Woman Wants to Avoid Pregnancy, But Mom and Stepdad Demand Grandkids

We all know that having children is a personal decision, but what happens when family members start pressuring you to have kids? One woman is facing this dilemma as she considers undergoing a bilateral salpingectomy to ensure she can’t get pregnant. She and her husband have discussed adopting a child in the future, but her mom and stepdad are insisting on biological grandkids. Let’s dive into her story and see what’s going on.

Not a Fan of Kids ‍♀️

Adoption: The Plan for Parenthood ❤️

Fear of Pregnancy

Considering a Bilateral Salpingectomy

Family Pressure for Grandkids

Stepdad’s Creepy Baby Jokes

Mom Flips Out

“Yes, You Do”

Feeling Guilty?

To Be or Not to Be an A**hole?

Thankful for Support

Growing Up with a Controlling Mom

Breaking Free

Caught Between Personal Choices and Family Pressure

This woman is in a tough spot, as she’s considering a permanent procedure to avoid pregnancy while her mom and stepdad demand biological grandkids. She and her husband have discussed adopting a child, but the family pressure is making her feel guilty. With a controlling mother and a stepdad who undermines her decisions, it’s no wonder she’s struggling. Thankfully, she’s received support and validation, helping her feel more confident in her choices. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Your body, your choice. Don’t let anyone guilt trip you

NTA! You have a right to make decisions about your body

Empowering decision-making despite pushy family.

Don’t let anyone pressure you into having kids

Supportive comment encourages OP to follow her heart and make her own decisions

Woman stands up against family pressuring her to have kids

Taking control of your body and life.

Woman gets tubes tied at 24 to avoid pregnancy. #NTA

Commenter shares opinion on kids, but acknowledges personal bias

Empowering response to family pressure. You do you!

NTA, your body your choice. Tell your relatives to back off

Laparoscopic tubal ligation vs Bilateral Salpingectomies, which is better?

Choosing to have kids is a personal decision ‍ ‍ . NTA for setting boundaries.

Join the childfree community and embrace your decision!

NTA, don’t let them pressure you into having kids

Commenter sympathizes with poster’s selfish mom and in-law.

Don’t cave to pressure, having kids should be your choice

Empowering NTA comment supports couple’s responsible family planning

Commenter defends OP’s right to decide on pregnancy

Your body, your choice. No need to please your parents

Short and sweet, NTA says it all

A childfree person feels guilty about not giving parents grandkids

Empowering response to pressure for grandkids

NTA wants to focus on her own life, not mother’s demands

Join the childfree community on Reddit!

Childfree community shows support for avoiding unwanted pregnancy

NTA. Find support on r/childfree and r/justnoMIL

Ask your doctor about tube removal procedure to avoid pregnancy

Asserting bodily autonomy against pushy parents. NTA, go NC

Empowering response to pressure for grandkids

Mom throws tantrum for grandkids, convinces child not to have kids. #NTA

Body autonomy matters. You’re NTA for wanting control.

NTA stands up to mom and stepdad’s grandkids demand

Childfree Redditors face immense pressure from parents for grandkids

Adoption not for those grossed out by kids. NTA decision.

Empathetic comment supports woman’s decision to avoid pregnancy.

NTA. Nobody has the *right* to be a grandparent.

Don’t have kids to make others happy. Being a grandparent isn’t a right.

NTA. Supportive comment with personal story and encouragement.

Reproductive decisions are personal. NTA for standing your ground

Choosing not to have kids is a valid choice. Your parents need to respect that.

Celebrating childfree choices and supporting each other!

Stand your ground! Your body, your life, your choice

Wise decision to avoid pregnancy, NTA. No need for grandkids

NTA comment shuts down pressure to have kids with humor

Supportive comment and resource for childfree individuals

Supportive reply recommends informative video on tying tubes.

Choosing to be childfree and considering fostering instead ‍

Commenter is not the a**hole for avoiding pregnancy

Stand up for yourself! Your body, your choice.

Join the childfree community for support

Childfree subreddit offers support for societal pressure around having kids. NTA

Parents demand grandkids, but NTA stands up for herself

Short and sweet support for bodily autonomy.

Stand your ground and shut down the grandkid pressure

Don’t have a child to appease others . Adopt if you want.

Your body, your choice! Adoption is a wonderful option

Choosing an interesting life over breeding, NTA shuts down pressure.

Your body, your choice. Partner supports you. NTA.

Don’t let anyone pressure you into having kids

Choosing not to have kids is a valid decision.

Woman shares her experience and encourages OP to get procedure done

Heartbreaking story of a child whose mother didn’t want them . NTA, having kids is a personal decision.

Choosing to be childfree is valid. NTA for getting it done.

No grandkids entitlement , NTA stands up for herself.

Breaking stereotypes: Woman stands up against pressure to have kids

Mom wants a do-over baby? Ask why they’re invested. NTA

Mom demands grandkids, but NTA suggests adoption and bodily autonomy.

Fear of pregnancy and desire for sterilization. NTA, absolutely.

Don’t let anyone pressure you into having kids

Empowering response to pressure for grandkids

Empowering response to pressure for grandkids

Encouraging response to OP’s doubts about getting medical procedure

Choosing not to have kids is mature and valid