We all have that one friend who brings a new partner into the mix, and sometimes, they just don’t fit in. In this case, a woman (24F) found herself at odds with her friend’s (M25) new girlfriend (F20). Known for her blunt and sarcastic sense of humor, the woman tried to give the newcomer the benefit of the doubt, despite her fake and brutally honest attitude. However, things took a turn for the worse when the girlfriend began making things up and talking behind her back.
The New Girlfriend’s Attitude

Trying to Give Her a Chance

The Girlfriend’s Inappropriate Behavior

The Confrontation Begins

A Rude Comment and a Clapback

Setting the Record Straight

Defending Her Choices

The Girlfriend Doubles Down

The Final Straw

The Aftermath

The Conflict Continues

Was She Right to Put the Girlfriend in Her Place?
After a series of rude comments and fake behavior, our protagonist had enough of her friend’s new girlfriend. She didn’t hesitate to call her out, even using some colorful language. The girlfriend ran off crying, but the party went on. Now, with another encounter looming, the woman wonders if she was in the wrong for standing up for herself. ♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Friend defends against rude girlfriend, gets support and witty comeback.

Friend’s girlfriend talked behind her back, she stood up for herself.

Commenter initially thought OP was in the wrong, but ultimately agrees NTA

Comment section is a dumpster fire with ESH and NTA judgments.

Negative and sarcastic attitudes fuel a toxic friendship dynamic.

Friend stands up to rude girlfriend, justified in putting her in place

Commenter calls out double standards in argument, no resolution reached

Commenter calls out OP’s immaturity and irresponsibility with savage examples

Commenter acknowledges some fault, but defends new girlfriend’s misreading.

Comment section filled with immature drama and toxicity

Commenter thinks everyone sucks here, calls out condescension and rudeness.

Commenters agree: everyone sucks here in this exhausting situation

Commenters agree: this party sounds like a nightmare

Both sides have flaws ♀️

Comment section full of immaturity and pettiness

Friend’s girlfriend is ESH, OP called her out, needs communication.

♀️ Both are unbearable, no wonder they attract each other.

Annoying and insufferable behavior from everyone involved. #ESH

Commenter calls out everyone’s behavior and sarcastic humor.

Commenter and reply agree: everyone sucks in this situation

️ Trash talk ensues in this heated comment section.

Commenter suggests everyone is being catty and oversensitive

Everyone sucks here. ♀️
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Commenter called out for hypocrisy, both are TA

Act like an adult, not a high schooler. ESH

Commenter receives tough love for their own rude behavior

Red flags raised about commenter’s personal life, not girlfriend behavior

♀️ Everyone is acting immature in this situation.

Is the impolite girlfriend really the problem here?

Both sides at fault, but woman’s retaliation went too far

Commenter calls out group for being insufferable and rude.

Parenting advice from a blunt ESH commenter ♂️

Commenter calls out immaturity and lack of manners in group.

Commenter calls out OP for their behavior, warns of consequences ⚠️

Drama alert! Commenter thinks everyone sucks here.

Is the commenter being a gatekeeper?

Someone’s had enough

Commenter calls out rude behavior with a sassy response

Immature feud between friends and girlfriend. ESH.

NTA shuts down rude girlfriend, internet cheers

Upstairs neighbor drama: ESH comment section gets spicy

Commenter calls out OP for bullying and not being a role model

Commenter called out for hypocrisy and insults,

Commenter calls out OP’s pettiness and judgmental behavior. ESH

Brutally honest friend stands up to rude girlfriend. NTA.

Commenter calls out use of misogynistic language in argument.

Imagining the scene with an accent

OP and girlfriend both have some sass, but girlfriend worse

Commenter calls out double standard in friend’s behavior.

Commenter calls out hypocrisy and unpleasant behavior of both parties

Y’all deserve eachother. ♀️ ESH.

♀️ Everyone’s insufferable according to this ESH comment.

Mixed feelings in this section, ESH.

Evaluate who you spend time with to avoid unnecessary drama

Is it cultural? Exploring the weight of the c-word.

Friendship over? ESH comment sparks no hope for reconciliation.

Commenter accuses OP of being a ‘pick-me girl’

Is this comment calling out the insufferable behavior of all parties?

Friend’s rude girlfriend put in place, friend needs to wise up

Commenter calls out immaturity, but supports OP’s actions.

Joining her in her place? Wise advice though.

♀️ Can’t we all just get along?

Friend stands up to rude girlfriend, calls out her behavior.

Commenter calls out toxic behavior in friend group.

Both sides acted immaturely

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole.

Commenter calls out OP for unfairly targeting girlfriend.

Comment section needs some adulting ♂️

Whose sense of humor? The comment section is divided

Commenter suggests girlfriend was trying to fit in, ESH.
