A woman is upset that her family chose her step-sister's wedding over her daughter's first birthday party. Despite the party being held earlier in the day, most of her family members RSVPed no due to the wedding and travel. The woman refused to change the date and is angry that her mother is prioritizing her step-daughter over her own grandchild. Read on to find out what happened and who Reddit thinks is the a**hole.
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Family dynamics can be complicated, especially when step-siblings are involved. In this case, a Reddit user is wondering if they are the a**hole for not changing their daughter's birthday party date to accommodate their step-sister's wedding. The user has no relationship with their step-sister and feels like their own daughter should be the priority. However, their mother and other family members have chosen to attend the wedding instead of the birthday party, leaving the user and their daughter feeling left out. This situation raises the question of what takes priority in family events and if step-siblings should be treated the same as biological siblings. Is it fair for the user's mother to prioritize her stepdaughter's wedding over her own grandchild's birthday party? Or should the user have been more flexible and changed the party date? Join the discussion in the comments below.
OP's resentment towards step-sister's mom is beyond heinous 🤬 YTA
KeepLkngForIntllgnce | KeepLkngForIntllgnce
OP's selfishness and jealousy ruins daughter's birthday and step-sister's wedding 💔
mdthomas | mdthomas
Commenter called out for poor relationship with step-sister. 💥
Low_Kaleidoscope_203 | Low_Kaleidoscope_203
Step-sister lost her mother, OP YTA for being bitter.
mdsnbelle | mdsnbelle
Choosing spite over daughter's first birthday makes YTA. 🤔
jrm1102 | jrm1102
OP is the a-hole for prioritizing competition with step-sister over daughter's birthday.
dingleberrydoughnut | dingleberrydoughnut
Choosing a birthday over a wedding? YTA according to commenters. 🎂
namesaretoohardforme | namesaretoohardforme
Curious about daughter's birthday date for party scheduling 🤔
poweller65 | poweller65
Consider therapy and be kind to your stepsister. YTA 👎
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Priorities are important 👍. Don't create unnecessary drama.
Naive_Owl_1672 | Naive_Owl_1672
Choose love and family over petty resentment. 🤗
Lion-Competitive | Lion-Competitive
Birthday party or wedding? Priorities, priorities... 🤷♀️
mm172 | mm172
Don't schedule family events on the same day as a wedding – YTA ❌
poweller65 | poweller65
Commenter accuses OP of seeking attention, calls them YTA.
Kames1313 | Kames1313
Step-sister's wedding vs. daughter's first birthday: AITA? YTA.
JsCTmav | JsCTmav
A comment calling out the OP's selfishness and a reply predicting future conflict with their daughter. 😬
photosbeersandteach | photosbeersandteach
Choosing step-sister's wedding over daughter's first birthday - YTA 🙅♀️
Pandalovesdogs | Pandalovesdogs
Choosing your 1-year-old's birthday over your step-sister's wedding? YTA.
justahermit | justahermit
Harsh judgment! Why therapy? 😬
knittingneedles321 | knittingneedles321
Commenter calls out OP for prioritizing grudge over daughter's birthday 🎂
ThreeDogs2022 | ThreeDogs2022
Don't spoil your daughter's birthday over a wedding. 🎂
TieRepresentative506 | TieRepresentative506
Combining a wedding and birthday party is difficult for everyone involved 😕
Fantastic-Focus-7056 | Fantastic-Focus-7056
Choosing daughter's birthday over step-sister's wedding - A-hole move?
elinordash | elinordash
Commenter calls out OP's stubbornness and predicts strained family relationships. YTA 😬
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Parent prioritizes party over daughter's suffering - Yikes 🤨
Usrname52 | Usrname52
Choosing daughter's birthday on step-sister's wedding day backfires 🎂💔
happydays676 | happydays676
Choosing step-sister's wedding over daughter's birthday - YTA
CrystalQueen3000 | CrystalQueen3000
Commenter calls out OP's drama-creating behaviour for daughter's birthday 🙄
beatupcar | beatupcar
Choosing your child's birthday for a wedding? YTA 🤦♀️
ladygreyowl13 | ladygreyowl13
Planning a birthday party on step-sister's wedding day - YTA 😬
Level-Particular-455 | Level-Particular-455
Don't create family drama over your daughter's birthday - YTA 😒
InkedAlly | InkedAlly
Commenter called out for being petty and advised to seek therapy.
Ok_Job_9417 | Ok_Job_9417
Resentment towards step-sister causing unnecessary drama. Change the date 🎂
elmariiee | elmariiee
YTA for prioritizing step-sister over daughter's birthday 😔
jolandaluna | jolandaluna
OP faces backlash for weaponizing daughter in family conflict 😬
Alien-Variation-1970 | Alien-Variation-1970
Commenter says YTA for scheduling events on same day.
OtherwiseOption- | OtherwiseOption-
Commenter calls OP the A-hole for scheduling conflict.
GuiltlessAbandon | GuiltlessAbandon
Don't let the hate ruin your daughter's special day 🎂💕
Specialist-Eye4299 | Specialist-Eye4299
Being a step-parent is hard, but YTA for treating her poorly 🤨
NidorinoBeano | NidorinoBeano
Commenter calls out unhealthy hatred and suggests therapy for OP.
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Choose a different date for your daughter's party - Soft YTA 😕
AggravatingPatient18 | AggravatingPatient18
Commenter calls out OP's jealousy and suggests therapy.
dontwannadoittoday | dontwannadoittoday
Forcing everyone to take sides makes YTA 🙄
Lynn_the_Pagan | Lynn_the_Pagan
Commenter called out for being petty about step-sister's wedding 🙄
squirlysquirel | squirlysquirel
Don't let your resentment affect your daughter's 1st birthday 🎂
TwistedxKitten | TwistedxKitten
Don't make people choose. 🎂👰 YTA.
adj278 | adj278
Commenter advises seeing a therapist to work through resentment. 💆♀️
NessiMomster | NessiMomster
Putting a baby at the center of a petty feud 😒
TemptingPenguin369 | TemptingPenguin369
Refusing to change party date for daughter's bday - YTA 👎
magstar222 | magstar222
Rescheduling daughter's birthday is an option. YTA sentiment.
Global_Sherbet198 | Global_Sherbet198
Hosting a birthday party on the same day as a wedding? YTA 😒
Arkonsel | Arkonsel
Ouch! 🤕 YTA for not being family-oriented. 😔
scrapfactor | scrapfactor
Commenter calls out OP for being selfish about daughter's birthday 🎂
5footfilly | 5footfilly
Commenter suggests seeking therapy and changing daughter's party date 🎉
masseffectnerd30 | masseffectnerd30
Let go of the resentment, YTA. Change the party date 🎂
Specialist-Ad5322 | Specialist-Ad5322
Forcing people to choose: YTA. Don't get butthurt 😉
Cloudinthesilver | Cloudinthesilver
Commenter calls out OP for prioritizing attention over step-sister's wedding 😒
SherbetAnnual2294 | SherbetAnnual2294
Don't be an a**hole on your step-sister's wedding day 😒
tuckerf14 | tuckerf14
Putting your daughter's first birthday over your step-sister's wedding? YTA 😒
sinkinthevoid | sinkinthevoid
Mom chooses step-sister's wedding over daughter's birthday - YTA.
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Don't let a family feud ruin a wedding day! 🎂👰
whorlando_bloom | whorlando_bloom
Don't be an a**hole, it's just a one year old's party 🎉
onlysomanynames1298 | onlysomanynames1298
Choosing birthday over step-sister's wedding: YTA or NAH?
Golden1052 | Golden1052
