Mother throws party for daughters after they were uninvited to birthday party

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A mother was faced with a dilemma when her daughters were uninvited from a birthday/Halloween party because of their purple hair. The girls have had their hair dyed since they were six years old and love it. The girls' mother asked why the hair color mattered and was told that it would take away from the birthday pictures. The mother of the girls decided to throw a party for her daughters on Halloween and invited her daughters' classmates. The party included a cake, bounce house, candy piñata, and carnival games. However, the mother of the birthday girl saw the pictures of the party and accused the mother of stealing her daughter's moment. Was the mother an A**hole for throwing the party for her daughters instead of dyeing their hair?

No purple hair allowed at birthday party? Mom throws own party 🎉

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Uninvited for their hair color? 😳 Mother throws them a party

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Mom throws epic Halloween party to make up for uninvited snub

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Mom throws rival party for uninvited girls 🎉😎

ho776jb | ho776jb

Dealing with uninvited kids and birthday party drama. AITA?

ho776jb | ho776jb

Mom defends throwing Halloween party after daughters' birthday snub 🎉👻

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From pony rides to piñatas: stark contrast between birthday parties 🎉

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Mother throws epic party for daughters after being uninvited

A mother threw a Halloween party for her daughters after they were uninvited from a classmate's birthday party because of their bright purple hair. The other mother insisted that their hair would draw attention in the birthday pictures, and the girls were told to dye their hair a natural color if they wanted to attend. Instead, the girls' mother threw them an amazing party with a cake, bounce house, candy piñata, and carnival games. The girls had an incredible time, and their mother posted pictures online, which the other mother saw. The other mother accused the girls' mother of stealing her daughter's moment and being an a**hole for one-upping her. However, the girls' mother had planned the Halloween party a week after they had declined the invitation to the classmate's party. The parties were vastly different, with the classmate's party being catered with a pony, assorted teas, and a wagon ride, while the girls' party was a Frankenstein bounce house and some basic carnival games. Despite the drama, the girls had an unforgettable Halloween, and their mother showed that you don't need a lot of money to throw an amazing party. Stay tuned for the comments and reactions to this incredible story.

NTA. Mom tries to punish kids for hair color, commenters outraged. 🙅

Gogowhine | Gogowhine

Mother uninvites girls for hair color, commenter suggests coloring mom's hair 🤣

MoonlightxRose | MoonlightxRose

Mom throws party for daughters after being excluded due to hair.

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Mom stands up against entitled mom and throws better party 🎉

lizrdbrain | lizrdbrain

Colorful hair sparks tween party drama 🎉👩‍🎤

katamino | katamino

Celebrating individuality, not punishing it. 🎉👩‍👧‍👧

kase_horizon | kase_horizon

Mom throws party for uninvited daughters, but did she steal guest list?

Majestic_Will3111 | Majestic_Will3111

Mom is NTA for throwing the party. Also hair dye recommendations? 😍

TentaclesAndCupcakes | TentaclesAndCupcakes

Agreeing with the commenter's NTA judgement 👍

phrosey | phrosey

Supportive comment for mom throwing party for daughters after being uninvited 🎉👏

f0rthef0g | f0rthef0g

Embrace your uniqueness and throw the flashiest party ever 🎉

Ecniray | Ecniray

Mom tries to change who the girls are to be accepted. NTA

Heraonolympia123 | Heraonolympia123

Commenter defends daughters, criticizes mom's parenting. 🔥

thankuhexed | thankuhexed

Kudos to mom for throwing a party for uninvited daughters 🙏

Lovely-summertime | Lovely-summertime

A heartwarming story of a great parent spreading kindness 🥰

Head-Wrap7430 | Head-Wrap7430

Mom saves daughter's party after exclusion - hair dye optional 😜

chexmix42 | chexmix42

Mom stands up to exclusionary behavior, throws fun party instead 🎉

emmy1905 | emmy1905

Celebrate your kids without limits and ignore judgmental parents! 🎉👧👧

tiredandcranky89 | tiredandcranky89

Colorful parenting done right! 🌈

babylimes | babylimes

Putting your children first always makes you a great parent 🙌

khryslo | khryslo

Commenter calls out parent's inconsiderate behavior at kids party 😑

Blaziken91 | Blaziken91

OP saves the day with Halloween party, not the a-hole 👍🎃

Diva_de_la_Luna | Diva_de_la_Luna

Teaching daughters to be confident: Priceless 💪👩‍👧‍👧

Hindsight2O2O | Hindsight2O2O

Commenter reacts to hair dye controversy with Halloween spirit 🎃

elenaleecurtis | elenaleecurtis

NTA for throwing a party to make sure your kids don't feel left out 🎉

jyl11002 | jyl11002

Hair color drama at a kid's Halloween party, NTA wins 🎃

JennerikUse | JennerikUse

Don't let anyone dim your kids' uniqueness! 🎉 #NotTheAHole

Glittering-Book-6477 | Glittering-Book-6477

Dealing with a narcissistic parent can be tough 💔

Ok-Kaguya | Ok-Kaguya

Mom saves the day and throws a party 🎉 #NotTheA**hole

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Mom saves daughters from party snub with epic celebration 🎉

Emmett_is_Bored | Emmett_is_Bored

Uninvited to a party for not dying hair? Not the a**hole 👍

Lola_M1224 | Lola_M1224

Halloween trumps birthday party clash. NTA for throwing party 🎉

Advanced_Law3507 | Advanced_Law3507

Clarifying whether invite was conditional; parent-to-parent or girl-to-girl?

TheRavenKnight86 | TheRavenKnight86

Mom stands up for her daughters' hair at birthday party 🎉

SilentCitadel | SilentCitadel

Innocent hurt feelings over uninvited birthday party guests 😢

Fun-Nefariousness-21 | Fun-Nefariousness-21

Don't be a control freak at a kid's party 😒🎉

Ok_Clock_8658 | Ok_Clock_8658

Standing up to a controlling parent with a satisfying outcome 🙌

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Wealthy mom throws lavish party, but NTA mom gets last laugh 🎃🎉

Berly653 | Berly653

Being kind to the daughter could have a positive impact 😉

saucisse | saucisse

Mom throws party for uninvited daughters, internet cheers for compromise 🎉

4zero4error31 | 4zero4error31

NTA throws party for daughters after they were uninvited 😍

allycology | allycology

Controlling mother uninvites children from party, gets a taste of her own medicine

MollykinsWoo | MollykinsWoo

Purple-haired professor approves of awesome mom's NTA move! 🙌

echoandwillow | echoandwillow

Mother disapproves of girls' hair color, gets uninvited to party. NTA

ExistentialistTeapot | ExistentialistTeapot

Mom gets karma. 🎂🎉

Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy

Daughters refused to dye their hair for party, mom asks for advice 😕

Moejason | Moejason

Commenter calls out bad parenting in uninvited party situation 🤔

flixguy440 | flixguy440

Engaging kids in creative expression, a delicate balance 🎨

whiteweasel20 | whiteweasel20

Throw an annual extravaganza of legendary proportions! 🎉🎊 NTA

Cookyy2k | Cookyy2k

Mom stands up for her kids against appearance-based discrimination 👏

Turbulent-Minimum584 | Turbulent-Minimum584

Throw your own Halloween party 🎉🎃👻

Little_Option_6421 | Little_Option_6421

Celebrate Halloween your own way 🎃👻 NTA for throwing party

FabulousOrdinary2 | FabulousOrdinary2

Hair color policing? Not cool! NTA stands firm.

srslyeffedmind | srslyeffedmind

Mom stands up for her daughters against entitled parent 💪

Ok-Bit-9529 | Ok-Bit-9529

Woman uninvited from party thinks she's the main character 🤦‍♀️

TheFreakinFatUnicorn | TheFreakinFatUnicorn

Not the a**hole, but what happened with the other party?

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👍 Great parenting skills recognized with NTA comment

Darrenizer | Darrenizer

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