Woman's Shocking Reaction to SIL's Miscarriage 😲

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Diply | Diply

Miscarriages can be a sensitive topic, and everyone handles them differently. But when one woman found herself in an awkward situation with her sister-in-law, things took a dramatic turn. 😬 Our protagonist had a miscarriage last month but wasn't too upset about it, as she already has three kids and didn't even know she was pregnant. However, her SIL, who had a traumatic miscarriage experience a few years ago, couldn't accept this and kept pushing her to talk about it. 🙄

SIL's Traumatic Miscarriage

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Our Protagonist's Miscarriage

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Holiday Gathering Drama

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Unwanted Support Group

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Standing Her Ground

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The Truth Comes Out

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SIL's Angry Reaction

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Family Sides with Protagonist

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BIL's Ultimatum

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To Apologize or Not?

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Clarification on SIL's Experience

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SIL's Current Family

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Time Since SIL's Miscarriage

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SIL's Bitter Comment

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Family Torn Apart Over Miscarriage Reaction 😔

So, our protagonist's miscarriage experience wasn't as traumatic as her SIL's, and she tried to make it clear that she didn't need any support. But her SIL couldn't accept this and got angry, accusing her of dismissing other people's pain. 😡 Now, the family is divided, with some insisting she should apologize to keep the peace. But our protagonist doesn't want to apologize for how she feels about her own experience. 🤷 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NTA. Commenters agree sister-in-law owes an apology for projecting trauma.

Maskydoo | Maskydoo

NTA for not being upset about a surprise pregnancy loss 🙏

Thalymor | Thalymor

SIL's intrusive behavior causes family to enable poor behavior. NTA 👍

type1error | type1error

NTA for not feeling as upset about SIL's miscarriage. Emotions differ 😕

SaMaCap919 | SaMaCap919

NTA. Commenter empathizes with OP and suggests SIL needs counseling.

heishancell | heishancell

Don't apologize for standing up to emotional manipulation 👏

NyotaHikaru | NyotaHikaru

NTA commenter explains how SIL mishandled conversation about miscarriage 😕

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Insensitive SIL belittles adoption, dismisses OP's parental status 😒

notaverage256 | notaverage256

NTA. SIL's behavior towards adopted kids is unacceptable 😒

fancyandfab | fancyandfab

Honesty isn't always easy, but it's still the best policy 🙌

aadvarkbunnycat | aadvarkbunnycat

Standing up for oneself in the face of unjust blame 💪

mcmurrml | mcmurrml

Respectful NTA response to SIL's miscarriage and family drama 🙏

Cheap_Rick | Cheap_Rick

Valid emotions, not your fault. She made your loss about her. #NTA

Parking_Initial4551 | Parking_Initial4551

Respectful NTA stands up for her grieving process 🙏

Aggressive-Scale1157 | Aggressive-Scale1157

Grieving SIL crosses a boundary by attacking OP's kids. AH confirmed.

DevineMzEmms | DevineMzEmms

Supportive comment on SIL's miscarriage, but pushy behavior not okay 😕

Nervous_Zone_8138 | Nervous_Zone_8138

Supporting personal choice and boundaries in the face of tragedy 🙏

Missed897 | Missed897

Pushy SIL gets put in her place. NTA wins.

justbcoz848484 | justbcoz848484

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for standing up for yourself 👏

1976Raven | 1976Raven

Setting boundaries with SIL after miscarriage, NTA 👍

mtb1005 | mtb1005

Compassionate comment defends against insensitive behavior 👏

Terrible_Order2020 | Terrible_Order2020

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for saying no. 👍

Phinfoxy | Phinfoxy

Pushy SIL tries to force grief on grieving woman 😕

OfficialEthxn | OfficialEthxn

Family drama: BIL demands apology from SIL's in-law. 🤷

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Validating SIL's feelings doesn't mean you're wrong. 🙌

MalsPrettyBonnet | MalsPrettyBonnet

Respectful handling of a sensitive topic. Mutual empathy is key.

closetsnarker | closetsnarker

Supportive response to a disrespectful SIL. NTA 👏

MurasakiYugata | MurasakiYugata

Don't apologize for your reaction, but reach out with empathy 🙏

emmer00 | emmer00

Compassionate response to SIL's miscarriage trauma 😢

uncertain69_420 | uncertain69_420

Stand your ground! You're not the a**hole 💪

ItzSoso | ItzSoso

Supportive comment on SIL's miscarriage and advice on standing up for oneself.

LadyBloo | LadyBloo

Setting boundaries with insensitive SIL after miscarriage 🙏

Zel_lost_it | Zel_lost_it

SIL's miscarriage and projection: NTA or NAH?

sintaxer | sintaxer

Politeness isn't a reason to apologize. NTA 😊

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Encouraging response to a delicate situation. 🙏

countrybumpkin1969 | countrybumpkin1969

Supporting SIL without compromising your own grief and mental health 👍

spaceyjaycey | spaceyjaycey

Navigating fertility issues can be tough. NTA for setting boundaries 🙌

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Supporting NTA's response to SIL's insensitive behavior 👏

TinySwordfish5 | TinySwordfish5

SIL shares miscarriage, OP not sympathetic. NTA or ESH?

bamf1701 | bamf1701

Validating one's feelings without pushing them on others 👍

throwawayyy9867_ | throwawayyy9867_

Empathy is key. Understanding different coping mechanisms is important. 💚

CissiE_33 | CissiE_33

Standing up for oneself: NTA only after SIL pushed you 👏

LollipopThrowAway- | LollipopThrowAway-

SIL projected her own feelings onto OP, who is NTA 👍

RoadRagePaige | RoadRagePaige

Setting boundaries with empathy. NTA 👍

CrGrl | CrGrl

Respectful handling of differing grief processes. NTA 👏

voluntold9276 | voluntold9276

Navigating family dynamics during a difficult time ❤

definitely_zella | definitely_zella

Different reactions to miscarriage are valid. NTA for setting boundaries 👍

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Supportive commenter calls out SIL's inappropriate behavior. 👏

Careerjunkie21 | Careerjunkie21

SIL upset after pestering OP about sensitive topic. NTA reaction.

lisadazeyo | lisadazeyo

Navigating grief after miscarriage with SIL's support, NTA.

AccessibleBeige | AccessibleBeige

Set boundaries and prioritize your own mental health. 👍

CopsaLau | CopsaLau

Stand your ground! Don't apologize to her 💪

weddingcurmudgeon69 | weddingcurmudgeon69

Empathetic response shuts down invalidation of pregnancy and miscarriage.

SamiHami24 | SamiHami24

Commenter suggests apologizing to SIL for peace, but not after questioning legitimacy of living children. NTA 👍🏻

TheBaddestPatsy | TheBaddestPatsy

NTA suggests therapy for SIL's behavior, no need for apology 🙌

blablamcbla | blablamcbla

Not required to grieve? NTA comment sparks debate 🤔

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

NTA, commenter empathizes with SIL's loss but defends her own experience.

louisen-s | louisen-s

Adopted kids? NTA. Curious if she said it out of anger.

TyronePackin | TyronePackin

Pushy and inappropriate behavior, NTA owes apology to you 🙅

hecknono | hecknono

Don't apologize for speaking up. NTA 👏

ExcitingToe | ExcitingToe

Respectful NTA stands up for their grieving process and boundaries 🙌

JaniFanny | JaniFanny

Don't apologize for her insanities. NTA 😎

psyk2u | psyk2u

Don't apologize, you did nothing wrong. People react differently 😐

Dutch-CatLady | Dutch-CatLady

Insensitive sister brings up adoption, owes apology. 🤷

ScreamInHeart | ScreamInHeart

Don't apologize. You're NTA. She needs therapy 😕

FlyingMacheteMonster | FlyingMacheteMonster

Adopted kids are real kids. SIL's reaction is unacceptable 😠

1jugofwine | 1jugofwine

Validating NTA's feelings and calling out SIL's behavior 😲

Flat_Jackfruit_9359 | Flat_Jackfruit_9359

Support group not helping, NTA for not letting her project.

BeTheCheeto | BeTheCheeto

Stand your ground and demand an apology from her 💪

maali74 | maali74

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