Imagine finding the love of your life, planning your future together, and then having it all come crashing down because of an ill-timed comment. That’s exactly what happened to a 27-year-old man who recently proposed to his long-time girlfriend, Ellie. Little did he know, his mother’s reaction to his fiancée’s bisexuality would turn their lives upside down.
The Perfect Proposal
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Ellie’s Secret
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Supportive Boyfriend
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Love Blossoms ❤️
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Keeping It Private
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The Big Announcement
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Drunk Friend Spills the Beans
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Mom Demands Answers
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Mom’s Misunderstanding
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Avoiding Conflict ♂️
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Mom’s Nasty Message
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Confronting Mom
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Family Divided
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Ellie’s Struggle
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Mom’s Surprising Reaction
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A Wedding on the Rocks?
A happy engagement quickly turns sour when a man’s mother learns about his fiancée’s bisexuality. After a drunken friend spills the beans, the mother’s reaction spirals out of control, leading to a nasty voicemail and a divided family. With some relatives now refusing to attend the wedding, the couple is left to pick up the pieces and wonder if they can still make it down the aisle. Let’s see what people have to say about this heart-wrenching situation…
NTA. Fiancée’s mom is homophobic and biphobic. Support your partner

Fiancée’s sexuality is not mom’s business. NTA.

Defending the fiancée’s sexuality against inappropriate comments
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Commenter defends OP against homophobic mother-in-law, receives support.

Support your fiancée and ignore hateful family members. NTA.

NTA comment receives heartwarming support from Mom Hugs group

NTA stands up to homophobic mom ahead of wedding

Supportive comment calls out homophobic behavior, encourages standing up for oneself.

Comment section discusses the outdated and homophobic slur ‘carpet muncher’.

Supportive comment defends outing and stands up to homophobic family members

Set strong boundaries with homophobic mom and religious family. Support fiancée

Defending fiancée’s sexuality causes family rift. NTA, prepare for fallout.

Protect your relationship from toxic family members

Protecting your partner from toxic family members

Stand by your fiancée, watch out for homophobic family members

Standing up against biphobia and homophobia.

Accepting bi partner, educating mom, and standing up for love ❤️

Mother’s aggressive behavior towards son’s fiancée is unacceptable. NTA.

Elope and start a new family with your wife!

NTA calls out homophobia, demands apology with bouquet

Supportive comment calls out homophobia, praises OP for standing up.

Stand up to bigotry and keep the love. NTA

Choosing between family and love ️ ❤️

Biphobia is a harsh reality . One person shares their experience.

NTA. Mom’s true colors exposed. Stand up for yourself

Support your fiancée and cut off contact with homophobic mother.

Stand up to your homophobic mom for your fiancee!

Supportive comment defends fiancee’s sexuality against bigots

Defend your fiancée and future family, demand an apology ❤️

Mom’s behavior is outrageous, you’re NTA in this situation

Defend your fiancé from biphobic comments

Respecting partner’s privacy is NTA. Mom’s homophobia exposed

Mom’s overreaction to fiancee’s secret. Friend’s joke backfires. NTA.

Supporting your fiancée’s privacy is NTA, friends and mom are.

Support for bisexual partner, backlash against mom’s ignorance

Supportive comment and relatable experience with a disapproving mother.

NTA shuts down mom’s invasive behavior with a burn

Calling out homophobia and advising on setting boundaries with family.

Supportive comment condemns mother’s behavior and advises no contact.
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Cutting off toxic family members. NTA wins.

Protect your relationships, choose your battles wisely

Navigating family bigotry: OP did the right thing by fiancee.

Biphobia is real and hurts. NTA. Cut ties and be happy

Supportive response to OP’s coming out story, recommends going no contact.

Homophobic mom outs fiancée, commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation.

Supportive comment defends fiancée’s sexuality, advises non-invite for relatives

Supportive reply to NTA comment about outing fiancée’s secret.

Commenter supports the poster’s actions, no controversy here

Dealing with a possibly homophobic parent. Tough situation

Mom’s homophobic reaction to fiancee’s bisexuality is unacceptable. NTA.

Supportive partner respects fiancé’s privacy amidst family drama

Trash took itself out , NTA wins

Fighting biphobia within the community. Good for standing up!

Stand up to homophobia and drop toxic friends. NTA

Bisexual stigma is real. NTA for standing up for fiancée

Elope and cut contact with toxic in-laws

Navigating the complexities of coming out to loved ones

Supportive reply to NTA comment on homophobic mom

Bisexual couple welcomes engaged couple into their family with open arms

Bisexual commenter supports OP’s decision to keep her sexuality private
