Woman Donates Baby Items Meant for Sister-in-Law's Child 😲

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A woman and her wife were excited to adopt their sister-in-law's baby, only to face a heartbreaking betrayal. After years of trying to conceive and facing the challenges of same-sex couple adoption, they thought their dreams of parenthood were finally coming true. However, their world came crashing down when their sister-in-law changed her mind and revealed her true intentions. In a moment of anger and frustration, the woman donated all the baby items they had prepared for the child. Now, she's left wondering if she did the right thing.

A Long Journey to Parenthood 🌈

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Adoption Hopes Dashed 💔

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A Ray of Hope 🌟

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A Generous Offer 🤗

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Supporting the Pregnancy 💸

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A Heartbreaking Decision 😢

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Devastation and Compassion 💔

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A Shocking Revelation 😱

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Anger and Betrayal 😡

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A Wife's Disappointment 😞

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Family Drama Unleashed 🌪️

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A Mother's Plea for Help 🙏

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Guilt and Confusion 😔

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Seeking Answers 🤔

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A Family Torn Apart: What's Next? 💔

After the shocking betrayal and emotional rollercoaster, the woman is left questioning her actions. She wonders if she was wrong to donate the baby items meant for her sister-in-law's child. As the family drama unfolds, they must navigate the aftermath and decide how to move forward. Will they find a way to heal and support each other, or will the rift between them grow even deeper? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments. 👇

Donated baby items to SIL who manipulated and took advantage. NTA.

wtfamidoingheredude | wtfamidoingheredude

NTA- SIL is an awful person. She stole from you and now wants to live off your money. But OP is conflicted about punishing the innocent baby.

Kellymargaret | Kellymargaret

Donating baby items to a shelter after sister-in-law's deception. NTA 👏

Penguinlaurent | Penguinlaurent

NTA for not giving baby items to evil sister-in-law, but YTA for getting rid of them without discussing with your wife. 🤔

ghostcraft33 | ghostcraft33

Standing up to a selfish, homophobic con artist. 💪

throwawyflatdilemma | throwawyflatdilemma

User sympathizes with OP's situation and criticizes SIL's deceitful behavior.

Princesstiy | Princesstiy

NTA, SIL's actions were despicable and you were manipulated. 🤬

Nah7777 | Nah7777

Heartbreaking betrayal by SIL, but NTA. Seek therapy for healing.

ebwoods1 | ebwoods1

NTA for donating baby items after sister-in-law's betrayal 😲

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Donating baby items meant for SIL's child, seeking legal advice. 😲

ragandbonewoman | ragandbonewoman

Heartbreaking adoption scam, NTA for donating baby items. 😢

Hrbiie | Hrbiie

NTA! Don't let them guilt you. Absolutely cruel 😱

usernameawesome1 | usernameawesome1

Donating baby items was justified, SIL used OP and wife

Thegeekinpink92 | Thegeekinpink92

User receives support after donating baby items meant for SIL's child 🙌

Laylilay | Laylilay

Couple disagrees on baby items donation, family drama ensues 🤷‍♂️

bluebell435 | bluebell435

Donated baby items cause family drama. ESH for throwing away.

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NTA. SIL and MIL conned you and your wife. Babies can thrive with less. Wife may need therapy for co-dependence.

lonnielee3 | lonnielee3

Generous donation sparks debate on family entitlement 🤔

Consistent-Leopard71 | Consistent-Leopard71

Generous gesture or justified action? NTA donates baby items 🎉

PeekaB00_ | PeekaB00_

Don't be an a**hole, but make her pay for it 😉

kdkincaid | kdkincaid

NTA for exposing sister-in-law's scam, therapy recommended for wife.

chlo3chlo8803 | chlo3chlo8803

Heartbreaking situation. NTA. Cut them off for your own sake.

KalidaF | KalidaF

SIL drama! NTA for not helping her with baby items 😲

chantvl | chantvl

NTA. Commenter advises protecting oneself and getting counseling for wife.

ALH5826 | ALH5826

Donating baby items meant for sister-in-law's child: NTA x 1000

Nikki3to | Nikki3to

Commenter exposes hypocrisy of judgmental single mom. 😂

yarrrjun | yarrrjun

SIL relies on OP for baby items but questions their readiness 🤔

__goldenroses | __goldenroses

Supportive comment defends OP against sister-in-law's harsh words 👏

all__my_S0rr0w | all__my_S0rr0w

Don't owe her anything 🙄. NTA for sure.

Cosmicshimmer | Cosmicshimmer

Cutting off toxic sister-in-law who donated baby items. NTA.

Amythist35 | Amythist35

Generous gesture, but wife's feelings should have been considered 😕

WebbieVanderquack | WebbieVanderquack

Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests therapy for wife. 😠

notastepfordwife | notastepfordwife

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in religious family's actions 😲

thedaybefore1 | thedaybefore1

Unilateral decision out of spite. YTA. Discuss with wife 🙄

Bubbledbacteria | Bubbledbacteria

Support for not being the a**hole, wife needs to stop agreeing 👍

TheDoNothings | TheDoNothings

Don't let SIL take advantage of your grief. Cut her off. 👊

apparentwhore | apparentwhore

Commenter sympathizes with OP's situation. 😢

HollyGoLately | HollyGoLately

Heartbreaking situation, but NTA. Therapy can help with healing and future plans. 😢

MBMBaMary | MBMBaMary

Commenter sympathizes with OP, suggests couple get help to avoid resentment 🙏

Dianachick | Dianachick

Donated baby items meant for SIL, MIL guilted OP, ESH.

ShadowsObserver | ShadowsObserver

Donating baby items was a good deed, don't feel guilty 🙌

Unxceptional | Unxceptional

Donating baby items to a homeless shelter, NTA wins!

keatonpotat0es | keatonpotat0es

Heartbreaking betrayal by sister-in-law, sending love and support 💕

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Donating baby items doesn't obligate you to support the child. 💁‍♀️

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SIL's plan backfires, OP not the a**hole for not helping

rmric0 | rmric0

Donating baby items doesn't obligate you to spend more. NTA 😊

ajyikes123 | ajyikes123

Donating baby items meant for sil's child. NTA, set legal boundaries.

LillytheFurkid | LillytheFurkid

Heartbreaking betrayal, but your kindness will bring joy to others 😢

abcwva | abcwva

Commenter shames woman for donating baby items to vulnerable couple 🤯

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Don't dish it if you can't take it 😒 NTA

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Empathetic comment acknowledges loss and supports donation decision 😢

Talk-Material | Talk-Material

Commenter shames SIL for having a child out of wedlock. NTA.

plumbus_hun | plumbus_hun

Donating baby items to a shelter instead of selfish SIL 👏

amcditto | amcditto

Supportive comment predicts rocky road ahead for couple 😔

ToshenRaz | ToshenRaz

Donated baby items, but sister-in-law grifted them into funding everything. NTA.

dart1126 | dart1126

Donating baby items not meant for sister-in-law's child 😱

crybabyauror | crybabyauror

Standing up for yourself when someone breaks their promise 💪

Neko_09 | Neko_09

Donating baby items meant for sister-in-law, NTA wins

Thebestomarb | Thebestomarb

Generous gift-giving backfires, but OP is NTA 😊

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Donating baby items to sister-in-law who kept baby? NTA.

skullkittys | skullkittys

Don't let guilt force you into a toxic relationship 🙏

spindacinda | spindacinda

Sister-in-law is TA, NTA for donating baby items 🙌

MeowGirly | MeowGirly

Donating baby items meant for sister-in-law's child - NTA

Nanadaquiri | Nanadaquiri

Supportive comment calling out SIL's cruelty and suggesting boundaries.

babytroll457 | babytroll457

NTA, SIL used and gaslighted you. You paid expenses in good faith 👏

DeepTie6252 | DeepTie6252

Supportive commenters encourage OP to create a family of their own 🙌

loup06 | loup06

Standing up to gaslighting and helping those in need 👏

jjrb33 | jjrb33

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