A woman (29F) found herself in a dilemma when her boyfriend (30M) demanded she use her hard-earned savings to pay off his house debt instead of taking her father on a dream trip to Disney World. The woman had been saving for five years to surprise her dad, who had always supported her through tough times. Her boyfriend's reaction and his family's harassment have left her questioning her decision.
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The Dream Trip Plan 🏰✨
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Boyfriend's Financial Struggles 💸🏠
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The Conflict Begins 😠💔
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Boyfriend's Accusations 🗣️🤦♀️
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Her Response 🙅♀️🏠
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The Update: A Talk 🗨️🔄
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The Breakup 💔🚪
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The Dream Trip is On! 🎉🏰
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A Bittersweet Ending 🌅💔
After a heart-to-heart conversation, the woman decided to break up with her boyfriend, who was unhappy with her decision. Despite the breakup, she is moving forward with her plans to surprise her dad with the dream trip to Disney World in October. The experience has left her with a bittersweet ending, but she remains determined to make her father's dream come true. 💕✨
Choose yourself first 👍. Don't settle for less 👌.
Efficient_Quarter_40 | Efficient_Quarter_40
Commenter sympathizes with woman's family drama, wishes her happy travels 🎉
Aggy_frog87 | Aggy_frog87
Cherish memories with loved ones 💔, forget the ex 👋🏻
wasabitobiko | wasabitobiko
Choose your dreams over debt 💔✈️🏰 #NTA
paradiseisalibrary31 | paradiseisalibrary31
Don't let your boyfriend's debt ruin your dream trip 💔
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Enjoy Disney World with your dad! NTA 🎉
MyLittleTarget | MyLittleTarget
Spread the love! Take your dad on that Disney trip 🎉
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Don't mix finances until marriage. Boyfriend's debt not her responsibility. NTA 💯
Migtino | Migtino
Don't pay his bills! NTA. His family's harassment is unacceptable 💯
TheIdealisticCynic | TheIdealisticCynic
Lesson learned: Choose quality men over debt. Happy vacationing! 😎
moistmonkeymerkin | moistmonkeymerkin
Dump the user! 🚮 NTA for choosing father's dream trip.
Double_Reindeer_6884 | Double_Reindeer_6884
Commenters agree: NTA for prioritizing father's dream trip 👍
PlushieTushie | PlushieTushie
Cherish family memories over debt. 💔
Mrs-Lovett | Mrs-Lovett
Choose family over debt. Don't let anyone manipulate you. 👍
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Commenter questions entitlement and supports OP's decision. 👍
Kokoliokoo | Kokoliokoo
Don't let him guilt-trip you. Enjoy your dad's dream trip! 👏
MGS314MGS314 | MGS314MGS314
Choosing family over finances: a breakup worth making 💔
TapEnvironmental9768 | TapEnvironmental9768
Commenter advises against financial contribution to non-married partner.
chersprague06 | chersprague06
No a-hole here. Short and sweet.
Hemantobarish | Hemantobarish
Commenter advises dumping boyfriend, supports trip with dad 🎉
PopcornandComments | PopcornandComments
Financial independence is key. Dump him for harassing you. NTA 💯
JuniperusRex | JuniperusRex
Comment removed due to rule violation. Be civil.
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Prioritizing family over finances, heartwarming NTA decision 💔
PrivateNoLlamaDrama | PrivateNoLlamaDrama
Choose family over finances, always. NTA 👏
cultqueennn | cultqueennn
NTA! Don't let your boyfriend's debt become your problem 👏. You're awesome for prioritizing your father's dream trip 😎
No_Advance4804 | No_Advance4804
Dump the boyfriend waving red flags 👋 and take your dad on his dream trip ✈️
fiorekat1 | fiorekat1
NTA. Boyfriend's entitlement and resentment are red flags. Run fast 👋🏼
aziza7 | aziza7
Take the trip with your father, you won't regret it 💔
cerebral__flatulence | cerebral__flatulence
Father's dream trip > boyfriend's debt. NTA, go enjoy! 👏🏻
neworderfan | neworderfan
Enjoy a magical trip with your father at Disney 🎉
Elle3247 | Elle3247
Don't pay for his debt, take the dream trip instead 👏
OkImprovements | OkImprovements
Dump the boyfriend, go to Disney World, NTA 🎉
Phantom_Cygnus | Phantom_Cygnus
Boyfriend's red flags wave, father's dream trip takes flight 💔✈️🏰
drunkenvalley | drunkenvalley
Take the trip with your father, he's not your responsibility. 💁♀️
MissyCross | MissyCross
Dump the debt, not the dream. NTA 💯✈️
EpiJade | EpiJade
Dump the toxic boyfriend and fly high to Florida! 💯💔✈️
Initial_Revenue2429 | Initial_Revenue2429
Choose family over temporary relationships 💔🎓
Lucia37 | Lucia37
Choosing family over finances: NTA's dilemma 💔
BrokenAshcraft | BrokenAshcraft
Choose family over a 1.5 year old relationship 💔👨💻🏝
Ok-Mood-8604 | Ok-Mood-8604
Enjoy your dream trip with your dad! NTA 👏
Dandelion-Fire | Dandelion-Fire
Don't flush your savings down the drain! Choose your dad 💔
Morrigan-71 | Morrigan-71
Commenter praises woman's selflessness and calls out toxic behavior.
Effective_Passenger8 | Effective_Passenger8
Boyfriend wants her money without providing stability? NTA 🙅♀️
skyntbook | skyntbook
Supportive comment on woman's decision to prioritize father's dream trip.
Purple-Valuable-5245 | Purple-Valuable-5245
Choosing a dream trip over a boyfriend's debt: NTA wins!
exhauta | exhauta
Boyfriend's debt or father's dream trip? NTA chooses wisely 👏
charlieprotag | charlieprotag
Dump him! 👋🏻 You're not responsible for his debt. 💸
BodaciousBonnie | BodaciousBonnie
Don't fall for a con artist 👋🏼
weddingcurmudgeon69 | weddingcurmudgeon69
Choose family over finances 💔🎉🌍. Enjoy Disney and EPCOT's food festival!
Jenny-Greenteeth | Jenny-Greenteeth
Replace hard times memories with Disneyworld dream memories 🎉
xj2608 | xj2608
Putting family first 💔, re-evaluating relationship with unsupportive boyfriend.
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No ownership, no debt. Break up and go on vacation 💔
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Commenter advises to run, but from what? 🤔
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NTA, prioritize your relationship with your father over a controlling boyfriend 💔
Repolhinho | Repolhinho
Choosing dreams over debt: NTA stands her ground 👏
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NTA for choosing dad's Disneyland dream over boyfriend's debt 🎉
anonymous101b | anonymous101b
Dump the debt, keep the dream. NTA 💯🏻
taco-tako | taco-tako
Dump the debt, keep the dream. NTA 👏
lainey68 | lainey68
Boyfriend's debt vs father's dream trip, NTA wins 👏
fenriq | fenriq
Stand your ground! Choosing family over debt is #NTA 👏
CinderDroplet | CinderDroplet
Choose your dreams over debt. NTA 👏
Calmandwise | Calmandwise
Dating for 1.5 years, but not living together. NTA, reconsider relationship.
benoz11 | benoz11
NTA. Boyfriend's debt and family drama? Drop him 👌
Ashkendor | Ashkendor
Support for woman's decision to prioritize father's dream trip 👏
MotherofSons | MotherofSons
Don't let his debt become your problem 💸. You made the right choice! 👏
TeacherWithOpinions | TeacherWithOpinions
Don't let your boyfriend's debt hold you back 👍. Take your dad on his dream trip 🌎
ImNotBothered80 | ImNotBothered80
Dodged a bullet! Take your dad on vacation 💔🏝️
Mysterious_Task_5949 | Mysterious_Task_5949
NTA for choosing father's dream trip over boyfriend's debt 💔, run from psychos 😱
turd_ferguson083 | turd_ferguson083
Choose self-love over toxic relationships 💔❤️
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Putting dreams before debt: Woman's NTA decision sparks agreement.
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Heartwarming story of daughter choosing father over unsupportive boyfriend 💔
caddykitten | caddykitten
Choose your dreams over debt, NTA! 👏🏻
Calm_Memories | Calm_Memories
Choosing father's dream trip over boyfriend's debt - NTA 👏
bizianka | bizianka
Don't let anyone guilt-trip you into funding their mistakes 👍
PileOfSheet88 | PileOfSheet88
Break up with the controlling boyfriend and his crazy family 👍
Affectionate-Gas2115 | Affectionate-Gas2115
Don't let anyone guilt you into paying their debts 💸💔
Cute_Puppy90 | Cute_Puppy90
Secure your safety, enjoy Disney with dad 🎉
halloween_princess_ | halloween_princess_
Dump the deadbeat boyfriend and enjoy Disney with your dad 🎉
Realistic-Animator-3 | Realistic-Animator-3
Empowering comment, go enjoy that trip with your dad! 👏
dinhyy | dinhyy
Bonding with dad over dream trip > boyfriend's debt ❤️
roseffin | roseffin
Commenter questions why boyfriend's family didn't pay his debt 💰
spaceprincess09 | spaceprincess09
Commenter advises girl to break up with foolish boyfriend 👋🏼
PawneeSunGoddess | PawneeSunGoddess
Choose dad over debt, block them all 👏🏻
tawy098 | tawy098
👏 NTA! Leave him and take that dream trip 🌴✈️
Pseud-o-nym | Pseud-o-nym
Dump the jerk, enjoy the vacation. NTA 😎🎉
fargoLEVY13 | fargoLEVY13
Choosing father's dream trip over boyfriend's debt. NTA. 👏 Enjoy!
ieya404 | ieya404
Choose family over debt, never pay someone else's mistake. NTA 👏
FortuneWhereThoutBe | FortuneWhereThoutBe
Debt, family, and love. Is there a right choice? 🤔
queencashay | queencashay
Choose your dreams over debt. NTA. Dump the boyfriend.
grayhairedqueenbitch | grayhairedqueenbitch
Stand your ground and don't let anyone bully you 💪🏻
luckyintrovert | luckyintrovert
Choose family over finances. Take lots of pics with dad! 👍
AsAmericanAsApplePie | AsAmericanAsApplePie
Dump the debt leech and fly solo towards financial freedom 💰
Gerald-of-Nivea | Gerald-of-Nivea
