Picture this: a bride-to-be (22f) and her fiancé (24m) are planning their bachelor and bachelorette parties. All is going well until the topic of strippers comes up. The fiancé wants a female stripper at his party, and the bride-to-be has no problem with that. But when she says she wants a female stripper at her party too, things take a dramatic turn! The bride-to-be is bisexual, and she’d rather have a woman perform at her party. But her fiancé insists it’s not the same, and their friends are divided on the issue. Let’s dive into this wild story!
The Stripping Dilemma

Fiancé Jokes, Bride-to-be Agrees ♀️

The Unexpected Twist!

Bisexuality Comes into Play ️

Equal Stripping Rights? ♀️ ❤️

Friends Take Sides ️

The ‘Preference’ Clarification

Deeper Issues Uncovered ️♀️

Addressing Insecurities ❤️

Fiancé: Not Homophobic ️

Guests’ Feelings Considered

A Stripping Standoff: Who’s Right? ♀️
So there you have it, folks! A bride-to-be who wants a female stripper at her bachelorette party, while her fiancé believes it’s different from him having one at his bachelor party. Their friends are divided, and some even claim that her choice implies she’d rather be with a woman than her fiancé. But as the bride-to-be clarifies, she simply prefers a female *stripper* over a male one. As the couple realizes there are deeper issues at play, they plan to discuss their relationship and insecurities. ️♀️ Now, let’s see what the internet has to say about this stripping standoff!
Fiancé’s double standard on strippers is hilarious. NTA.

Fiancé’s insecurity over bride’s bisexuality raises red flags.

Equal treatment is important.

Bride-to-be wants female stripper, fiancé’s reaction is a red flag

Bride-to-be wants female stripper at bachelorette party, fiancé disagrees. Commenter supports her choice and calls out biphobia.

Fiancé’s double standards hint at biphobia. Address before the wedding.

Gender of stripper shouldn’t matter, commenter says NTA

Bride-to-be faces biphobia and sexism for wanting female stripper
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Fiancé’s double standard on bisexuality, NTA for wanting stripper

Bride-to-be’s bachelorette party choice causes drama, commenter advises to enjoy.

Communication is key! Have an honest conversation with your fiancé about his insecurities.

Bride-to-be wants female stripper, fiancé opposes. Commenter defends preference.


Bride-to-be wants female stripper, fiancé disagrees. Op called NTA.
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Commenters agree: NTA for fairness, but both TA for stripper.

Stripper at bachelorette parties is a bad idea. NTA.
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Fiancé disagrees with female stripper at bachelorette party. NTA.
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Celebrate your bachelorette party your way!

Double standards much? NTA comment sparks interesting discussion.
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Fiancé’s jealousy and biphobia causing issues? NTA for wanting fun.
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Commenter defends bride-to-be’s preference for female strippers at bachelorette party.

Equal rights for bachelorette parties! Go for it!

NTA for not wanting a female stripper. Good call

Gender shouldn’t matter, fiancé is hypocritical. #StrippersAreStrippers

NTA thinks there’s no difference, but what do you think?

Female stripper preference sparks trust issues. NTA.

Double standard? NTA! Suggest male stripper for fiancé too!

Gender shouldn’t matter for a stripper at a bachelorette party!

Celebrate your way! Don’t let insecurity ruin your fun.

Commenter questions the difference in having a female stripper.

Bride-to-be insists on female stripper, fiancé uncomfortable. NTA.

Discussing sexuality with partner is important before marriage

When the comment section takes the joke too far…

Bride-to-be’s fiancé is suppressing biphobia and double standards.

Compromise is key! No strippers for anyone

Female stripper preferred over male, according to commenter.

Commenter questions the tradition of having strippers at parties.

Double standards much? NTA for wanting a female stripper

Breaking Bi-phobia: Commenter supports bride-to-be’s bachelorette party choices.
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Is having a stripper at a bachelorette party a dealbreaker?

Bisexual woman defends bride-to-be’s desire for female stripper, calls out biphobia.

Fiancé accused of bi erasure, commenters outraged
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Boyfriend’s insecurities revealed in bachelorette party dispute. NTA.
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Breaking biphobia: commenter supports bride-to-be’s bachelorette party plans.

Bride-to-be wants female stripper, fiancé disagrees. Commenter defends bisexuality.

Commenter finds situation amusing, supports bride-to-be’s request.

Fiancé accused of biphobia for refusing female stripper at party

Equality in entertainment choices, NTA comment wins the day!

Breaking gender norms at bachelorette parties, NTA wins!
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Gender equality even at bachelorette parties!

Confused commenter thinks bride’s request is outrageous. NTA.

Spice up the party with both male and female strippers!

Equal stripper rights for both partners, NTA wins!

Avoid stripper drama at stag parties, consider other options.

Biphobia in relationships? NTA, f**k him.
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Bride-to-be defends her desire for a female stripper.

Bi woman defends appreciation for bodies, husband secure in relationship.

Communication is key in a relationship . Admitting insecurities can lead to compromise.

Breaking gender norms at bachelorette party causes insecurity and discomfort.

Navigating bachelorette parties and sexuality

Bride-to-be wants multiple female strippers, fiancé disagrees – NTA

Breaking gender stereotypes at a bachelorette party

Embrace your desires and kick rocks! You’re NTA


Clear-cut decision, no a**holes here!

Fiancé’s insecurities? NTA bride-to-be wants female stripper!
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Redditor suggests a hilarious compromise for bachelorette party strippers

Supportive comment defends bride-to-be’s bachelorette party choices.

Why not have both? A female and male stripper party!

Bisexual bride-to-be wants female stripper at bachelorette party, fiancé disagrees!

Fiancé insecure about female stripper, OP not the a**hole.

Commenter calls out biphobia in bachelorette party debate

Commenter prefers female strippers over male, finds them more entertaining.
