Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy relationship drama on our hands. Meet our exhausted stay-at-home mom, juggling three kids and one seriously sleepy boyfriend. For 11 years, she’s been battling the morning madness, trying to wake up her snoozing sweetheart. ️ But now, with a newborn in the mix, things are reaching a boiling point! Will she lose her cool and diagnose her man with a sleep disorder? Or will she just have to suck it up and accept her fate as the eternal alarm clock? Let’s dive into this relatable tale of love, sleep, and morning mayhem!
Relationship Drama Alert: 11 Years and 3 Kids Later…
The Struggle is Real: Waking Up Mr. Sleepyhead
️ From Gentle Whispers to Loud Yelling: The Morning Routine
Arguments Galore: The Never-Ending Morning Battle
Stay-at-Home Mom Struggles: Is Sleep Too Much to Ask?
The Morning Madness: “I AM up!” … Zzz
Nursing Nightmares: Startled Baby and Painful Latches
Frustration Boils Over: “You Have to Have Some Sort of Sleep Disorder!”
Shocked Hubby: “Who Talks to Someone Like That First Thing in the Morning?!”
Grumpy Grumbles and Shower Escapes
Snarky Comments and Crying Meltdowns
Am I the A-hole? Doubting My Actions
The Verdict: Is She the A-hole for Calling Out His Sleep Struggles?
Our poor, sleep-deprived mama is at her wit’s end, trying to juggle a newborn, two other kiddos, and a boyfriend who just won’t wake up! She’s tried everything from gentle whispers to loud yelling, but nothing seems to work. And now, in a moment of frustration, she’s dropped the bomb: “You have to have some sort of sleep disorder!” Ouch! But is she the a-hole for reaching her breaking point? Or is her boyfriend being a bit of a sleepyhead jerk? It’s a tough call, but one thing’s for sure: this relatable drama has us all on the edge of our seats!
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NTA but let him take responsibility for waking up on time
Encouraging comment to seek medical help for sleeping disorder. ❤
Sleepy husband needs medical checkup for safety, NTA suggests.
Heavy sleeper husband needs to take responsibility for waking up
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Sleepy spouse causing major drama. NTA suggests video proof.
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Take charge of your own life, stop being his alarm
NTA, but communicate with him about his sleep issues
ESH. Wife reached breaking point after years of unaddressed issue.
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Support for sleep disorder and NTA judgement.
Wife’s harsh words spark drama, commenter supports sleepy spouse. NTA!
Don’t be his servant, he’s a grown man. NTA
Spouse can’t handle mornings, wife tired of being a mom
NTA. Kindly suggest him to see a doctor for help.
Sleepy spouse has a disorder. Wife’s concern sparks drama.
Let him wake up 2 hours late for work
Enabling a spouse’s behavior can be a slippery slope
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Being a stay-at-home mom is a full-time job, not a privilege
Not the a**hole! Leave him to wake up by himself
A helpful suggestion for a struggling spouse’s sleep schedule ✌
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Don’t be his mother! You’re ESH. Sit down and talk
OP’s spouse is lazy and disturbing the child’s sleep
ESH. Spouse needs to wake up, but why be a martyr?
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Sleep-deprived couple needs medical help for his sleep disorder
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Concerned partner suggests a letter to help boyfriend’s health. NTA.
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Encouraging advice for addressing potential sleep disorder. #NTA
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Sleep apnea suspected, but communication breakdown causes morning drama
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ESH, but addressing the issue calmly and maturely is key
Sassy solution and sleep study suggestion for exhausted spouse.
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Could the husband be hiding something?
Heart condition causing sleepiness? Pacemaker solved it for my sister
Sleep-deprived mom gets pass for possible disorder diagnosis.
Supportive comment suggests taking a break from ‘stupid’ spouse.
Sleep disorder or just lazy? NTA mom cares for kids.
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Record his wake-up attempts and let him oversleep a bit
Taking responsibility for a disorder, tough love advice
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Stay-at-home parenting is not a privilege, it’s hard work. #NTA
Supportive comment to a struggling SAHM. Don’t blame yourself!
Don’t villainize, research together – sleep disorders are real
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Make him get himself up! NTA, and yelling isn’t normal
11 years of being his alarm clock? NTA for sure
Let him adult and get an alarm clock! #NTA
User suggests a solution to spouse’s sleepiness problem. NTA
Wife’s harsh words lead to creative solution involving ice
NTA. Suggestions for sleep aid devices and seeking professional help.
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Partner is a deep sleeper but wakes up easily, NTA
Recording attempts to wake spouse with disorder could help him understand. NTA.
Sleep disorder doesn’t justify being a child. NTA
Struggling with sleep disorder, commenter advises seeing a doctor
Taking care of the home and kids is a tough job.
Wake-up revenge tactics: NTA suggests air horn or consequences
OP’s partner needs to take responsibility for waking up. NTA
Advice for frustrated spouse on dealing with sleep issues.
Partner should take responsibility for waking up, NTA advice.
Partner’s sleep behaviour can lead to resentment, suggest sleep study.
NTA for being angry – frustrating to live with a heavy sleeper
Encourage sleep study and set boundaries for oversleeping blame.
Partner’s struggle with ADD in the morning and resentment addressed.
Wife calls out husband’s sleeping disorder, NTA suggests medical help ⏰
Encouraging comment suggests getting sleep disorder checked by specialist.
Spouse needs help waking up, NTA for being concerned
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Let him grow up! NTA but don’t be controlling
Living with a sleep disorder can be frustrating for everyone. •••
Stand up for yourself and NTA. Don’t enable childish behavior.
NTA. Encouraging personal responsibility and health care for partner’s sleep.
Don’t take responsibility for their sleep, they’re adults! NAH
Spouse’s laziness is not a disorder, NTA for setting boundaries
Tips for better sleep hygiene and routine. NTA.
