When a woman's brother came out as gay, she didn't expect him to treat his wife and kids the way he did. He ignored his kids and berated his wife, and even kicked her out of the house with their twin toddlers. The woman was disgusted by her brother's behavior and told him so. However, her sisters think she's being homophobic, while her mom agrees with her. What do you think? Read on to find out more.
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A woman disowned her brother after he kicked out his wife and two toddlers from their home after coming out as gay. He had apparently been having affairs with multiple men from Grindr, and expressed his anger towards his wife for not being supportive. His sister, who is close to the wife, called him out for his behavior and told him that he was treating his wife disgustingly. However, he called her a homophobic a**hole and continued to post unfaithful comments about his wife on social media. The woman is now questioning whether she's the one in the wrong, but her mom is on her side. The situation is messy, and the woman is struggling to stay neutral. Read on for some reactions from the internet community.
NTA. Gay brother using his coming out as a weapon is selfish. Cheating and treating his wife and kids poorly is a betrayal. Support sister finding a good lawyer.
descolero | descolero
Cheating on spouse, not being gay, makes him an a**hole 😡
Yulaw95 | Yulaw95
NTA. Disowning a sibling for poor treatment of their spouse.
bethfromHR | bethfromHR
NTA. Take responsibility for your actions. Don't blame your wife.
Pengwuini | Pengwuini
Brother's poor behavior causes family rift after coming out as gay 🌈
Peemo83 | Peemo83
Call out his infidelities, help SIL with legal and welfare assistance.
SunflowerQueen420 | SunflowerQueen420
Outing someone is never the solution, but he deserves consequences. 💔
Deranged_Papaya | Deranged_Papaya
NTA for calling out brother's unacceptable behavior towards his wife 🌈
greylikesplants | greylikesplants
Commenter calls out brother's unacceptable behavior, shuts down 'homophobic' label.
koifishyfishy | koifishyfishy
Standing up against bigotry, not sexual orientation. 👏
xanif | xanif
Supporting the wife is crucial. Don't let lies divide family. 👍
just1here | just1here
🤣 Hilarious response to brother's behavior after coming out
weedlover2 | weedlover2
Gay person explains why being gay doesn't absolve wrongdoing 🏳️🌈
ShimShamFimFam | ShimShamFimFam
Cutting contact with gay brother for bad behavior, NTA. 🚨
MC_squaredJL | MC_squaredJL
Commenter calls out for self-reflection, no replies.
FenderBender43 | FenderBender43
Calling out bad behavior has nothing to do with sexuality 👍
fabulousautie | fabulousautie
Calling out bad behavior, not sexual orientation, is important. 👍
90yroldknees | 90yroldknees
Woman deserves half of the house and legal counsel. 👏
Spookyredd | Spookyredd
Commenter calls out brother's behavior in a cheeky way 💁♀️
Owenn04 | Owenn04
Sleeping around while married? 🤢 NTA takes action.
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Brother's sexuality shouldn't excuse treating his wife poorly. NTA.
shyfungus | shyfungus
Commenter defends sister's decision to disown homophobic brother.
SpiritualMouth | SpiritualMouth
Expose the cheater, not the sexuality. Honesty is key.
DisruptedMatrix | DisruptedMatrix
Redditors express frustration with frequent validation-seeking posts.
hughesyy94 | hughesyy94
Support for NTA brother dealing with a difficult situation.
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Acceptance of sexuality ≠ Acceptance of bad behavior 🌈
Shertok | Shertok
Commenter relates to disowning gay brother, denounces brother's behavior 👎
q1t0 | q1t0
Supporting family doesn't mean tolerating bad behavior 👏
Extreme_Resident | Extreme_Resident
Sexuality doesn't excuse bad behavior 🚫🏳️🌈
xaygoat | xaygoat
Taking a stand for what's right 🌈👏
metal_signal17 | metal_signal17
Support for disowning gay brother for cheating on wife.
cowswithnouns | cowswithnouns
🏳️🌈👏 Standing up for oneself and others - NTA
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LGBTQ+ commenter calls out family's revolting behavior. NTA 🌈
Purrvival_mode | Purrvival_mode
Judgment based on actions, not sexuality. NTA 🙅♀️
KeliGrein | KeliGrein
Commenter supports NTA judgement and criticizes cheater's behavior 🤢
FPSXpert | FPSXpert
Pansexual commenter calls out gay brother's poor behavior towards wife. NTA.
Tigaget | Tigaget
Gay man sympathizes with brother's struggle but acknowledges his behavior is wrong.
djdmed90 | djdmed90
Legal action needed to protect family from eviction threat 👨👩👧👦⚖️
kavalejava | kavalejava
Commenter supports the disowning of gay brother. 😕
DropsOfLiquid | DropsOfLiquid
Commenter supports disowning gay brother for being a 'f***ass'
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Commenter calls out brother for cheating and being an AH 🚫👬💔
spud_gun04 | spud_gun04
Commenter poses thought-provoking scenario to highlight double standards 🤔
avast2006 | avast2006
Commenter defends NTA verdict with a touch of humor 🤣
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Cheating doesn't justify using sexuality as a weapon. #NTA 🚫️
standardgeranium | standardgeranium
Brother's mistreatment of wife after coming out draws criticism.
Vivid_Intention | Vivid_Intention
Exploring sexuality doesn't excuse cheating. NTA for disowning him.
quzooh | quzooh
Breaking the stereotype: addressing misogyny within the LGBTQ+ community 🌈
BaddestPatsy | BaddestPatsy
Respondent defends commenter against false accusations of homophobia 🌈
ladidah_whoopa | ladidah_whoopa
NTA. Brother's sexuality doesn't excuse cheating, abuse & blaming wife.
suavislupa7 | suavislupa7
