A woman in her 40s has faced criticism from a colleague after stating that she does not want to have children. Despite being content with her life, the woman was told that she would change her mind and that having kids would be fulfilling. The woman responded by saying that having kids would ruin her life and that it’s not something she ever wants. The colleague became upset and filed a complaint with HR. The woman wonders if she was in the wrong for her response. Read on to find out more about the situation and share your thoughts on whether she was being insensitive.
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Woman faces backlash for saying no to kids
A woman is facing backlash after expressing her desire to not have kids. The woman, who is happily single and content with her life, was repeatedly asked when she was going to have kids by a coworker. When she stated that she never wanted kids and that having them would ruin her life, the coworker became persistent and accused her of being selfish. The woman stood her ground, but the coworker filed a complaint with HR. While some may argue that the woman could have handled the situation with more tact, it’s important to respect others’ decisions and not force societal norms onto them. The discussion around having children can be a sensitive topic, and it’s crucial to remember that not everyone wants or needs to be a parent. Let’s explore the reactions to this woman’s story in the comments below.
NTA. Contact HR and file a complaint against harassment.

Choosing not to have kids doesn’t equal hating kids ♀️

Woman faces harassment for not wanting kids at work

Support for standing up against harassment about family status.

Choosing not to have kids and facing judgment from society.

NTA for saying kids would ruin your life – honesty is rare.

Cheers to single, child-free women!

Stand your ground and document it!

Parenthood isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay

Support for standing up to harassment in the workplace
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Support for woman’s decision to not have kids, with a warning.

Stand up to inappropriate comments at work. #NotYourBodyNotYourBusiness

Standing up against harassment for choosing not to have kids

Don’t let anyone shame you for your choices! You go girl! ✊

Working with kids lovers can be challenging

Live your life , not hers. NTA wins this round!

Woman gets HR complaint for not wanting kids. NTA

Not everyone wants kids. NTA shut down the harassment

Choosing not to have kids is valid. Don’t let anyone judge.

Support for standing up against pressure to have children.

Blunt approach to NTA comment sparks agreement and shared experiences.

Jealousy or valid concern? NTA gets mixed reactions

Defend your boundaries at work NTA

NTA stands up to entitled coworker’s inappropriate harassment

Supportive response to workplace conflict, seek HR help ✌

NTA and advice to talk to HR.

Commenter defends not being sympathetic towards the situation

Support for not wanting kids, confusion over complaint threat

Redditors unanimously declare OP as TA

Woman receives support for choosing not to have kids.

Defending personal choices and standing up to harassment.

Choosing puppies over kids? This commenter is all in

Defending OP’s lifestyle choices NTA wins this round!

Standing up to a miserable co-worker, NTA

Honesty wins: commenter praised for not giving in to pressure

Support for setting boundaries against unsolicited advice at work

Support for standing up to health-shaming, NTA

Choosing to not have kids is a personal choice

Women shouldn’t be shamed for not wanting kids

Confusion arises over poster’s age in comments section

Having kids is selfish: a heartfelt comment on the realities.

Refreshing to hear someone not want kids. NTA

Stand up for yourself

Supportive response to NTA comment with a call to action ✊

Raising kids in the US: expensive and challenging. NTA.

Choosing not to have kids is a personal decision. NTA

Double standards in society’s view on having or not having kids
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Supportive reply to a commenter’s experience of harassment and validation.

Not every woman wants kids #NormalizeChoice

Boundaries matter: Respect people’s privacy and choices

40s, no kids: Life ruined if I did. NTA, haters are.
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Choosing to be childless is a valid option

Choosing not to have kids is a personal decision

Normalize women’s choice to not reproduce. #LiveYourLife

Respectful NTA comment defends choice not to have children

Fight back against workplace bullying

32-year-old woman stands up for herself against societal pressure

Commenter sympathizes with NTA and expresses frustration with societal pressure.

Choosing not to have kids should be respected.

Respectful NTA comment defends personal choice, shuts down criticism

Child-free individual receives pressure from jealous parents.
