Woman Pressured to Quit Job to ‘Heal’ Boyfriend’s Anxiety: Heroic or Absurd? ‍♀️

Meet ‘Ms. Independent’ (29) and her boyfriend ‘Mr. Homebody’ (39). They’ve been together for 7 years, and recently moved into a house she purchased. As she quickly found work, he’s been struggling with anxiety and depression, unable to start his work-from-home job. This has led to tension, arguments, and an unexpected ultimatum: he wants her to quit her job to help him heal. Is she the villain for refusing? Or is he the villain for asking? Let’s dive into their story.

A House Divided

The Tension Rises ⚡

The Ultimatum

A Tough Decision

Seeking Advice

The Confrontation

The Aftermath

The Dilemma ‍♀️

A Love Story Turned Sour: What’s Her Move? ‍♀️

In a tale that’s part love story, part financial drama, ‘Ms. Independent’ finds herself in a tough spot. Her boyfriend ‘Mr. Homebody’ is battling mental health issues and wants her to quit her job to help him heal. Despite her sympathy, she’s hesitant to risk her career. The plot thickens when the house she bought – with his contribution to renovations – becomes a point of contention. Should they break up, he wants his share. Now she’s left wondering: is she being selfish or sensible? And should she repay him if they part ways? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this…

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Supporting a partner’s mental health without enabling co-dependency

Is he really depressed or just taking advantage of you?

Red flags: 32yo dating 22yo, carrying them financially. Dead weight.

“NTA. The hell is wrong with this dude. You are not responsible to cure his anxiety or depression. He has to do it himself. So he thinks you not working is gonna help? No. He isn’t working or contributing anything and he tells u to take extended leave? Nah, what about the rest of the bills if ur not working? What’re you gonna eat?? This is super selfish and i would reassess this relationship asap.”

NTA – Don’t let his depression hold you back!

NTA sees red flags in a predatory relationship with entitlement.

NTA: Boyfriend wants girlfriend to quit job to ‘heal’ him. ‍♀️

Helping partner with anxiety: NTA, assist him with small steps

NTA. Boyfriend is manipulative . Professional help needed

Don’t quit your job, his mental health isn’t your responsibility.

Commenter expresses concern about boyfriend’s dependency, sparking worry about future.

Boyfriend sabotaging job? No therapy or meds.

“NTA. Don’t let him bring you down. His mental health isn’t your responsibility.”

Supportive comment and acknowledgement of emotional struggle.

NTA: You’re not his therapist or mother. His responsibility.

Supportive comment encourages seeking professional help for boyfriend’s anxiety.

“NTA. You’re not a therapist or his mommy. You can’t light yourself on fire to keep him warm. He has responsibility too, you shouldn’t be required to suffer without an *equal partner*.”

NTA. Boyfriend needs therapy, relationship may need re-evaluation.

NTA, but be cautious of emotional/financial abuse. Personal experience shared.

Supportive comment: Boyfriend needs therapy, not a caretaker.

Homeowner’s anxiety triggers boyfriend’s mental health issues: reasonable or unfair? ‍♀️

“NTA. It’s not fair to put you in that position.”

NTA. You can’t fix him, he needs professional help

Don’t sacrifice your mental health for someone who won’t change.

Age gap in relationship? Let the judgment begin!

Don’t drown yourself trying to save someone who won’t swim ️

NTA: Kick him out and don’t look back.

Encouraging professional help in relationships

OP urged to set boundaries and give ultimatum for boyfriend’s growth.

Commenter sympathizes with the woman’s naive perspective on relationships.

NTA, but beware of red flags. Offer therapy, reconsider relationship.

NTA. Seek legal advice to protect your rights and assets.