Picture this: you’re a 22-year-old lady, fresh out of a long-term relationship, craving for some girl-time to heal and rejuvenate. You plan a girls’ night out with your best friend of 14 years, only to find out she’s bringing her boyfriend along! This is the story of a woman who found herself caught in a web of friendship, love, and drama. Let’s dive into her tale, shall we? ️♀️
A Fresh Start

The Road to Recovery ️

A Girls’ Night Out Plan

The Unexpected Twist

The Boyfriend Dilemma

The Third Wheel Concern

The Rain Check ☔

The Backstory

The Unpleasant Past

The Clarification

A Tale of Friendship, Love, and Unexpected Third-Wheeling
In a dramatic turn of events, a woman’s plan for a fun girls’ night out with her best friend takes a twist when she learns her friend’s boyfriend is tagging along. Despite her concerns about being the third wheel, her friend insists it’ll be fun. The situation is further complicated by the fact that she’s not particularly fond of the boyfriend, given his past indifference towards his family’s racist behavior towards her friend. All she wanted was a night of fun and bonding with her best friend, but now she finds herself in a dilemma. Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this situation…
NTA. Boyfriend crashes girls night, causing drama and breakup aftermath.
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NTA. Girls night is for girls only!

NTA – Girls night means GIRLS night . Meet for brunch on Sunday instead

“NTA. Your friend’s boyfriend ruined your girls’ night out “

“You know what will probably help you feel better about your breakup? Spending all night watching me and my boyfriend dancing at the club!” NTA

NTA: Girls night out hijacked by unexpected guest

NTA. Girls Night Out means girls only . Bringing a bf? Major third wheel ♀️

Friendship drama: Time to find a new BFF?

Friend hijacks ‘girls night out’ with unwanted boyfriend. NTA.

Friendship lost? Find single friends! Boyfriend always comes first

NTA. Enjoy your girls night without being a third wheel

NTA. Wanting alone time with friends is important
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Embrace the boyfriend and have fun together!

“NTA Your friend is being insensitive. You do not shove your relationship in someone’s face when they’re going through a breakup. She is all kissy and cuddly with her bf while you’re the third wheel watching on? That’s really insensitive of your friend. This is not the night to get to know her bf better. This is a night where your friend is supposed to be there for you and have fun and dance to help you over your breakup. I’d tell her that what she’s doing is really insensitive. I’d definitely not go with her.” – Commenter
“I think there is a big difference between a girls night turning into a group night based on the couples ratio. Having a girls night turn into a couples event with ONE single person is a very insensitive and pretty rude.” – Reply
Friendship drama: Setting boundaries with a pushy and rude friend

Friendship tested: NTA for girls’ night, but don’t neglect her

Friendship triumphs! No a**holes here.

NTA: Stick to the original girls night plan, take a rain check
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NTA. Boyfriend hijacks girls’ night, ruins breakup recovery. Solo time needed.

Not the a**hole. Drama-free girls night out!

Annoying friend always hijacks plans, hope you can resolve it

NTA – Rude guest ruins ‘Girls Night Out’
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Friendship drama: NTA, but your friend is

No boys allowed! The drama of a hijacked girls night.

Girls’ night out: the importance of friendship and self-care
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NTA. Love at first sight on a wild night out?

Making changes to plans without consulting others? Not cool!

Supportive comment about inclusive social events with understanding partner

Friend hijacks girls night out with her boyfriend, total buzzkill

NTA. Girls night out should be respected, but is there karma?

NTA. A drama-filled girls’ night out with unexpected twists

Welcome to the world of being the third wheel

Friend’s betrayal and lack of empathy sparks heated confrontation.

NTA. Stick to your plans and don’t let others dictate.

NTA. New relationship, new friends, same old drama

Friend hijacks ‘Girls Night Out’ plan, drama ensues

Friendship ruined by unexpected guest on girls’ trip.

Be open to compromise and salvage your friendship

Breaking the girls code: No men allowed at girls night!

You’re not being rude. They are. NTA

Not the a**hole. Drama-free girls’ night out wins hearts

Friendship drama: Canceling plans and finding new girls night out

Being true to yourself and friends, without appeasing strangers

Friend prioritizes boyfriend over girls’ night out. NTA cancels.

NTA – A drama-free comment section!

Set the boys free and let the girls have some fun!

Yikes! Can’t spend ONE night alone? NTA. Drama unfolds!

Alex declares themselves not the a**hole for 600 points

Girls night should be about girls, not boyfriend intrusions

NTA. Girls night should be for girls only!

Not the a**hole, but what happened? Spill the tea!

NTA – Girls night is sacred! Disrespectful friends are disappointing

NTA. Boys crashed girls’ night, causing drama. Toxic friend.

NTA. Girl’s night is sacred! Don’t let anyone ruin it!

Changing expectations of the night? Not the a**hole!

Friend always brings someone else to plans without asking. NTA.
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Friend’s ‘Girls Night Out’ ruined by game-loving boyfriend?

Respectful friend hijacked ‘Girls Night Out’ with unexpected boyfriend

Bringing a SO to a girls night out? NTA, totally!

Stand your ground! Friendship shouldn’t mean sacrificing your own happiness.

NTA: Girls night and boys night are healthy and necessary!

“NTA There’s a time and a place for having your partner present, and there’s a time and a place for not having them present. Us men have those needs as well. OP, you might want to consider the possibility that this is the boyfriend insisting on going. Is there a chance that he’s jealous and/or controlling?” – A tale of love, friendship, and unexpected drama

Girls’ night out hijacked by unwanted boyfriend. Drama ensues.

Friend hijacks ‘girls night out’, boundaries not respected. NTA.

Best friend’s boyfriend needs a hobby, not a person. NTA

Friendship hijacked by unexpected guest. NTA for wanting alone time

Adding a third wheel? Not cool! NTA for wanting girl time

Politely declining to be the third wheel. Enjoy your night!

Friend hijacks girls night with BF, time for new friends!

NTA for not wanting boyfriends at girls night out
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No boys allowed! A drama-free girls night, NTA

No explanation needed. You’re not the a**hole.
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BFF tries to hijack girls’ night out for her relationship drama

Friendship over romance: Prioritizing support in tough times.

Controlling boyfriend crashes girls’ night, red flags everywhere

Third-wheeling nightmare turned into a friendship-saving heart-to-heart

NTA: It’s terrible manners to hijack a girls’ night out

NTA, express disappointment about her prioritizing her boyfriend over friends

“NTA, inviting her BF is a buzzkill. You’ll be 3rd wheel.”

Friend’s boyfriend ruins girls’ day out, I made a quick escape
