Buckle up, folks, because we’ve got a sisterly showdown on our hands! ♀️ Meet our 20-year-old protagonist, a fashionista with a closet full of trendy threads. But there’s a catch – her 17-year-old sister has a habit of borrowing her clothes… and let’s just say, things have gotten a little too snug for comfort. As the weight difference between the sisters grows, so does the tension. Will our protagonist put her foot down and protect her precious garments? ♀️ Or will she let her sister stretch out her style? Get ready for a tale of sibling rivalry, fashion faux pas, and the ultimate question: to share or not to share?
Sister Loves to Borrow My Clothes… But There’s a Problem

She’s Put on Quite a Bit of Weight Recently

I Like Wearing Baggier Clothes & Stretchy Leggings

I Can Afford Nicer Clothes Than My Sister

The Problem: She Stretches Out & Rips My Clothes!

She Ripped My Favorite VS Leggings!

I Was Frustrated Since They Were My Fave & No Longer Sold

I Finally Told Her She Can’t Borrow My Clothes Anymore ♀️

She Kept Pressing Me For a Reason Why

I Gently Told Her She’s Gotten Too Big For My Clothes

She Told Everyone I Was Fat Shaming Her!

I Tried to Talk to Her But She’s Upset With Me

AITA For Not Letting My Sister Borrow My Clothes Due to Her Weight?

Update: She Doesn’t Think She’s Ruining My Clothes!

She Thinks I’m Overreacting About the Leggings

I Think She Doesn’t Realize How Much Weight She’s Gained

Thanks for the Advice, I’m Going to Talk to Her!

I Was Overthinking & Feeling Guilty

Sister Stretches Out My Clothes, Drama Ensues!
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a classic case of sibling fashion drama! Our protagonist finally put her foot down and told her sister that she can’t borrow her clothes anymore due to the stretching and ripping. ♀️ But the sister wasn’t having it and accused her of fat shaming! The family got involved, friends took sides, and now everyone’s wondering who’s the real a-hole here. Some think the sister should respect the clothes, others think our protagonist is being too harsh. But one thing’s for sure – this sisterly showdown is far from over! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this fashionable feud…
NTA, sister should respect boundaries and not ruin clothes

Settling the fat-shaming misconception. NTA for clothes incompatibility.

Being honest can still hurt, but sometimes it’s necessary.

Respectful response to sister’s denial about weight gain. NTA

Being honest about clothing size ≠ fat shaming

NTA. Sharing clothes with differently sized family members has risks.

NTA! The commenter shares a similar experience of skinny-shaming. Don’t lend clothes.

Kind response to NTA comment on sharing clothes with sister
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NTA: Sibling fat-shames sister, commenter suggests constructive alternatives.

Sharing clothes with a curvier sibling can be tough.
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Redditors doubt authenticity of story due to similarities to others

Sensitive situation handled diplomatically – unintentional hurt feelings.

Body-shaming comments towards family members are never acceptable
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NTA. Brutal honesty is sometimes the best medicine

Deserving new clothes is not a crime

Handling weight issue with sister in a sensitive way. NTA

A kind suggestion to gift clothes in her size

Locking wardrobe and charging for damaged clothes to stop sister’s entitlement

Respect for personal belongings trumps sister’s weight. #NTA

Assertive commenter defends right to own clothes and burns.

Setting boundaries with damaged clothes. NTA

Sibling’s baggy clothes caused a shape-shifting shame

Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA
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Empathetic comment supports OP and recognizes pandemic weight gain struggles

NTA, you have the right to not share clothes. Get a lock

Doubting the story’s authenticity? Read the comments below.

Savage suggestion to deal with sister’s fat-shaming. NTA.

A redditor shares their experience and offers helpful advice.

Sharing clothes isn’t practical when sizes are different. NTA.
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Curious commenter asks for more details on sister’s weight gain.

Encouraging comment on body positivity and offering helpful advice

Your clothes, your rules. NTA
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NTA. Sharing is one-sided. Larger people stress clothing more.

Respectful way to say no to sharing clothes. NTA

Tall man begs wife to stop wearing his clothes

Respectful boundaries, NTA

NTA, but is 17 too old to run to parents?

Tall sister should wear her own clothes. Not the a**hole.

It’s okay to say no to lending clothes, NTA

Sharing clothes gone wrong, NTA calls for family meeting

Helpful suggestion for dealing with sister’s weight sensitively

Body positivity and boundaries, sister should lose weight. NTA

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for being honest.

Sharing clothes is not a sisterly obligation. However, commenter notes fatphobia and suggests a more diplomatic approach.

Set boundaries and say no to entitled family members

Sibling stealing clothes? Ask parents to intervene
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Don’t fall for manipulation. NTA

Sister’s clothes too small, NTA suggests solution to parents

NTA for not lending clothes, ruined in the past

NTA. Sister redirecting personal shame of gaining weight onto you

NTA but choose your words carefully and focus on the issue

Sharing clothes with a larger partner can be tricky
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Empathetic comment from fellow obese girl, encouraging self-love and acceptance.

Setting boundaries with family over damaged clothing due to weight differences
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Setting boundaries with siblings borrowing clothes can be tricky

Younger sister wanted to borrow clothes, stretched them out. NTA.

Encouraging concern for sister’s health and well-being.

You’re NTA, but offering help may have been too sensitive

Sharing clothes with an obese sister – common sense or not?

Sister complains about not sharing clothes, ruins them when she does. NTA.

NTA comment: Obesity is unhealthy. Tough love needed for entitled sister.

NTA. Honesty is the best policy when it comes to clothes
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NTA, but choose kinder words when discussing body size

Respectful advice on clothes sharing with plus-size relatives. NTA.

Sister ruins clothes, NTA suggests gift cards or end it
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Setting boundaries is important, regardless of weight difference. #NTA

Don’t lend clothes you care about, learn from her mistake!

Asserting clothing ownership. Sisterly squabble settled with NTA verdict.

Simply stating clothes don’t fit isn’t fat shaming

Body positivity wins! NTA for setting healthy boundaries.

NTA defends against sister’s accusations of shaming and ripping clothes

Asserting property rights and reimbursement for damaged clothes

NTA. Sister ruins clothes, claims need. Same boat, different sizes

NTA for wanting to protect your clothes from being destroyed

Standing up for yourself and your possessions, NTA

NTA commenter shares clothing advice and sentimental story.
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Sibling size comparison and boundaries with humor

Setting boundaries with entitled family member over clothes. NTA

You have the right to say no to sharing clothes.
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