Imagine being stuck in a situation where you have to choose between your daughter and your grieving girlfriend. That’s precisely the predicament this man found himself in. His girlfriend just lost her grandfather to COVID-19, and she’s devastated. Meanwhile, his daughter is expecting to spend time with her dad. With both parties needing his support, he’s left wondering how to navigate this emotional minefield.
The Regular Schedule
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Tragic News
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A Heartfelt Request
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The Girlfriend’s Struggle
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Ex’s Plans
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The Daughter’s Schedule
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Caught in the Middle
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The Girlfriend’s Relationship with Daughter
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Autism and Grief
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A Strong Bond ❤️
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The Girlfriend’s Unawareness
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A Sudden Loss
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Ex’s Change of Heart
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Daughter’s Understanding
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A Week with Dad
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Comfort and Love
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A Heartwarming Resolution?
Faced with an impossible choice, this dad managed to find a solution that worked for everyone. His ex agreed to keep their daughter for two extra nights, and he was able to be there for his grieving girlfriend. In the end, he’ll get a whole week with his daughter, making up for lost time. It’s a beautiful reminder that sometimes, love and understanding can help us navigate even the most challenging situations.
NTA vs NAH: A debate on whether girlfriend or child comes first

Navigating grief and parental responsibilities, a tough situation.

Navigating grief and parenting: balancing obligations and emotions

Grieving girlfriend requests alone time with OP, commenters debate AH status.

Navigating a tough situation with grace and empathy

Commenter opts out of taking sides in the dilemma.

Balancing girlfriend’s emotional needs and daughter’s custody arrangement.
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Navigating priorities: daughter’s routine vs girlfriend’s need for support

A grieving girlfriend and a loving father find a compromise ♥

Navigating grief and co-parenting: advice for a delicate situation.

Prioritizing your child is not wrong. Navigating grief is hard.

Father torn between girlfriend and daughter, relationship package deal

Navigating grief and family: a delicate balancing act

Supportive comment defends grieving girlfriend amidst judgment.

Grieving girlfriend can’t handle man’s loud daughter during lockdown. NTA.

Navigating a tough situation with empathy and creativity.

Navigating a tough situation with empathy and compromise
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Prioritizing a toddler vs. a grieving girlfriend ♂️

Choosing between grieving girlfriend and daughter’s needs. Delicate balance.

Grieving girlfriend struggles to accept OP’s daughter, but NAH.

Prioritizing your child is NTA, compromise with girlfriend after bedtime

Grieving girlfriend must understand daughter is not an inconvenience. NAH

Choosing between daughter and girlfriend: a tough responsibility

Choosing between grieving girlfriend and daughter, NAH, send flowers

Choosing between daughter and grieving girlfriend: NTA prioritizes daughter

Divided between daughter and girlfriend, NTA for a tough decision

Balancing responsibilities: How to support grieving girlfriend from afar

Finding a babysitter is tough during covid, NAH here.

Ex-girlfriend criticized for not cancelling plans with own partner.

Prioritizing daughter and girlfriend’s grief: Finding balance

Navigating difficult family dynamics with empathy and compromise.

Navigating a tough situation with grace and understanding

Respectful commenter prioritizes husband’s daughter over birthday plans.

Woman with autism shares how losing a loved one to COVID-19 can trigger depression. Recommends talking to girlfriend and choosing both daughter and girlfriend for support.

Suggest creative ways to be there for grieving girlfriend

Comment section gets straight to the point

Choosing daughter over grieving girlfriend: NTA, but show empathy

Navigating priorities: balancing grief and family obligations.

Supportive comment reminds OP that grief has no timeline

Father forced to choose between daughter and girlfriend.
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Parenting comes first , girlfriend needs to be supportive

Prioritizing kids over grieving girlfriend. NTA wins sympathy.

Choosing between daughter and grieving girlfriend, NTA suggests showing love

Putting your child first is always the right choice.

Navigating complex relationships with empathy and understanding.

Putting your child first: A tough choice for any parent

Prioritizing daughter over girlfriend – NTA. Suggests compromise with girlfriend.

A considerate suggestion for a delicate situation

Putting your child first doesn’t make you an a**hole.

Compassionate comment offers support in tough situation

Suggests finding a middle ground to support both daughter and girlfriend

Navigating tough family dynamics with empathy and understanding

Prioritizing parenting over girlfriend’s grief, but still showing love

Prioritizing daughter over grieving girlfriend. NTA.

Navigating a tough situation with empathy and compromise.


Prioritizing daughter and girlfriend, but NAH, offer flowers and support
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Grieving girlfriend or daughter’s dinner? NAH suggests prioritizing girlfriend.

Putting your child first is always the right choice

Prioritizing family: A tough but necessary decision

Choosing between daughter and grieving girlfriend: NAH suggests prioritizing daughter.

Choosing between grieving girlfriend and daughter, NTA prioritizing daughter
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