Man Faces Dilemma: Wife's Labor or Grandfather's Funeral? 😱

Diply Social Team
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Imagine being faced with an impossible choice: be there for your wife as she gives birth to your first child, or attend your beloved 92-year-old grandfather's funeral. This is the heart-wrenching dilemma one man has found himself in, and he's desperately seeking advice. His wife is close to giving birth, but his grandfather, who played a huge role in his upbringing, is on his deathbed. What's a man to do? 🥺

The Heartbreaking Situation 💔

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Grandfather's Health Declines 🕰️

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Wife's Priorities 🤰

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Due Date and Plans 📅

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Zoom Funeral and Priorities 💻

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Update: The Compromise 🚗

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Wife's Support System 🤗

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Lunch Break and Plan 🍔

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Naming the Baby 👶

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Emotional Goodbye 😭

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The Chosen Name 🌹

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Heading Home 🏠

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A Heartfelt Decision: Family First ❤️

In a whirlwind of emotions, our conflicted protagonist managed to find a compromise that allowed him to say goodbye to his grandfather and still be there for his wife. With the support of his family, he made a quick trip and even asked his grandfather to name their baby girl. The result? A beautiful name, Madeline Rose, that will forever connect their daughter to her great-grandfather. Now, he's on his way back home, grateful for the chance to say farewell. Let's see what people think of this touching story... ✨

Fly to visit grandfather now, skip funeral. Life > death. 🙌

SamSpayedPI | SamSpayedPI

Tough decision: attend wife's labor or grandfather's funeral? NAH suggests Zooming grandfather. Replies highlight the importance of supporting wife and respecting grandfather's life.

9okm | 9okm

Choose wisely. YTA if you prioritize your grandfather over your wife.

fauxrain | fauxrain

Missing the birth is not just sad, it's a serious issue 😱

Fainora | Fainora

Balancing family priorities: Saying goodbye to grandpa or witnessing childbirth? 😱

rbrancher2 | rbrancher2

Being there for your wife and child during childbirth is crucial 😱

bigfatchair | bigfatchair

Supporting wife during childbirth is crucial, YTA. 😱

CrystalQueen3000 | CrystalQueen3000

Choose life over death, hold your child's first hours ❤️

peithecelt | peithecelt

Missing the birth of your child for a funeral? YTA 😱

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suffragette_citizen | suffragette_citizen

Grandfather's funeral or wife's labor? Heartfelt advice from commenter.

ewearehere | ewearehere

Choose wisely: be there for your wife during childbirth.

Effective-Slice-4819 | Effective-Slice-4819

A helpful suggestion for connecting with family during tough times 👥

Paevatar | Paevatar

Prioritize wife's labor over grandfather's funeral, YTA comment advises.

Sea-Mud5386 | Sea-Mud5386

Stay with your wife for the birth of your child 👨🏻‍👩🏻️. You won't regret it 😊

stollentrollin | stollentrollin

Commenter criticizes OP's dilemma, highlights childbirth risks. 😱

MomisTired12160926 | MomisTired12160926

Childbirth risks are real. OP should stay home with wife. 😱

MomisTired12160926 | MomisTired12160926

Balancing family emergencies during a pandemic 🙁

Forward_Squirrel8879 | Forward_Squirrel8879

Giving birth is a difficult and scary experience, YTA gently.

BattleKitten17 | BattleKitten17

Rinassa64 | Rinassa64

ForceSensitiveRebel | ForceSensitiveRebel

Heartfelt support for man facing tough decision 😢

forcryingoutmeow | forcryingoutmeow

Stay with your wife during labor, say goodbye to grandpa remotely 💜

ConsitutionalHistory | ConsitutionalHistory

Choosing between grandfather's funeral and wife's delivery. NAH suggests facetime.

Slip_Slip_Knit | Slip_Slip_Knit

Torn between wife's labor and grandfather's funeral. Commenters advise compassion.

helpmeiamsmall | helpmeiamsmall

Choose wife and baby's safety over funeral, honor grandfather differently. 🙏

Princess-of-Power-42 | Princess-of-Power-42

Mommy-Q | Mommy-Q

Next-Engineering1469 | Next-Engineering1469

Choosing between family events is never easy 😢

BedazzlevaJazzle | BedazzlevaJazzle

Prioritize your wife during labor, but FaceTime your grandfather 💛

julet1815 | julet1815

Grandfather's funeral or wife's labor? A tough choice. 🤔

20eyesinmyhead78 | 20eyesinmyhead78

Putting family first is important 👍, pay kindness forward 🙌

Sad_Gold7305 | Sad_Gold7305

Commenter calls out man for considering funeral over wife's labor 😬

nvorx | nvorx

Balancing family priorities: visiting dying grandpa or attending wife's labor?

WebFuture2858 | WebFuture2858

Leaving for grandfather's funeral while wife in labor? YTA. 😱

cheechie64 | cheechie64

Tough decision: Wife's labor or grandfather's funeral? NAH advice given. 🙏

BoomButton | BoomButton

Stay for the birth and zoom grandpa, sadly. 😢

SoIFeltDizzy | SoIFeltDizzy

Balancing family priorities: Wife's labor or grandfather's funeral? 🤔

sacredxsecret | sacredxsecret

Prioritizing family responsibilities: Soft YTA comment and its advice.

SquirrelBowl | SquirrelBowl

A tough decision between family events. NAH, both valid concerns. 😭

Fantastic-Focus-7056 | Fantastic-Focus-7056

Balancing family priorities during a crisis 🙏

puppyfarts99 | puppyfarts99

Balancing priorities during pandemic: Wife's labor or Grandfather's funeral? 😭

invader_holly | invader_holly

Virtual presence for grandfather's funeral or wife's resentment in labor?

Blink182YourBedroom | Blink182YourBedroom

Supporting your partner during labor is crucial 🙌

Dismal-Term7151 | Dismal-Term7151

Clarification needed: Is it a short or long flight? 😕

WhittSmitt | WhittSmitt

Balancing family commitments: Attending both events is possible 🙌

wildcat12321 | wildcat12321

Supporting wife during birth is top priority. YTA.

Equivalent_Collar_59 | Equivalent_Collar_59

Balancing family events can be tough. Consider options and prioritize. ⚓️

squeakylittlecat | squeakylittlecat

Supporting wife during childbirth is crucial. Zoom funeral instead?

VixedVexen | VixedVexen

Dilemma between wife's labor and grandfather's funeral, NAH. Possible solutions?

ehumanbeing | ehumanbeing

Balancing family priorities is tough 😢

Violet351 | Violet351

Missing daughter's birth for funeral? YTA. Be there for wife 😔

Alert-Potato | Alert-Potato

Choose wife's labor over grandfather's funeral. She needs you more. 🙏

SLZicki | SLZicki

Husband faces tough choice between wife's labor and grandfather's funeral 😢

Sorry-Independent-98 | Sorry-Independent-98

Choosing between life and death, who's the a**hole? 🤷‍♂️

SaboraHoku | SaboraHoku

Man faces tough decision: attend funeral or support wife's labor? 😱

KickIt77 | KickIt77

Tough decision: attend grandfather's funeral or wife's labor? YWBTA if you leave your wife, witness the birth of your child.

carton_of_cats | carton_of_cats

Be there for your wife during birth, it's unpredictable 😱

bunnybunny690 | bunnybunny690

Choosing between wife's labor and grandfather's funeral - YTA?

Noinix | Noinix

Balancing family events can be tough, but compromising is key 🙏

Kingofthewhalepeople | Kingofthewhalepeople

Balancing family events can be tough 😢

ghostofastorm | ghostofastorm

Grandfather's funeral or wife's labor? One comment suggests a solution 🙌

Mabelisms | Mabelisms

A tough situation with no clear answer. NAH, I guess 😕

Suspicious-Buddy5267 | Suspicious-Buddy5267

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