Granddaughter's Secret Wedding Revelation Leaves Grandpa Stunned 😲💍

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A young woman in her late 20s found herself in a tricky situation after her recent wedding. She and her wife had been together for four years before tying the knot in a low-key courthouse ceremony. However, she had not come out to her extended family, including her grandparents. After her grandmother passed away, she decided to reveal her relationship on social media, but it seems her grandpa remained in the dark. The truth came out during a family gathering, leaving her to wonder if she should have been more explicit about her marriage.

A Low-Key Wedding 💍

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Hiding the Relationship 👩‍❤️‍👩

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Grandpa in the Dark 🤔

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Introducing the Wife 🤝

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Sharing the News on Social Media 📱

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Family's Positive Response 🎉

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The Family Gathering 🎄

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The Revelation 😲

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Assuming Grandpa Knew 🤷

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Mom's Disapproval 😔

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Wife's Support 💕

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Should She Have Told Him? 🤔

The young woman's grandpa discovered her secret marriage to another woman during a family gathering, leaving her to question if she should have been more explicit about her relationship. Her mom believes it was her responsibility to inform her grandpa, while her wife and friends think it's not her duty to ensure everyone knows. As the family navigates this revelation, the question remains: should she have told her grandpa directly? Share your thoughts and reactions below. 👇

Weekly calls with grandpa but didn't tell him about wedding 😬

niamhk13 | niamhk13

Wedding photos and cards count as telling grandpa. NTA 👍

Sensitive_Ad_1063 | Sensitive_Ad_1063

Mild YTA for not telling your grandfather personally about your marriage.

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Grandpa missed the wedding news. Commenter suggests granddaughter should've told him.

serenwipiti | serenwipiti

Granddaughter's failure to properly introduce wife to grandpa sparks debate. 🤔

rusty0123 | rusty0123

Coming out is hard and emotional, but NAH for not outing.

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Grandpa's surprise at secret wedding reveals family communication issues 😕

NoApollonia | NoApollonia

Grandpa left in the dark about granddaughter's wedding 😲

adultvelcro | adultvelcro

Grandpa misses subtle hints, but guys need things spelled out 😏

Yellowsunflowerlover | Yellowsunflowerlover

Granddaughter's secret wedding leaves grandpa stunned. Commenter calls YTA.

Playful-Rice-2122 | Playful-Rice-2122

Hiding a spouse from a kind family member? YTA 🤨

ArtemistheFartimus | ArtemistheFartimus

OP is YTA for not telling grandpa about wedding 😕

LongLiveTheBBS | LongLiveTheBBS

User sympathizes with OP's mom's situation and suggests reaching out 😊

sarabeara12345678910 | sarabeara12345678910

Dealing with family reactions to same-sex relationships can be tough 💔

ferdibarda | ferdibarda

Poster is mildly in the wrong for not telling grandpa.

amalgamas | amalgamas

Granddaughter's secret wedding revelation hurts grandpa's feelings. YTA. 😢

Medievalmoomin | Medievalmoomin

Respect for privacy in queer relationships 🏳️‍🌈

InsignificantWitch | InsignificantWitch

Navigating coming out to family is tough, YTA with caveats.

OftheSea95 | OftheSea95

OP receives a mild YTA for not being open with grandpa 😐

LieutenantChub | LieutenantChub

Defending against judgmental comments with NTA and a fiery emoji.

sneakygingertroll | sneakygingertroll

Grandpa's hurt, but mom's the only a**hole here. NTA 👍

Not_Cleaver | Not_Cleaver

Spouse honesty matters: Grandpa learns from soft YTA judgment.

Troyler4Life | Troyler4Life

Grandpa left in the dark about granddaughter's wedding, unintentional YTA.

maddr_lurker | maddr_lurker

Don't owe anyone coming out. NTA. Assume nothing. 👍

CAiledroC | CAiledroC

Granddaughter's social media reveal of secret wedding receives YTA judgement.

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Congratulations on your marriage! YTA for not telling grandpa directly.

LocalHeathen | LocalHeathen

Share your joy with those who matter, forget the haters! 😊

horsendogguy | horsendogguy

A simple comparison that highlights the absurdity of the situation 😂

stouffers3 | stouffers3

Homophobic grandpa gets put in his place. NTA 👏

big_nkrumah | big_nkrumah

Grandpa not fully comfortable with granddaughter's gay marriage, NTA.

Skyward93 | Skyward93

Breaking down societal norms with a powerful NTA comment 💪

prodbudddwyer | prodbudddwyer

Comment calls out lowkey homophobia in a humorous way 😂

HeyItsLane_SL | HeyItsLane_SL

Find support and humor in r/sapphoandherfriend subreddit. NTA.

haha_squirrel | haha_squirrel

Grandpa gets a surprise, but commenter is unimpressed 😒

AbbyFeedsCats | AbbyFeedsCats

Support for granddaughter's wedding, but hurt grandpa needs attention 😢

babylizardking | babylizardking

Taking responsibility for a secret wedding gone wrong 😔

StainlessHinge | StainlessHinge

Mother kept wedding secret from grandpa, commenter not at fault

redlizt | redlizt

Grandpa learns of secret wedding, commenter defends NTA stance.

zippy_zaboo | zippy_zaboo

Be true to yourself and forget about pleasing others. 👍

CopsaLau | CopsaLau

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