArmNo8807 | ArmNo8807

Setting boundaries with family on financial support for baby 👶

kriswiet | kriswiet

Brother and pregnant GF taking advantage, time to kick them out! 😱

FlexibleMorality1 | FlexibleMorality1

Enabling a toxic living situation is ESH 🤷‍♀️

BetterDayz13 | BetterDayz13

You're not the a**hole for setting boundaries in your home 👍

No-Beginning-4400 | No-Beginning-4400

Stop enabling them, NTA. Let them find work 👏

Deathconciousness_ | Deathconciousness_

NTA, kick them out! 💪👊

uptownbrowngirl | uptownbrowngirl

Generous sister helps pregnant sister, but brother needs a kick. NTA 👏

skyblue7801 | skyblue7801

Enabling entitled siblings or forcing responsibility? Baby trapped? 🤔

useragreement13 | useragreement13

Brother and pregnant GF taking advantage of NTA sister 😱

ConfettiXPetti | ConfettiXPetti

Encouraging comment on setting boundaries with mooching family members 👍

JenWello | JenWello

Commenter is not at fault, phew! 🙌

Rockycoffeewench | Rockycoffeewench

Set boundaries and give ultimatum for mooching brother and GF 🙌

shaikhalizayn | shaikhalizayn

NTA. Tough love is necessary. Cut them off and kick them out.

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA for wanting to kick them out but soft YTA for taking them in in the first place. Give them a warning before evicting them. It's not your responsibility. 🚩

OverallFennel2634 | OverallFennel2634

Set boundaries and stand your ground. Don't budge! 💪

Psychological_Ad3329 | Psychological_Ad3329

Stand up for yourself and kick them out! 💪🏼

lionbridges | lionbridges

Take back control of your home and life! 💪🏻

Kashaya72 | Kashaya72

NTA commenter suggests kicking out pregnant GF for brother's behavior.

Own_Pop_9711 | Own_Pop_9711

Set a hard deadline for them to leave. Don't give in 💪

Rose212327 | Rose212327

Brother and pregnant GF taking advantage of sister's kindness 😱. Kick them out!

fisherflat880 | fisherflat880

Recognizing the signs of an enabler. NTA.

RealisticWin3801 | RealisticWin3801

Time to tough love them out. NTA for setting boundaries.

floatingvan | floatingvan

NTA. Kick them out and give them money for a hotel 💰

[deleted] | [deleted]

Take legal action and don't tolerate their behavior. Good luck! 👍

mh6797 | mh6797

Sweet_pea_girl | Sweet_pea_girl

Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm 🔥. NTA, kick them out now before it's too late.

Flowerofiron | Flowerofiron

KimmyStand | KimmyStand

Set boundaries and kick them out before it's too late 🚨

dianaprince2022 | dianaprince2022

Set boundaries and kick them out now. It's tough but necessary 🙌

jhyebert | jhyebert

Stand up for yourself! Kick those leeches out 💪

RegretOk194 | RegretOk194

Evict them now for their own good. You got this sis! 👏

Admirable_Tie_303 | Admirable_Tie_303

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is NTA 👏

thegloracle | thegloracle

Protect yourself and your future. Kick them out now! 😱

watermelonsplenda | watermelonsplenda

Take action and evict them. Don't enable their behavior! 💪

Greyeyedqueen7 | Greyeyedqueen7

Standing up to family for financial responsibility 💪

mstrss9 | mstrss9

Set boundaries and stick to them. Don't enable their behavior. 💪

LunaMoonvox | LunaMoonvox

Commenter advises OP to evict brother and girlfriend. 😱

littlemushroom11 | littlemushroom11

Stand your ground! NTA. Kick them out 💪

jumbledgarbagebrain | jumbledgarbagebrain

Helpful commenter advises setting a deadline for brother and GF.

boxedfoxes | boxedfoxes

Setting boundaries with family can be tough, but necessary. 💪

Indigo_3786 | Indigo_3786

Commenter advises cutting off brother and pregnant GF for taking advantage

WebbityWebbs | WebbityWebbs

Eviction notice! 🚨 Don't enable them anymore. NTA!

neworderfan | neworderfan

Set boundaries with mooching brother and pregnant girlfriend. #NTA 🙌

Pyro_ManiacX | Pyro_ManiacX

Take control of the situation, set boundaries and enforce them. 💪

EconomyVoice7358 | EconomyVoice7358

Set boundaries and kick them out. NTA 🚪👋

popcornnpickles | popcornnpickles

Don't let parasites take advantage of your kindness. 🙏

Boring-Foundation953 | Boring-Foundation953

Commenter advises OP to kick out brother and pregnant GF 🙌

Secret-9594 | Secret-9594

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