Bride-to-be vs Disney vacation: Who deserves the time off? 😱

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Weddings can be stressful, and planning one is no walk in the park. But what happens when your wedding prep collides with a coworker's family vacation? One bride-to-be found herself in this exact situation, and she's wondering if she's in the wrong for not giving up her personal days at work. 🤷‍♀️💍 Let's dive into this workplace drama and see what's going on.

The wedding countdown begins 🗓️

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A clash of plans 🏰

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The great time-off race 🏁

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The substitute shortage strikes ⚠️

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The big ask 😳

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Standing her ground 💪

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Priorities and problems 🤷‍♀️

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Fiancé's verdict 🤵

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Meg's annual vacation 🌴

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First-time denial 🚫

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The big reveal 🕵️‍♀️

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The time-off mystery 🔍

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School rules 🏫

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Paid time off 💸

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Bridezilla or justified decision? 🤔

Our bride-to-be is facing a dilemma: should she give up her personal days before her wedding to accommodate her coworker's family vacation? Meg's Disney plans were denied because of a cap on personal days, and she's asking the bride to sacrifice her time. With a fiancé who agrees with her decision and Meg's annual vacations in mind, the bride is left wondering if she's being unreasonable. Let's see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation... 🍿

NTA OP. Coworker should have planned better and not guilt-trip.

Consistent_Front_721 | Consistent_Front_721

Booking a vacation before requesting time off? NTA wins.

Lakota_Six | Lakota_Six

Bride-to-be vs Disney vacation: Who deserves the time off? 💍🏰

MsBaseball34 | MsBaseball34

NTA comment shuts down entitled bride-to-be. 😊

ChubberTheChubber | ChubberTheChubber

Disney is flexible, but not everyone is. Bridezilla alert 😱

beek_r | beek_r

Planning ahead pays off: NTA for taking requested time off.

dugie417 | dugie417

Bridezilla vs. Disney: Who deserves time off? NTA says commenters.

LordofToomay | LordofToomay

Booked holiday first, NTA. Colleague's mistake, not OP's fault 😊

MrItachiWeazel | MrItachiWeazel

Bride-to-be rightfully takes time off for wedding, not responsible for coworker's vacation conflicts. 🙌

willpdav7 | willpdav7

Teacher's Disney vacation during term sparks debate. NTA or not?

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Non-refundable tickets vs bride-to-be. Stressful wedding planning. NTA wins.

Punkinpry427 | Punkinpry427

Employee defends bride-to-be's right to vacation time. 💪

Haunting_Sign_177 | Haunting_Sign_177

NTA. Teacher should find a sub, not your problem 👍

Avocadosarecool2000 | Avocadosarecool2000

Planning ahead pays off, NTA for taking your well-deserved vacation 🍹

SadderOlderWiser | SadderOlderWiser

Teacher prioritizes Disney over bride-to-be's vacation. Not cool. 🤷‍♀️

ForwardPlenty | ForwardPlenty

Taking vacation at the same time every year? Request it early! 😊

EquivalentTwo1 | EquivalentTwo1

Booked holidays first, don't let her make you feel guilty. NTA 👍

VodkaQueen_1136 | VodkaQueen_1136

Booking a vacation before getting days approved? NTA wins.

FuntimesonAITA | FuntimesonAITA

Co-worker thinks she's entitled to vacation days? Think again! 😏

NanaLeonie | NanaLeonie

Don't let her guilt trip you, enjoy your wedding! 😊

xavii62 | xavii62

"That guy" at work ruins vacation plans for everyone else 😒

ClubSoda98 | ClubSoda98

Wedding comes first! NTA commenter suggests a diplomatic invitation 💌

subrhythm | subrhythm

Bridezilla demands time off for wedding, commenter calls her ballsy. NTA 😎

Wendilintheweird | Wendilintheweird

Coworker planned poorly, not your fault. NTA 👍

Freakin_Merida88 | Freakin_Merida88

Booking a trip without getting time off? NTA has spoken 👏

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

Support for NTA comment, HR may need to be involved 🙌

JustMyAura | JustMyAura

Prioritizing responsibilities over procrastination. Congrats on your wedding! 🙌

Alarmed-Hamster-4047 | Alarmed-Hamster-4047

Booking a vacation without approved time off leads to consequences 🤔

HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366

Lesson learned: Request time off before spending money on vacation. NTA 👏

Various_Owl7287 | Various_Owl7287

Wedding trumps annual Disney trip. NTA wins the day! 👏

LuckyRoux89 | LuckyRoux89

Book your vacation days off first and avoid this drama 😊

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Submit your vacation request before paying for plans 👍

trilliumsummer | trilliumsummer

Bridezilla wants her to give up vacation, but she's NTA 😊

super_bluecat | super_bluecat

Booking a vacation before confirming time off work? 🤔 NTA bridezilla

Bergenia1 | Bergenia1

Prioritizing wedding over vacation. NTA. Congrats 😀

notyouravgbelle | notyouravgbelle

Bride-to-be denied vacation for Disney trip. NTA wins.

Catatomical | Catatomical

Bride-to-be loses Disney vacation to coworker. NTA or NAH?

krystalfloods | krystalfloods

Planning ahead is key to avoid losing money on deposits 👍

DisastrousBobcat5 | DisastrousBobcat5

Coworker being unreasonable about bride-to-be's time off for wedding 😒

MisunderstoodIdea | MisunderstoodIdea

Planning ahead wins: NTA for taking vacation before wedding 😎

DGinLDO | DGinLDO

Military advice for vacation time off. NTA wins.

dcviper | dcviper

Timing is everything: Teacher's Disney trip vs personal day request.

freeze45 | freeze45

Bold response to bridezilla sparks agreement in comments. 💪

mzpljc | mzpljc

Planning a wedding is hard work, bride-to-be deserves time off 🙌

Seliphra | Seliphra

Taking time off for a wedding vs Disney vacation dilemma 😱

CosmicGreen_Giraffe3 | CosmicGreen_Giraffe3

Vacation vs wedding planning: NTA wins the time off battle 🏝👏

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Bridezilla alert! 🚨 Bride-to-be demands vacation sacrifice, commenter says NTA.

GrassTerrible5262 | GrassTerrible5262

Planning ahead pays off: NTA for not covering coworker's shift 👍

Gullible-Tondonian | Gullible-Tondonian

Booked first, no wrong. Bride-to-be vs Disney vacation 🤷‍♀️

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Bride-to-be prioritizes wedding over partner's vacation 🙄

JadedSlayer | JadedSlayer

Take the time off for your wedding, not for Disney! 😊

Working_Confusion751 | Working_Confusion751

Lesson learned: Don't book vacations before getting time off approved 🙄

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Don't let others' poor planning affect your vacation plans! 🏝🌎

Malchim | Malchim

Bride-to-be wins Disney vacation battle against entitled co-worker 🎉

CJsMom2000 | CJsMom2000

You got there first! NTA for taking the time off 😊

GroundbreakingPhoto4 | GroundbreakingPhoto4

Don't let entitled friends ruin your vacation plans 🏝🎉

SleepDeprivedSailor | SleepDeprivedSailor

Take your time off guilt-free! Enjoy your wedding day 👰

VirtuallyBecca | VirtuallyBecca

Lesson learned: Always confirm time off before booking a vacation. NTA 👍

frenziedmonkey | frenziedmonkey

Suggesting a solution for the time off conflict 👍

jma7400 | jma7400

Don't let a Disney vacation ruin your wedding plans 🎉

-chelle- | -chelle-

True friends don't ask for time off. NTA wins 👏

LailaBlack | LailaBlack

Protect your vacation with refund protection, NTA suggests.

RedGambit9 | RedGambit9

Disney refunds are possible, don't let them tell you otherwise 👍

orion_nomad | orion_nomad

Wedding wins! NTA comment shuts down discussion. 😎

PopcornandComments | PopcornandComments

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