A young woman living with her boyfriend at her parent's house experiences severe UTI symptoms and needs urgent medical attention. Despite her agonizing pain, her boyfriend refuses to drive her to the ER, prioritizing his sleep after a late-night gaming session. As she suffers through the ordeal, she questions if she's in the wrong for getting upset with him.
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UTI Symptoms and Clinic Visit 🏥
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Mom's Advice and Boyfriend's Reaction 😒
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Accused of Overreacting 😠
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Two More Hours of Sleep 😴
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zucchiniok217 | zucchiniok217
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zucchiniok217 | zucchiniok217
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zucchiniok217 | zucchiniok217
In Pain and Questioning Herself 😕
After enduring hours of excruciating pain and pleading with her boyfriend to take her to the ER, the woman is finally taken to the hospital. She's diagnosed with an advanced UTI, bladder and kidney infections, and an infected kidney stone. Despite her ordeal, she feels guilty about her attitude and wonders if she's in the wrong for getting upset with her boyfriend. Share your thoughts and reactions to this emotional story. 💔
Suffering in pain, ignored by boyfriend, NTA. Dump him 👋
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EssexCatWoman | EssexCatWoman
Dump the sexist boyfriend who refused to drive you to ER 🚩
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femme_enby | femme_enby
Dump the whole man! 🚮
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Educational-Dirto | Educational-Dirto
Ignoring medical emergency is a**hole behavior. Dump him! 😰
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Spicypurple | Spicypurple
Commenter empathizes with woman's pain and suggests reconsidering relationship 😰
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[deleted] | [deleted]
Woman defends boyfriend despite suffering in agony 😰
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[deleted] | [deleted]
Dump him! 🚫 What did he do when he found out?
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reebzRxS | reebzRxS
Dump him! Cheating boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER 😰
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musicalmelz | musicalmelz
Dump his a**! No one deserves to suffer like that 😡
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[deleted] | [deleted]
Dump him! 🚮 You deserve better than this treatment. 💪
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Aberdeenkev | Aberdeenkev
Negligent boyfriend risks girlfriend's life for sleep 😰
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lotus_eater123 | lotus_eater123
Commenter asks about parents' absence during emergency, receives explanation.
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dekuweku | dekuweku
Commenter sympathizes with woman, suggests she re-evaluate relationship. 😕
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koifishyfishy | koifishyfishy
Heartless boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER 😰🗯3♀️, commenters outraged. #DumpTheJerk
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Expensive_Fee696 | Expensive_Fee696
Dump your boyfriend now 👋🏼
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deadbiker | deadbiker
Commenter sympathizes with OP and questions the mother's absence 🤔
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percybert | percybert
Dump him! 👋🏼
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Far_Dealer7614 | Far_Dealer7614
Every minute counts in a medical emergency 🚨 NTA for leaving.
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Local-Wrangler8152 | Local-Wrangler8152
Dump him! 🚫 You were in agony and he ignored you 😡
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SuperLoris | SuperLoris
Partner's disregard for health is astonishing. NTA. 😰
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stannenb | stannenb
Dump the zero, get yourself a hero! 👯🏻💋
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murdoq_ruckus | murdoq_ruckus
Commenter calls out abusive behavior, labels boyfriend a 'tool' 😡
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autumn-twilight | autumn-twilight
Don't let anyone dismiss your pain and suffering 😠
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[deleted] | [deleted]
Commenter shares personal experience and advises to leave toxic partner. 👍
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The_Krudler | The_Krudler
Dump him! 🚫 He clearly doesn't care about your well-being. 😡
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eleanor-rigby- | eleanor-rigby-
Dump the boyfriend. Your health should be his priority 😰
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Sangaristic | Sangaristic
Dump the loser 👋. He doesn't care about you or your health 😰.
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SamiHami24 | SamiHami24
Trust yourself and dump his a**! Supportive NTA comment.
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umbrella251 | umbrella251
Dump him! 🚫 If he can't be a partner, he's useless.
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tatasz | tatasz
Dump him! 🚫 You deserve better. NTA
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fatolderlady2 | fatolderlady2
Dump the trash! Boyfriend refuses to drive to ER. NTA 👍
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Infamous_Ad_8614 | Infamous_Ad_8614
A supportive comment urging the woman to leave her cheating boyfriend.
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ann_withno_e | ann_withno_e
Dump him! 🚫 He cheated and won't drive you to ER 😡
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breathemusic14 | breathemusic14
Dump the trash 🗑️🚮. You deserve better 🌟. NTA.
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[deleted] | [deleted]
Did she break up with him? Find out in comments 🤔
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Catwreath | Catwreath
Heartbreaking story of neglect and lack of compassion 😢
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HexStarlight | HexStarlight
Dump him! Boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER 😰
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TynnyferWithTwoYs | TynnyferWithTwoYs
Dump him! 🚫 You're better off without him. NTA.
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ThinkingIsNotACrime | ThinkingIsNotACrime
Break up with him now! You deserve better 👏
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Negative_Tea3788 | Negative_Tea3788
Dump the cheater and kick him out 👋🏼
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notagoodusername183 | notagoodusername183
Dump him! 🚫 You deserve better. NTA. 💁♀️
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Jesuisserene94 | Jesuisserene94
Partner's refusal to drive to ER is a red flag 🚨
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lizzy_in_the_sky | lizzy_in_the_sky
Heartless boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER 😢
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Academic_Snow_7680 | Academic_Snow_7680
Dump him! 🚮 You deserve better treatment and respect. 💁
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No_Royal_3583 | No_Royal_3583
NTA. A partner should care if you die. You deserve better 🙏
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Jade4813 | Jade4813
Supportive comment, encouraging to prioritize self-care. 👏
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ssmitty09 | ssmitty09
Redditor advises breaking up with unsympathetic boyfriend during medical emergency 😰
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TheSleepingVoid | TheSleepingVoid
Dump his a**! Selfish boyfriend refuses to drive to ER 😒
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Wild_Ad1498 | Wild_Ad1498
Leave him and prioritize your health. You're NTA 👍
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CobblerGlittering | CobblerGlittering
Commenter believes person is not the a**hole.
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POAndrea | POAndrea
Heartless boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER 😢
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thizzlord | thizzlord
Heartless boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to ER 😡
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The_Diamond_Minx | The_Diamond_Minx
Dump him! You deserve better. NTA 👏
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nerdgirl71 | nerdgirl71
Short and sweet: Dump him. 👍
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Emotional_Chair_9024 | Emotional_Chair_9024
Dump him! 👋 You deserve better. 👍
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aaliceb | aaliceb
Partner refuses to drive her to ER, putting her in danger 😰
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Chatcandy2 | Chatcandy2
Don't count on him in a crisis 🙄
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[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Dump him. Your health and safety should come first 🚨
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LolaIlexa | LolaIlexa
Dump him now! 💪🏻 You deserve someone who puts you first. 👏
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wiggles105 | wiggles105
Dump him. He was willing to let you suffer and die. 😒
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LiLadybug81 | LiLadybug81
Prioritizing loved ones' health is key 👍
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Aware_Leadership_841 | Aware_Leadership_841
Dump him! You deserve someone who cares about your well-being. 👍
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AceyT71 | AceyT71
Loving partners prioritize your health, dump him and find better 💔
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damnsamantha | damnsamantha