A stepdad has had enough of his disrespectful stepdaughter’s behavior towards him. Despite buying her birthday presents and gifts, she still thanks her father who does nothing for her. The stepdad has decided to stop paying for anything she needs or wants, stating he won’t tolerate disrespect while still being financially responsible. His wife disagrees, but he’s reached his limit. Read on to find out what others have to say about his decision.
Stepdad’s struggle to win over disrespectful stepdaughter amidst addiction issues

Stepdad’s struggle with entitled stepdaughter’s false beliefs ♂️

Dealing with a disrespectful stepdaughter who’s rude to everyone

Stepdad’s struggles to discipline stepdaughter despite buying her gifts

Stepdad frustrated with disrespectful stepdaughter, stops paying for things

Navigating step-parenting woes and boundaries. AITA judgement needed.

Stepdad takes steps to address stepdaughter’s disrespect and behavior

Stepdad at his limit with rude stepdaughter
Being a stepparent comes with its own unique challenges, but dealing with a disrespectful stepchild can be especially difficult. In this post, a stepfather has reached his breaking point with his 14-year-old stepdaughter, who not only disrespects him but also other people in her life. Despite his best efforts to provide for her and show her love, she continues to believe that her real father is better, even though he is not present in her life and has a drug addiction. The stepfather has decided that he can no longer tolerate her behavior and has stopped paying for her wants and needs. While his wife disagrees, he believes that he cannot continue to be financially responsible for someone who shows him such disrespect. As he seeks advice from the internet, he also acknowledges that he needs to be more patient and seek therapy for his stepdaughter. Read on to see what advice the commenters have to offer in this delicate situation.
Stepdad accused of lying about buying things for stepdaughter.

Stepdad sets boundaries with entitled stepdaughter. NTA

Stepdad seeks advice on troubled stepdaughter, therapy recommended, empathy needed ❤️

Stepdad struggles with stepdaughter’s trust issues

Disrespectful stepdaughter idolizing her father, possible family therapy solution

Cutting contact with bio dad may not be the best idea
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Stepdad’s neglectful behavior towards stepdaughter earns him a YTA verdict.

Being a stepparent is hard, but quitting is not an option

Stepdad sets boundaries with disrespectful stepdaughter, sparks debate.

Parenting is tough, but teens can be tougher ♂️

Finding a different way to handle the situation

Listen to your stepdaughter and work it out together
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Suggesting family counseling for underlying issues

Money matters? Commenters curious about OP’s financial situation

Stepdad needs to show empathy for struggling stepdaughter in therapy.

Stepdad faces disrespect from stepdaughter and seeks advice. Replies suggest guidance over punishment.

Stepdad not at fault for stepdaughter’s disbelief in his gifts

Spend quality time with her, not just buying gifts

Stepdad stands up to disrespectful stepdaughter, gets support from commenters

Dealing with a disrespectful stepdaughter who needs therapy.

Helping stepdaughter with issues: counselor needed for family conflicts.

Stepdad sets boundaries with entitled stepdaughter. ♂️

Commenter defends stepdaughter, suggests therapy for both parties.

Stepdad’s actions may worsen stepdaughter’s insecurity. Gentle YTA.

Stepdad not obligated to provide stepdaughter’s wants

Commenter defends stepdaughter and suggests therapy and family support.

A 14-year-old’s struggle with a blended family and divorce
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Taking away the phone: a lesson in consequences
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Stop buying her things . Stay strong against her mother’s influence.

Commenter advises stepdad to not cut off disrespectful stepdaughter.

Stepdad takes tough love approach with entitled stepdaughter ♂️

Stepdad not at fault, but mom needs to step up ⚖️

When child support creates tension

Understanding and empathy for troubled stepdaughter

Parenting a troubled teen is tough, but empathy is key ❤️
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Stepdad struggles with disrespectful stepdaughter, seeks compassionate solution ❤️

Setting boundaries is important, but basic needs should still be met. ✅

Stepdad struggling to connect with stepdaughter in denial about family changes.

Take control of the situation, cancel the plan and save money

Stepdad stands up to disrespectful stepdaughter. NTA
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Stepdad struggles with stepdaughter’s disrespect and boundaries. ESH.

Curious about stepdad’s intentions, sparks fly in comments

Supporting a troubled family member is like maintaining medication

Experienced stepdad shares insights on raising damaged children

Commenter urges stepdad to seek help in parenting troubled stepdaughter

Stepdad questions wife’s motives in disrespectful stepdaughter situation

Empathetic comment acknowledges stepdaughter’s emotional struggles ❤️.

Patience in therapy and open communication for blended families.

Commenter suggests therapy for dysfunctional stepdaughter, advises patience

Stepdad shows empathy towards stepdaughter, suggests therapy for her denial.

Ungrateful stepdaughter gets rewarded with phone.
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Stepdad sets boundaries for entitled stepdaughter’s behavior

A reply to a stepdad calling him an a**hole for not being there for his struggling 14-year-old stepdaughter. The comment highlights the challenges of being a stepparent and urges him to keep going and be a parent to her.

Navigating step-parenting and trauma, bio dad is the real a-hole

Stepdad struggles with stepdaughter’s behavior and parenting role

Setting boundaries with a bratty stepdaughter: NTA

Therapy takes time, not days. Don’t give up hope
