Fiancé's Friends Cross the Line: A Couple's Struggle with Boundaries 😤

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A couple's journey through love and commitment takes an unexpected turn when their friends refuse to respect their boundaries. After six years of dating and a recent engagement, the couple finds themselves struggling with their fiancé's friends who seem to be stuck in a high-school mentality. From showing up unannounced to crashing a romantic dinner, these friends are pushing the limits and testing the couple's patience.

The Engagement and Moving In 🏠

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Friends with No Respect 😒

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Entitlement Over Fiancé 😠

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Invasion of Personal Space 🚫

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Unannounced Visits and Late Nights 🌙

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Peer Pressure and Partying 🍻

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Losing a Job and Seeking Comfort 😞

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A Romantic Surprise Ruined 🍽️

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Friends Crash the Dinner 🤬

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Embarrassment and Anger 😡

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Confrontation and Name-Calling 🗣️

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Were They Too Harsh? 🤔

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Fiancé's Priorities and Balance ⚖️

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A Battle for Boundaries and Respect 😓

As the couple navigates their new life together, they find themselves at odds with their fiancé's friends who refuse to respect their boundaries. From crashing a romantic dinner to name-calling, these friends are pushing the limits. The couple wonders if they were too harsh in their confrontation, but they know their priorities and the importance of balance in their relationship. How will they handle this ongoing struggle? Share your thoughts and reactions below. 👇

Fiancé's friends cause chaos at restaurant, NTA for being upset. 😤

Jonsotheraccount79 | Jonsotheraccount79

Communicate your discomfort to your fiance, NTA 👍

Glass_Chance9800 | Glass_Chance9800

NTA comment calls out disrespectful friends and their childish behavior 😤

insertcommonname | insertcommonname

Support your partner, but don't get involved with his friends 🙏

perfectsmoot | perfectsmoot

Friends cross the line, crash couple's dinner, and call her a b***h 😠. OP stands up and calls them out. NTA 👍

Cat_got_ya_tongue | Cat_got_ya_tongue

Fiancé needs to set boundaries with friends, not OP's responsibility 🙏

iopele | iopele

Fiancé's lack of boundaries with friends causes couple's struggle. 😔

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Fiancé stands up to disrespectful friends, sets boundaries 🙅‍♂️

Deternet | Deternet

Fiancé's friends need to grow up, NTA 👍

Maelienydd_Cymru | Maelienydd_Cymru

Fiancé's oversharing leads to friends crossing the line 😒

20Keller12 | 20Keller12

Find out why this commenter thinks the fiancé needs new friends 😒

EddaValkyrie | EddaValkyrie

Fiancé's friends won't respect boundaries, NTA. 🚫🙅‍♂️

gw2kpro | gw2kpro

Setting boundaries with friends can be tough, but NTA handled it like a boss 🤘

SilverSnakes8 | SilverSnakes8

Fiancé's friends behaving badly? NTA for setting boundaries 🙌

Weskit | Weskit

Setting boundaries with friends? Not the a**hole! 👏

SmoothLikeVmin | SmoothLikeVmin

Fiancé's friends bring booze to restaurant, commenter calls them trashy. 😬

Gauloises_Foucault | Gauloises_Foucault

Transitioning from a party lifestyle to married life can be tough 😢

MandyB1721 | MandyB1721

Setting boundaries is key. Good job standing up for yourself! 💪

manofmatt | manofmatt

Respecting boundaries is key for a healthy relationship 👍

Alseids | Alseids

Fiancé's friends need to back off and respect boundaries 😒

SprSnkySnickerdoodle | SprSnkySnickerdoodle

Set boundaries and don't invite them to your wedding 🙏

SmoochNo | SmoochNo

Setting boundaries is key 🔑, but fiancé needs to step up ⬆️

Vena_Mala | Vena_Mala

Respect is key 👍🏼. NTA handled it well.

Murderbunny13 | Murderbunny13

Fiancé's friends disrespect couple, NTA suggests ending toxic friendship 🙌

Mahliki | Mahliki

Cutting ties with old friends: NTA for moving on 👍

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Friends pressuring fiancé to go out clubbing, suspicious intentions 🤔

melympia | melympia

Setting boundaries with toxic friends 👋🏼

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Commenter compares fiancé to character from It's Always Sunny. NTA.

AdministrativeEnd140 | AdministrativeEnd140

NTA, but fiancé needs to set hard boundaries with his friends 🙏

Redheadedmommaof2 | Redheadedmommaof2

Don't be like these friends, pick up interesting hobbies! 🤔

wenchslapper | wenchslapper

NTA - Toxic friends? Drop them like a hot potato 🤪

HarnessMeDesignsOUB | HarnessMeDesignsOUB

Standing up to controlling friends, NTA takes charge 💪

Process-Prestigious | Process-Prestigious

Commenter sympathizes with OP, slams fiancé's immature friends 💯

Schnitzel_Chicken | Schnitzel_Chicken

Maturity levels differ, VLC with friends for now. Good luck! 😊

BupycA | BupycA

Mature couple struggles with immature friends who disrespect boundaries 😤

Dangerous_Beans74 | Dangerous_Beans74

Toxic friends? Cut them out! NTA for setting boundaries 🙌

Silent_Shadow123 | Silent_Shadow123

NTA. Friends crash intimate dinner, fiance stands up for partner. 😊

faeriechyld | faeriechyld

Setting boundaries with friends can be tough, but NTA! 🙌

BeTheCheeto | BeTheCheeto

👍 Not the a**hole! Fiancé's friends are being jerks.

Icy_Push3877 | Icy_Push3877

NTA's friends lack boundaries, causing stress and disrespect. Beware wedding!

Least_You_295 | Least_You_295

Single guys overstepping boundaries? NTA for setting limits 😎

CoacoaBunny91 | CoacoaBunny91

Toxic friends? NTA. They seem jealous and mean-spirited 😒

BlueGreenOcean21 | BlueGreenOcean21

NTA. Fiancé's childish friends embarrass couple at favorite restaurant 🤦‍♀️

PanamaViejo | PanamaViejo

Couple receives support and advice on setting friend boundaries 👍

bibbiddybobbidyboo | bibbiddybobbidyboo

NTA! 🙌 Setting boundaries with friends can be tough.

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Setting boundaries with friends can be tough 😔

ZFG_Jerky | ZFG_Jerky

Fiancé's friends crossed the line, mutual friends sided with them 😒

Pocker91 | Pocker91

Fiancé's friends cross the line, but NTA. 🤯

eye_patch_willy | eye_patch_willy

Outgrowing friends can be tough, but sometimes necessary 😊

srinkhala | srinkhala

Jealous friends disrespecting boundaries? NTA, call them out! 🙌

SarHoLo | SarHoLo

Fiancé's friends cross the line. NTA, but red flag? 🚩

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Dealing with obnoxious neighbors who never grew up 😒

The_Essex | The_Essex

NTA. OP stands up to friends' childish harassment after engagement 👏

usernaym44 | usernaym44

👍 Fiancé's friends need to go, new friends needed ASAP

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Fiancé's lack of boundaries with friends causes trouble. 🤔

DarkSkyStarDance | DarkSkyStarDance

Setting boundaries with friends? Not the a**hole! 👏

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Growing apart from friends is natural 🌱

yatzhie04 | yatzhie04

Setting boundaries is important, NTA. Let your fiancé handle it 👍

fmlwhateven | fmlwhateven

Set boundaries with toxic friends before the wedding 🙏

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Partner's friends gave him grief for having boundaries, now intimidated by me 😎

Randygilesforpres | Randygilesforpres

🍻 Friends or alcoholics? A comment on unhealthy boundaries.

DogFabulous4486 | DogFabulous4486

Fiancé's friends cross the line. Commenter says NTA with shock.

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Fiancé's friends crossed the line, but NTA. Better friends needed 😊

StickAppropriate1093 | StickAppropriate1093

Setting boundaries: A couple's triumph over pushy friends 🙌

thezatch2 | thezatch2

Fiancé's friends can't accept his maturity, blame fiancée for change. 😑

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Setting boundaries can be tough, but NTA for standing firm 💪

Remdog58 | Remdog58

Setting boundaries with toxic friends 🙌

brainfreeze4445 | brainfreeze4445

Protect your partner from toxic friends 👍

FiestySpitfire | FiestySpitfire

Fiancé's friends need to grow up! 🙄

debid4716 | debid4716

Setting boundaries with friends? Not the a**hole! 👏

Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612

Fiancé's friends need to grow up 😒

elementaldecision | elementaldecision

Fiancé's friends invade romantic dinner, NTA but fiancé overshared 🤐

LifeAsksAITA | LifeAsksAITA

Dump the toxic friends, not the fiancé! 💯

Electrical_Power_777 | Electrical_Power_777

Fiancé's friends overstep boundaries, but was it avoidable? 🤔

carissadraws | carissadraws

Fiancé's friends crossing the line? NTA stands up for himself.

johnny9k | johnny9k

Take control of your home, and have a serious talk 👍

Scarletzoe | Scarletzoe

Setting boundaries with friends can be tough, but necessary. 🙅‍♀️

Gnomepowah | Gnomepowah

Setting boundaries with friends can be tricky 🤔

Michalusmichalus | Michalusmichalus

Fiancé's friends harass couple at dinner and follow them home. NTA 😡

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

Setting boundaries is key, glad you're not the a**hole 👍

Violet351 | Violet351

Setting boundaries with childish friends, NTA. 😊

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