Sister Threatens to 'Ruin' Wedding as Payback 😱 Can She Be Trusted?

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Three years ago, a woman's ex-boyfriend proposed to her during her sister's wedding, causing a scene and leaving a lasting impact. Now, as the woman plans her own wedding, her sister has been 'joking' about getting payback by ruining the big day. Despite multiple apologies, the grudge seems to persist, and the bride-to-be is left wondering whether to invite her sister or risk a potential disaster.

The Unwanted Proposal 💍

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Apologies and Grudges 😔

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A New Engagement 💕

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Confronting the 'Jokes' 🤨

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Unending Grudge 😠

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A Mother's Advice 🙁

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The Big Dilemma 🤔

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Mum's Stance ✊

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An Ultimatum 😨

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To Invite or Not to Invite? 🤷

Caught between her sister's grudge and her mother's ultimatum, this bride-to-be faces a difficult decision. Should she risk inviting her sister, who may or may not be joking about ruining the wedding, or stand her ground and potentially lose her mother's support? Share your thoughts and reactions below. 👇

NTA - Sister blames wrong person for ex's behavior at wedding 😑

Cleromanticon | Cleromanticon

Consider eloping to avoid sister's potential wedding day drama 🙏

purple-vixen | purple-vixen

AlunWH | AlunWH

EleanorOfAquitaine- | EleanorOfAquitaine-

NTA, but invite the sister and include her in planning with backup security.

theaardvarkoflore | theaardvarkoflore

Prevent wedding drama with a family tradition of sharing news 👍

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McSuzy | McSuzy

Llyndreth | Llyndreth

Elope and blame COVID! Don't let your sister ruin it 😱

OliveAF | OliveAF

Rejected public proposal leads to sister's wedding threat 😱

Lemursrevenge | Lemursrevenge

Cutting ties with toxic family for a drama-free wedding 🙌

NedryIsInSector1104 | NedryIsInSector1104

Sister's 'joke' threats to ruin wedding, BIL's reaction questioned 🤔

letstrythisagain30 | letstrythisagain30

Don't let her ruin your day, embrace the chaos 😅

BenjaminaPugsington | BenjaminaPugsington

Sister threatens to ruin wedding, but OP's not the A-hole 🙅‍♀️

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Bride-to-be hesitant to invite vengeful sister to wedding 😱

NannyOggsKnickers | NannyOggsKnickers

Sister threatens to ruin wedding over ex's proposal. NTA.

eatmoreunicorns | eatmoreunicorns

Sister won't let go of past mistake. Suggest therapy. NTA 🙏

breakfastpitchblende | breakfastpitchblende

Petty sister threatens wedding, innocent parties beware 😱

EvenSpoonier | EvenSpoonier

Avoiding wedding drama with elopement 🙌

Expialidociousya | Expialidociousya

Commenter sympathizes with OP's family struggles 😢

ellsmomma | ellsmomma

NTA. Revenge is heinous. Consider serious talk with venue manager.

HelpMeUpPls | HelpMeUpPls

Bride-to-be stands up to sister's wedding day threats 😍

amitathrowa | amitathrowa

Invite her or not? YTA if you don't, but can she be trusted? 🤔

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Invite sister to altar to prevent wedding sabotage 😎

ninaa1 | ninaa1

Wedding drama with sister, but NTA and two years ahead.

pumpkin_mocha_ | pumpkin_mocha_

Sister seeks revenge on wedding day, but not her ex's? 🤔

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Don't let her ruin your day! NTA, trust your gut.

occamsrazor2020 | occamsrazor2020

Sister wants revenge on her sister's wedding day 😱

MarsNirgal | MarsNirgal

Sister threatens to ruin wedding as payback. NTA stands firm.

Moonshae295 | Moonshae295

Sister threatens to ruin wedding as payback. NTA, don't invite her.

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Mom threatens not to attend if sis not invited, NTA.

carolyn609 | carolyn609

Don't risk it! WNBTA and may ruin your special day 😱

Snoo_33553 | Snoo_33553

Elope for a stress-free wedding day 😍

HennyLaBank | HennyLaBank

Supportive comment advises talking to sister and uninviting if necessary

Illustrious-Band-537 | Illustrious-Band-537

Confrontation may be necessary to clear the air 🙌

elizabethjanet | elizabethjanet

Take control of your wedding toast and beat your sister!

turtlelife1 | turtlelife1

Sister threatens to ruin wedding, but OP is NTA. Elopement?

scarletfeline | scarletfeline

Did the sister plan the proposal at her wedding? 🤔

Aesient | Aesient

Sister's grudge threatens wedding, but OP not at fault. NTA.

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Sister threatens to ruin wedding over past incident, NTA needs security 😱

SsSailorScout | SsSailorScout

Don't let petty revenge ruin your big day 👰🏻🎁 Focus on love and ignore the sprinkles 🍰

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Turn the tables and make her antics a memorable moment 😎

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Be the bigger person, invite her, and don't stoop down.

rafster929 | rafster929

Sister blames bride for ruining wedding like blaming victim of shooting 🤯

Shogun_Turnip | Shogun_Turnip

Sibling drama at weddings 😱 Who's really to blame?

obeesitee | obeesitee

Eloping seems like the best course of action 💍

THEMAYORRETURNS | THEMAYORRETURNS

Take control of your wedding day, NTA. 👏

cdaisycrochet | cdaisycrochet

Eloping may be the best plan. Don't let your sister ruin it 🙏

YdoUNeed2No | YdoUNeed2No

Elope for a special, private and drama-free wedding day 😍

YourBroadwayBaby | YourBroadwayBaby

Commenter defends OP's actions with a witty analogy 😂

MysticAviator | MysticAviator

Commenter sympathizes with OP and slams their mom 👏

WeeDoddle | WeeDoddle

Sister threatens to ruin wedding over one bad proposal 😱

karenrn64 | karenrn64

Elope and renew vows later to avoid sister's potential sabotage 🙌

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Sister's revenge plan backfires. Commenters side with bride. NTA

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