Man Ditches Girlfriend at Pumpkin Patch 🎃: Right or Wrong?

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Ever felt like the odd one out at a social gathering? One man found himself in that very situation when he attended a pumpkin patch outing with his girlfriend and her friends. Expecting a couples' event, he was surprised to be the only guy there. Things took a turn for the worse when he felt ignored and excluded by the group. Frustrated, he decided to leave his girlfriend 'stranded' and head back to town. But was his decision justified, or did he overreact? Let's dive into the story. 🎃🍂

Pumpkin Patch Surprise 🎃

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Feeling Ignored 😕

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Frozen Out ❄️

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Corn Maze Dilemma 🌽

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Unwanted Company 😒

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Splitting Up in the Maze 🌀

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Time to Leave 🏃‍♂️

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The Five-Minute Warning ⏰

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Late Response 📱

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Ride Request 🚗

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Uber Solution 🚖

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Staying the Night 🌙

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Angry Texts 😡

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His Side of the Story 📖

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Upset and Frustrated 😤

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Caught in a Maze of Misunderstandings 🌽🌀

Our protagonist found himself feeling excluded and ignored during a pumpkin patch outing with his girlfriend and her friends. After attempting to spend time with his girlfriend, he decided to leave her 'stranded' and head back to town. Despite sending her a warning text, she didn't notice until much later, and he was bombarded with angry messages from her and her friends. Now, he's left questioning whether he was in the wrong or if his actions were justified. Let's see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation... 🕸️

NTA for leaving girlfriend at pumpkin patch after being used.

icingonthecake171 | icingonthecake171

NTA for leaving girlfriend at pumpkin patch after being ignored.

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KaldarTheBrave | KaldarTheBrave

Debate over what constitutes a healthy relationship and cutesy dates 😳

BenevelotCeasar | BenevelotCeasar

NTA. Girlfriend was inconsiderate and disrespectful. Time for a breakup 💔

Emparawr | Emparawr

22-year-old girlfriend not mature enough to admit fault. 🤷‍♂️

Specialist-Tap9880 | Specialist-Tap9880

FeminineImperative | FeminineImperative

ESH, but OP's condescending attitude towards girlfriend is problematic 😕

kidwrangl3r | kidwrangl3r

Man ditches girlfriend at pumpkin patch, gets support from commenters.

islasdiary | islasdiary

Age gap causes girlfriend to act immaturely 👫. NTA for leaving.

albatross6232 | albatross6232

ESH: OP and girlfriend seem incompatible and immature 🤷‍♂️

Amazing_Cranberry344 | Amazing_Cranberry344

Dumped at the pumpkin patch 🎃, NTA strikes back.

Anterabae | Anterabae

Don't let anyone bring you down for being mature 😎

SmartFX2001 | SmartFX2001

Questioning the relationship: NTA comment and reply.

GalileaGalilie | GalileaGalilie

Communication is key 📢 but was he wrong to leave without confirmation?

CoronalHorizon | CoronalHorizon

Ignoring someone and expecting them to wait is not okay 🙅

inspectaheavy | inspectaheavy

ESH for poor communication and treatment on supposed date 🎃

HowFunkyIsYourChiken | HowFunkyIsYourChiken

Not the a**hole for leaving a girl who used you 🙅️

SuperHuckleberry125 | SuperHuckleberry125

Don't be surprised if she freezes you out too 😞

LordAdversarius | LordAdversarius

NTA. Communicate your feelings and set boundaries with your girlfriend.

Hoplite68 | Hoplite68

Dick move or not, ignoring is not okay either 😑

zer0_sky | zer0_sky

Communication is key! Both parties could have handled better 👍

slizcatt0741 | slizcatt0741

NTA at 22, entitled behavior is unacceptable 🙅‍♀️

Ecstatic-Smoke-1937 | Ecstatic-Smoke-1937

Actions speak louder than words. NTA for standing up.

Synn0289 | Synn0289

Commenter calls out immaturity in ESH situation 😑

Cent1234 | Cent1234

NTA ditches GF at pumpkin patch, but relationship is now dead 💀

Bored-Viking | Bored-Viking

Commenter tried to engage friends in conversation but got ignored 😢

wetsai | wetsai

Age is just a number, or is it? 🤔

kablamitsethan | kablamitsethan

Car > Boyfriend? NTA thinks so 😎

yhaensch | yhaensch

Dumping at pumpkin patch: justified or not? 🎃

Kiplan143 | Kiplan143

Red flags galore: age gap, possessiveness, and gaslighting accusations 👎

schwimtown | schwimtown

Married commenter advises to separate from toxic partner 👍

No-Ambition5170 | No-Ambition5170

Breaking up at the pumpkin patch 🎃. NTA, but ultimatums never work.


NTA, you were told it was a couples thing. She ignored you.

Ammo_thyella | Ammo_thyella

Possessive behavior leads to YTA judgment 🤨

ScepticalBee | ScepticalBee

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Girlfriend invited him to drive and ditched him. NTA. 🙅

Status-Pattern7539 | Status-Pattern7539

Is it okay to involve yourself in your friend's relationship?

MRSobviously | MRSobviously

Age matters in relationships, especially when it comes to entitlement 🙅

lilmsbalindabuffant | lilmsbalindabuffant

Math error in age difference sparks debate

GalileaGalilie | GalileaGalilie

When pumpkin patches turn sour 🎃 ESH

NellyGrows | NellyGrows

Ditching your girlfriend at a pumpkin patch? ESH.

svenson_26 | svenson_26

Commenter defends OP and calls out girlfriend's friends' behavior.

cinekat | cinekat

YTA for how you handled leaving. Have a mature conversation.

PorcupineTattoo | PorcupineTattoo

Everyone sucks here at the pumpkin patch 🎃

is_Raen | is_Raen

Communication is key! ESH for not talking things out 💬

Stardate8675903 | Stardate8675903

An ESH situation where the girlfriend was shitty and the guy was impatient 🤷‍♂️

steam116 | steam116

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