💔 Betrayed by Boyfriend: He Revealed Her HIV Status to Friends 😱

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Imagine having a secret that you've only shared with the person you love and trust the most, only to find out that they've betrayed you by revealing it to others. This is exactly what happened to a woman who is HIV positive. She had always been very private about her status, given the trauma it caused her. However, she decided to be completely open with her boyfriend when they first met, hoping it would be cathartic. Little did she know that her trust would be shattered at a party.

A Difficult Past 💔

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Party Introduction 🎉

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Drinks and Confessions 🍹

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The Truth Comes Out 😳

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Unwanted Attention 😠

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Confronting the Boyfriend 💢

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The Other Friend's Reaction 🤐

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Clarification 🚹

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Trust Shattered: Who's in the Wrong? 😢💔

After her boyfriend revealed her HIV status to his friends without her knowledge, this woman found herself in an uncomfortable situation at a party. Despite her attempts to educate the friend about her undetectable status and the precautions taken, the confrontation escalated. When she expressed her disappointment in her boyfriend, he refused to admit any wrongdoing. Now, she's left questioning the trust in their relationship. Read on to see how others reacted to this heartbreaking story.

NTA. Commenters express disgust at boyfriend's betrayal of trust and lack of remorse for disclosing OP's private medical information without consent. Encouragement to leave and warnings about potential future harm.

indignant-loris | indignant-loris

Betrayal of trust and safety. NTA. Disclosing HIV status is dangerous 🚨

RafRafRafRaf | RafRafRafRaf

Commenters show support for OP and condemn boyfriend's breach of trust 😔

JEFFinSoCal | JEFFinSoCal

Boyfriend betrays girlfriend's HIV status, calls it 'none of her business'. NTA 💯

scr33nplaythrowaway | scr33nplaythrowaway

Valid to seek advice from friends, but boyfriend should have communicated.

Jorbarip | Jorbarip

Break up with him. He betrayed your trust and privacy. 🚫

johemer | johemer

NTA. Boyfriend betrayed OP's trust, friend badgered her. Take care.

FanDiscombobulated88 | FanDiscombobulated88

BF violated her privacy by revealing HIV status to friends 😱

AccessibleBeige | AccessibleBeige

Ex-boyfriend betrayed her trust by revealing her HIV status 😱

toffee_queen | toffee_queen

Sharing someone's HIV status without consent is outrageous. #NTA

alphorilex | alphorilex

Respect privacy! NTA for wanting to keep HIV status private 🙏

Individual_Ad_9213 | Individual_Ad_9213

Don't let anyone violate your privacy. You're NTA 👏

Lively_Sally | Lively_Sally

Dump him! He broke your trust and disclosed private info 🚩

PerkyPickle | PerkyPickle

Sharing private medical information without consent is not okay 😑

Kiwipecosa | Kiwipecosa

To disclose or not to disclose on the first date? 🤔

AdHistorical3373 | AdHistorical3373

Betrayed by boyfriend who revealed her HIV status to friends. Commenter defends OP as not the a**hole for being upset and boyfriend's actions.

elisa405 | elisa405

Can we really trust anyone these days? 😕

Luggageisnojoke | Luggageisnojoke

Your health is your business, not his to share. NTA 👍

steinmas | steinmas

Sharing someone's private medical information is not acceptable 😑

ProbablyMyJugs | ProbablyMyJugs

Commenter sympathizes with OP and condemns boyfriend's actions. Reply shares personal experience of abuse.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Betrayed by boyfriend who revealed her HIV status to friends 😔

katmindae | katmindae

Dump him! 💔 NTA deserves better than someone who betrays trust.

OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000

Your status, your business. NTA for being upset.

holdthytonguecretin | holdthytonguecretin

Ex-boyfriend violated her privacy and showed no remorse. NTA.

SlinkyMalinky20 | SlinkyMalinky20

Outing someone with HIV is a crime and discrimination 🚨

Manager-Limp | Manager-Limp

Ex-boyfriend? Spill the tea, sis! 💁🏻🤓

Fredredphooey | Fredredphooey

Deserve someone who values you, educates themselves, and shows compassion. 💕

tits-akimbo69 | tits-akimbo69

Disclosing someone's HIV status without consent is a crime 🚨

tenshiii27 | tenshiii27

Partner betrayed trust by revealing HIV status. NTA. Relationship advice.

zadidoll | zadidoll

Boyfriend betrays girlfriend's trust by revealing her HIV status. NTA.

Best_Ad_5959 | Best_Ad_5959

Your health status, your choice to share. Trust broken. 😞

BeautifulQuarter4148 | BeautifulQuarter4148

Commenter stands up for themselves and tells ex to f**k off 💪

wetsocksssss | wetsocksssss

Your medical condition is your business. NTA for being upset.

t0mbr0l0mbr0 | t0mbr0l0mbr0

Standing up for oneself and medical privacy. You go! 💪🏻

paytatoe | paytatoe

🚩 Dump that a**hole ASAP, he doesn't care about you 🏃‍♀️

Tipsytoddlerz | Tipsytoddlerz

Don't let anyone make you feel like your health isn't important ❤

jessie014 | jessie014

Dump him! 🚮 You deserve better. NTA.

Character_Passage_81 | Character_Passage_81

Dating someone who reveals your HIV status is unacceptable. 😡

Listen_Mother | Listen_Mother

Betrayed by boyfriend who revealed her HIV status to friends 😱

Proud_potato_pie | Proud_potato_pie

Dump him! 👋 You deserve someone who respects your privacy. 🙏

Arrogant_Eggplant | Arrogant_Eggplant

Dump the ex-boyfriend! 👋🏻

OaktownPirate | OaktownPirate

NTA. He betrayed her trust and privacy. No excuses allowed. 😡

Loveisaredrose | Loveisaredrose

Dump the slimy, manipulative boyfriend who betrayed your privacy. 🚫

fr0ggyfields | fr0ggyfields

Betrayed by boyfriend for revealing HIV status without permission. Seek support.

Salty_Agent | Salty_Agent

Protect yourself! NTA for feeling betrayed and harassed 😡

Kerlysis | Kerlysis

Being open about HIV status is important, but betrayal is unacceptable. 😡

daphydoods | daphydoods

Why did the boyfriend reveal her HIV status? 🤔

LucyLovesApples | LucyLovesApples

NTA. Boyfriend betrayed trust by revealing HIV status to friends. Leave him. 🚫

Jazzlike_Violinist45 | Jazzlike_Violinist45

Dump him! 🚮 His betrayal is a major red flag.

Spiritual_Drag_9304 | Spiritual_Drag_9304

Seeking advice from friends instead of a doctor? Not cool. NTA 😎

OddEscape2295 | OddEscape2295

Don't look back, just run! 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Dump the douchebag 💔

Dotfromkansas | Dotfromkansas

Heartbreaking betrayal of trust. NTA, you deserve better 💔

RachelWWV | RachelWWV

Partner's betrayal and lack of empathy towards HIV status. 😔

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Betrayed by boyfriend who revealed her HIV status to friends 😡

paleoderek | paleoderek

Your personal medical business is private. Break up with him. 🚫

shadowoflillith | shadowoflillith

Respect privacy. Partner and friend are A-holes. NTA. 🙅

kristimyers72 | kristimyers72

🚩 NTA: Trust violated, red flag waved. Leave for health's sake.

Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes

Double standards? NTA for keeping your private matters private 😎

Tinchotesk | Tinchotesk

👏 NTA stands up to unsupportive BF in HIV status reveal

YellowMouseMouse | YellowMouseMouse

NTA stands up for privacy rights in HIV status betrayal 😱

Kaiisim | Kaiisim

Betrayal of trust. NTA. Consider ending the relationship 😒

HRHArgyll | HRHArgyll

NTA, you have the right to privacy and safety. Run! 🚩⛳️

brwneyedbeauty | brwneyedbeauty

Dump him and run, bbg! 👋 You deserve better.

twisted_sister59 | twisted_sister59

Respect yourself and cut ties with the big-mouthed ex 👋

Prettysuccess88 | Prettysuccess88

Relationship over. NTA for ending it. 😞

minlillabjoern | minlillabjoern

Dump the motherf***er already 💔

kickstand | kickstand

Your health information is private and he betrayed your trust 😡

rapt2right | rapt2right

Protect your privacy and leave him behind. You deserve better. 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Dump him and find someone who respects your privacy 👍

IndependentLeopard95 | IndependentLeopard95

Betrayed by boyfriend: sharing HIV status is a total breach 😱

Mel-day-Luge | Mel-day-Luge

Dump this loser QUICK! 💯 You deserve better. NTA.

sanspeanutbutter | sanspeanutbutter

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