In life, we meet people that we vibe with and we begin to spend some time with them. Many times, we are just getting to know someone, so we don’t know everything about them. As we get to know them, we uncover things about them we had no idea about.
Sometimes, this can be a good thing. We can possibly discover parts of them that we adore and fall in love with. However, it can also be a negative thing. We can discover parts of their life we had no idea existed.
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When we begin the “talking stage” with someone, we don’t anticipate them being taken.
When we’re linking up with someone and getting to know them, we don’t always expect or anticipate that they are taken. If someone is putting themselves out there to get to know someone—and even date them—we don’t assume they are a dog who is two-timing someone else.
We oftentimes want to give people the benefit of the doubt.
You know, we don’t want to assume everyone in the world is a total snake and a cheater. However, if social media and other people’s stories have taught us anything, it’s to keep our guard way up until proven otherwise. It seems more and more, people are showing their dirty colors lately.
One TikTok user shared that she had been linking up with a guy when she discovered the truth.
TikTok user Klarisse said she had been seeing a guy and the two had been intimate with each other when she was at his house one day and she uncovered that he actually had a girlfriend. Being cheated on totally sucks, but finding out you’re the “other woman” without actually knowing you were the other woman—that’s a whole other type of betrayal.
Klarisse found some beauty and makeup products in the guy’s house.
Uncovering that his girlfriend actually had things at his place, such as hair care products and makeup, Klarisse clearly knew that the girlfriend was real and pretty serious—not just anyone keeps things at their boyfriend’s house, but someone who is a long-term commitment.
Klarisse wanted to leave a warning to the girlfriend.
Rather than leaving something that the guy could see or clean up and hide, Klarisse decided to act smart and act quick. She opened one of the makeup draws and left a message for her fellow sister who was also being played like a fool.
Klarisse took one of the lipsticks and tissue and wrote a note.
In bright red lipstick, she wrote on the tissue , “he is a cheater.” Then, she opened one of the drawers and carefully, meticulously, and deviously hid the tissue in there—where the guy would not look nor see it.
Then, she left the house—but, not before she told him off.
Klarisse shared that she left the note and then proceeded to tell the guy off, letting him know how much of a crap person he is. Then, she left the house and never looked back. She felt somewhat better knowing she also warned his girlfriend of his dirty, dirty moves.
People on TikTok were obsessed with this and were so thrilled that Klarisse was looking out for her fellow sister.
Many TikTok users said that Klarisse is “a boss” for not leaving before she had a chance to let the other girl know that her man was a two-timing jerk. Some said Klarisse is also “better than most women,” who sometimes blame the other woman instead of the man at all.
Others said she is “brilliant” for the note.
Many women pointed out that whenever girls leave things behind—like jewelry, makeup, shoes, etc.—to try and showcase that another woman was there, guys tend to make up excuses like, “my mom came over,” or “that’s my sister’s,” rather than admit they were actually cheating.
And, others left suggestions (in case it ever happens to anyone else).
Many said that to add to the “note,” always leave a date. That way, you can have a timeframe and a timeline for how long things have been going on and know when it was happening. Sometimes, women think of everything!
