Fiancé Accused of Extortion Over Social Security Number 🤯💔

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Imagine being accused of extortion by your fiancé just for trying to set up a life insurance policy! 😵 That's exactly what happened to one woman, who only wanted to make sure her loved ones were taken care of in case of her untimely demise. But when she asked her fiancé for his social security number, things took a dramatic turn. 🍿💥

Free Life Insurance Policy 📝💰

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Dad's On Board, Fiancé Not So Much 🤷‍♀️🚫

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Fiancé Gets Defensive 😤🛑

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Valid Question, Valid Answer 🗣️👌

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No SSN, No Insurance 💔📉

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Information is Power? 🤔🔐

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Marriage and SSN Sharing 💍🔢

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In the System? 🌐👀

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Accusations of Extortion 😱💣

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Mental Health Considerations 🧠💭

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Low Blow? 🤔💔

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SSN Standoff Leaves Fiancée Stunned 😲🌩️

What started as a simple request for her fiancé's social security number to set up a life insurance policy turned into a heated argument, with accusations of extortion and blackmail flying. 🌪️💥 Despite pointing out the many reasons she would need his SSN as they prepared for marriage, her fiancé remained stubborn and stormed off to his brother's house. With mental health issues at play, was this just a misunderstanding, or a sign of deeper issues? 🤷‍♀️🧠 Let's see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation... 💻🔥

Man doesn't want SSN "in the system" but already has one 🤦‍♂️

slash_asdf | slash_asdf

Fiancé refuses to share SSN, leaving partner suspicious 🤯

Straight-Singer-2912 | Straight-Singer-2912

Commenter suggests OP's fiancé is hiding something. 🤔

SusanBHa | SusanBHa

Don't legally tie yourself to someone unwilling to share basic info 🚫

photosbeersandteach | photosbeersandteach

Think twice before marrying this guy 😔

winnie_the_grizzly | winnie_the_grizzly

Potential red flags in fiancé's behavior. Dig deeper before marrying. 💔

stacity | stacity

NTA for wanting fiancé's SSN as beneficiary. Concerning apology to bf.

VengefulMcSplatypus | VengefulMcSplatypus

Fiancé accused of extortion, but commenter says NTA for calling it off. Replies include a story of someone avoiding taxes.

ABeerAndABook | ABeerAndABook

Fiancé accused of extortion, but is he hiding more? 🤔

Scstxrn | Scstxrn

Couple's counseling may be needed before marriage. 🤔

cinnamngrl | cinnamngrl

Red flags raised over fiancé's extreme reaction to SSN request 🚨

5ftGrinch | 5ftGrinch

Fiancé accused of extortion over SSN. Commenters discuss trust issues.

Cesc_0405 | Cesc_0405

Don't marry someone who doesn't trust you 💔

Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964

NTA needs fiancé's SSN for insurance and valid reasons. Fiancé's paranoia is a red flag 🚩

FrostedOctopus | FrostedOctopus

Protecting your credit is always a priority 👍

No_Donkey9914 | No_Donkey9914

Fiancé's military background raises suspicion, but no red flags yet 🤔

lightninghazard | lightninghazard

Fiancé accused of extortion, but is he a victim too? 🤯

lemons66 | lemons66

Commenter celebrates karma for accused extortionist 🙌

smelly38838r8r9 | smelly38838r8r9

Fiancé accused of extortion, commenters advise to reconsider marriage 💔

mtsmylie | mtsmylie

Prioritize your safety and consider the future of your relationship ❤️

Fair_Text1410 | Fair_Text1410

Protect your identity, not your fiancé. 👍

CatrosePro54 | CatrosePro54

Partner's refusal to share SSN raises red flags 🤯

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Fiancé's defensive behavior raises red flags 🚩

throwaway0rat | throwaway0rat

Commenter calls out someone as an idiot. 🤣

sinceyouasked1 | sinceyouasked1

Protect yourself and your assets. NTA. 👍

Chargednotconvicted | Chargednotconvicted

Run away from him! Not the a**hole.

sunnyreece | sunnyreece

Secure your dad's future as the sole beneficiary. NTA.

Bitter-Conflict-4089 | Bitter-Conflict-4089

Partner's conspiracy theories may impact relationship and mental health 🤔

QueenOfTheTadpoles | QueenOfTheTadpoles

Keep your finances separate and reconsider marrying him. 👍

Mehitabel9 | Mehitabel9

Is the fiancé a 'Sovereign Citizen'? Commenters speculate 🤔

swissmtndog398 | swissmtndog398

Don't marry someone who doesn't trust you and has mental health issues 😔

PotatoMonster20 | PotatoMonster20

Red flag alert! 🚩 Think twice before marrying this person.

GeneralAble7202 | GeneralAble7202

Commenter suggests possible manic episode in NTA situation 🤯

icecreampenis | icecreampenis

Grandpa thought he was off the grid, but VA knew 😂

Altruistic-Royal2874 | Altruistic-Royal2874

Protect yourself! Check their credit report before marriage! 👍

barelyjoking | barelyjoking

Secure your love, not your SSN. NTA wins!

No-Personality5421 | No-Personality5421

Commenter questions fiancé's motives and mental health 🤔

Basic_Bichette | Basic_Bichette

Commenter suggests mental health issues, supports NTA verdict

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Trust issues arise in comment section over social security extortion 😕

Swampman5000 | Swampman5000

Threat or explanation? Real-life consequences for not sharing SSN. NTA

pcnauta | pcnauta

Fiancé's paranoia over sharing SSN raises red flags. NTA.

JimDixon | JimDixon

Trust in marriage extends to sharing SSN, or not? 🤔

maddjaxmaddly | maddjaxmaddly

Protecting personal information is important, NTA suggests looking into fiancé's concerns 👍

sassenach831 | sassenach831

NTA now, but stay current to avoid being AH later 😉

MethodTerrible | MethodTerrible

Protect your assets with a Living Trust, not your fiancé 👍

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Trust issues arise over simple request for personal information 🤯

flowerrainrose | flowerrainrose

Don't marry someone secretive and paranoid 💔

mlachick | mlachick

Trust is key in a relationship 💔

Crafty_Momma_624 | Crafty_Momma_624

Red flags in a partner's behavior. NTA for leaving.

Great_Elephant9254 | Great_Elephant9254

Red flags in a relationship. 🚩 Think twice before marrying.

FartFace319 | FartFace319

Navigating family dynamics and privacy concerns in financial planning 💸

Suckerforcats | Suckerforcats

Fiancé refuses to share SSN for health benefits, NTA for asking.

Repulsive-Nerve5127 | Repulsive-Nerve5127

Curious non-American seeks info on SSN and gets answer.

duckfeatherduvet | duckfeatherduvet

NTA, but don't rush into marriage without counseling 👨‍👩‍👰🏻💓

Extension_Cucumber10 | Extension_Cucumber10

Don't marry him! NTA and good call on avoiding extortion 👍

mooseandsquirrel78 | mooseandsquirrel78

Commenter advises caution in marrying unstable partner over SSN.

Calm_Memories | Calm_Memories

Partner's fear of sharing personal information raises red flags 🤯

whynotmai | whynotmai

Questioning the questionable choice of a conspiracy theorist spouse 🤔

TheQuietType84 | TheQuietType84

Don't let his irrationality ruin your future 💔💍

kb-g | kb-g

Is it wise to marry someone with trust and mental issues? 🤔

JCBashBash | JCBashBash

Discharged from military, but no benefits due to sleepwalking.

WoozyRadish | WoozyRadish

NTA! What's his problem? 🤔

fjewel95 | fjewel95

Questioning the engagement? 🤔

Crazy_Flatworm2989 | Crazy_Flatworm2989

Military service adds weight to NTA judgment 👍

TimeIsntSustainable | TimeIsntSustainable

Fiancé accused of extortion, commenter supports OP. NTA 👍

callmeasher7 | callmeasher7

Sharing social security number with partner: NTA or risky? 👍

FlamingoInParadise | FlamingoInParadise

Fiancé accused of extortion, commenter says he sounds dumb. NTA.

SnooSongs7226 | SnooSongs7226

Partner's lack of trust raises red flags. NTA.

schux99 | schux99

Red flag alert! NTA suggests breaking up or running a background check 🚨

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